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#1 User is offline   crayon851 

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Posted 23 April 2009 - 11:52 AM

April has been the worst month I've ever experienced in the last year. In this month, my girlfriend dumps me and ruins my long weekend, I get a ticket for speeding while other cars are travelling at the same speed, I lock myself out of my place, and to top it off someone managed to steal money from my bank account. Can't muster the energy to get to the gym sleep.gif, i used to go everyday!

So, my girlfriend calls me up at 3am and breaks up with me at the beginning of my long weekend with little to no explanation. So of course this keeps me up. Now, this pretty much ruined my long weekend because now I'm constantly thinking about it and can't enjoy this weekend at all!

I'm driving home one night and a cop decides to pull me over going 20/hr over the limit, which everyone else was doing as well. I was almost home too!

I'm in a rush to get to work, and end up leaving my keys in my track pants.

Someone managed to get into my bank account and start withdrawing money while I'm sitting in my room browsing soompi forums. I still have my card on me and I also rarely use it. WTF!!


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Posted 23 April 2009 - 12:11 PM

^wow.. that sucks! hope things get better.

i wont go into details but yeah,
mine would be march & april of this year!
like, omg.. i just cant believe the things that's been happening..
besides the economy falling apart and everything,
it's just ridiculous.. i feel like im being punished or something?

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Posted 23 April 2009 - 05:38 PM

i feel ya. i got a speeding ticket right infront of my goddam house at night too 2 weeks ago...going 15mph over the supposed limit of 25...fkkin aye.
still waiting for it to be processed so i can pay it off and go to traffic school and get it over with!

i hope you get your bank account problem fixed!! don't let that person take more money O_O


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Posted 23 April 2009 - 06:43 PM

Wow that sucks D: I hope you can sort out the bank account thing soon >o< Unlucky for the speeding ticket too. ]:

My worst month? December 15th 2008 - January 11th 2009.

I got pregnant in November (intentionally, s/o wanted a baby too). Then the economy collapsed. >___<;
Then, to make things worse, I started bleeding (constantly) on December 15th. Lightly at first, then it got heavier.

Spent the end of 2008 and the first week of 2009 in and out of hospital being scanned, poked, prodded and violated constantly,
in an attempt to find out what was wrong with me and my pregnancy and make sure it wasn't ectopic.. >__<
I was told to 'hope' for miscarriage because if it was ectopic I'd need keyhole surgery and could lose a fallopian tube o__0
I was in a lot of pain because my body was trying to miscarry and one of the male gyn's was really rough and made me cry T____T

Eventually, on January 7th (my 11 month anniversary with my s/o..) I haemorrhaged really badly but failed to miscarry.
The day after that my uterus freaked, and started spasming like crazy and I collapsed in agony and almost had to be rushed to hospital,
but mum's a nurse and had antispasmodic pills to hand.
Eventually miscarried on the 11th, days before I was scheduled to go and have an operation to remove it manually.

And then I felt really miserable and cried everyday for about another month. Especially when I saw babies and pregnant women. sad.gif

Aish. T______T

My mum was talking about it the other day and suddenly burst into tears and was like 'I'd have done anything to take that away from you,
it was so horrible seeing you having to go through that T__T' :[ <3

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Posted 24 April 2009 - 06:29 AM

uhmm .. I'd have to say that my worst month was a few months ago where everything just kind of fell appart.. 2 of my family members became
very ill, I lost my job, my house and my car. THings were looking pretty down .. However i just started getting back on my feet ! New winds always
blow your way. =)
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Posted 24 April 2009 - 08:45 AM

QUOTE (chilovesjj @ Apr 23 2009, 07:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow that sucks D: I hope you can sort out the bank account thing soon >o< Unlucky for the speeding ticket too. ]:

My worst month? December 15th 2008 - January 11th 2009.

I got pregnant in November (intentionally, s/o wanted a baby too). Then the economy collapsed. >___<;
Then, to make things worse, I started bleeding (constantly) on December 15th. Lightly at first, then it got heavier.

Spent the end of 2008 and the first week of 2009 in and out of hospital being scanned, poked, prodded and violated constantly,
in an attempt to find out what was wrong with me and my pregnancy and make sure it wasn't ectopic.. >__<
I was told to 'hope' for miscarriage because if it was ectopic I'd need keyhole surgery and could lose a fallopian tube o__0
I was in a lot of pain because my body was trying to miscarry and one of the male gyn's was really rough and made me cry T____T

Eventually, on January 7th (my 11 month anniversary with my s/o..) I haemorrhaged really badly but failed to miscarry.
The day after that my uterus freaked, and started spasming like crazy and I collapsed in agony and almost had to be rushed to hospital,
but mum's a nurse and had antispasmodic pills to hand.
Eventually miscarried on the 11th, days before I was scheduled to go and have an operation to remove it manually.

And then I felt really miserable and cried everyday for about another month. Especially when I saw babies and pregnant women. sad.gif

Aish. T______T

My mum was talking about it the other day and suddenly burst into tears and was like 'I'd have done anything to take that away from you,
it was so horrible seeing you having to go through that T__T' :[ <3


Oh my goodness.
I am so sorry! You went through so much physical and emotional pain.
I hope you recover soon<3

Mine was...... May 2005.
I was just going through depression.
But I am SO over that (:


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Posted 24 April 2009 - 12:43 PM

For me, middle of 2008 and early 2009 was the worst for me. I went through alot mentally, physically, and emotionally. It was to the point I always felt tired and drained.
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Posted 24 April 2009 - 11:53 PM

So far the start of this year hasn't been very good for me. Actually if i think about it its been down right rather infelicitous, and it all pretty much relates to this girl at school, who for some unknown reason can make me feel so insecure about things. I just feel dejected because i have been trying so hard lately, but no one honestly appreciates the efforts
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Posted 25 April 2009 - 12:51 AM

Hey! I had money taken out of my account too at the beginning of the month... it was about $300 charged from a "pizza.nu" which google told me was some pizza restaurant in Europe somewhere. I put in an unauthorised transaction claim in with the bank but I couldn't get the money back because I hadn't registered for some free "verified by VISA" service that VISA runs (what a load of crap). Afterwards I saw on the news that some card skimming scam is happening all around the country and millions have been charged from locations around Europe. Makes me lose all confidence in using ATMs.

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I just went to the bank's website and complained about them lying about protecting their customers from fraud and zero liability for unauthorised transactions policy laugh.gif, though they'll probably find some fine print somewhere that tells me otherwise.
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Posted 25 April 2009 - 01:27 PM

i don't think mine even really qualifies as being that bad but still...

This january I went over to korea, ostensibly for a week and a bit with my brother, going snowboarding, then celebrating the lunar new year and australia day in out own style... ie getting painfully drunk

Anyway, the first day up the mountain I crash into a girl who for some stupid reason was stopped in the middle of the slope. Having collected her, we slid down the slop for about 10 metres or so... on my back. This had the unfortunate side effect of grinding my back into the snow and subsequently the ice. The ice opened a gash about a foot long and 3 and a half inches in my gluteus maximus completely severing it. Lost about a litre of blood in the process. Almost 10 hours after the crash, I was operated on. Took 2-3 hours i guess to sew me back up. 17 stitches on the outside, who knows how many on the inside. After that it was another 2 weeks in hospital in Seoul and then the actual week of holiday i was there for. I was on crutches for 2 months, ended up being off work for 6 weeks.
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Posted 26 April 2009 - 02:52 AM

hmm =( that sucks these past two weeks have been heel and back for me =D
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 10:08 AM

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 12:30 PM

I guess for me, my worst month was probably September 1990. That was the month I was sweating whether the US would implement a draft for the first Gulf War and if I would be a candidate.
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 04:38 PM

QUOTE (ayahuasca @ Apr 25 2009, 05:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i don't think mine even really qualifies as being that bad but still...

This january I went over to korea, ostensibly for a week and a bit with my brother, going snowboarding, then celebrating the lunar new year and australia day in out own style... ie getting painfully drunk

Anyway, the first day up the mountain I crash into a girl who for some stupid reason was stopped in the middle of the slope. Having collected her, we slid down the slop for about 10 metres or so... on my back. This had the unfortunate side effect of grinding my back into the snow and subsequently the ice. The ice opened a gash about a foot long and 3 and a half inches in my gluteus maximus completely severing it. Lost about a litre of blood in the process. Almost 10 hours after the crash, I was operated on. Took 2-3 hours i guess to sew me back up. 17 stitches on the outside, who knows how many on the inside. After that it was another 2 weeks in hospital in Seoul and then the actual week of holiday i was there for. I was on crutches for 2 months, ended up being off work for 6 weeks.



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Posted 27 April 2009 - 07:12 PM

Worst month ever... the last seven years, basically.

I got sick with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity when I was sixteen and I'm almost 23 now. To summarize VERY shortly, I somehow graduated from high school, but I had to move about 15 times looking for a place to live that wouldn't make me sick. I gave up a $52,000 scholarship to university, in fact dropped out of university three times due to severe episodes. I was stuck in a room by myself, unable to go out, to meet people, to touch another human being, or to sleep at night, in constant excruciating pain, for the majority of the last seven years. Didn't know what was wrong for the first three, so I went to constant know-nothing doctors and now I hate them all. smile.gif

The worst month though, that was December 2006. My dad got transferred to the middle east for his job (works for ExxonMobil) and they sprayed pesticides in our compound three times within three months. By December I wasn't sleeping, wasn't wearing clothes, and spent all my time hunched over in excruciating pain. 100% of my skin was like a burn victim's - oozing constantly, with no top layer. I was very close to dying. The company medically evacuated me to a clinic in Dallas, Texas where I spent the next 7 months.

Thank God, after a lot of very difficult treatment, things are much better now, and I hope to start university again in three weeks. I can't wait. smile.gif But I'll never be the same person I was. Still, I feel like I've gained a lot from the hardship I went through. (Although it took me a while to come around to that way of thinking, lol. Much easier to say it now.)
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 07:29 PM

QUOTE (chilovesjj @ Apr 23 2009, 09:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow that sucks D: I hope you can sort out the bank account thing soon >o< Unlucky for the speeding ticket too. ]:

My worst month? December 15th 2008 - January 11th 2009.

I got pregnant in November (intentionally, s/o wanted a baby too). Then the economy collapsed. >___<;
Then, to make things worse, I started bleeding (constantly) on December 15th. Lightly at first, then it got heavier.

Spent the end of 2008 and the first week of 2009 in and out of hospital being scanned, poked, prodded and violated constantly,
in an attempt to find out what was wrong with me and my pregnancy and make sure it wasn't ectopic.. >__<
I was told to 'hope' for miscarriage because if it was ectopic I'd need keyhole surgery and could lose a fallopian tube o__0
I was in a lot of pain because my body was trying to miscarry and one of the male gyn's was really rough and made me cry T____T

Eventually, on January 7th (my 11 month anniversary with my s/o..) I haemorrhaged really badly but failed to miscarry.
The day after that my uterus freaked, and started spasming like crazy and I collapsed in agony and almost had to be rushed to hospital,
but mum's a nurse and had antispasmodic pills to hand.
Eventually miscarried on the 11th, days before I was scheduled to go and have an operation to remove it manually.

And then I felt really miserable and cried everyday for about another month. Especially when I saw babies and pregnant women. sad.gif

Aish. T______T

My mum was talking about it the other day and suddenly burst into tears and was like 'I'd have done anything to take that away from you,
it was so horrible seeing you having to go through that T__T' :[ <3


i'm gonna guess that you take the crown for this one....

sorry for your loss but hopefully your body is still capable of reproduction.

how old are you if you don't mind my asking?
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 12:34 PM

^thankyou, (: my doctor said that I should still be able to have a healthy pregnancy in the future, even though the miscarriage wasn't straightforward. She gave me some advice on things I can do to minimize my risks in the future so I hope next time things will be ok.

I'm only 21, which admittedly is quite young to be settling down and having children, but it's something that both my partner and I wanted and felt ready for (well, as ready as you can feel, since I think you never really know exactly what you've let yourself in for until you are actually a parent!). I guess at least I still have a lot of fertile years left in which to try again. My s/o's mum told me her sister had a miscarriage in her first pregnancy, and went on to have like, 6 or 7 kids!

In hindsight it would have been bad for us financially if the pregnancy hadn't terminated itself, though, painful as it was. My work contract ended around New Year (they'd considered extending my contract but I guess all the complications with my pregnancy made them decide against that..) and because of the recession, hardly anyone is hiring so I've only just recently managed to get a few interviews for jobs, I've had no luck at all the past few months. I want to make sure we definitely have enough money and more secure jobs next time around. smile.gif

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Posted 28 April 2009 - 07:16 PM

every month following the last month for the last 2 years have been the worst month of my life. ever since i've started my this job, i've been stressed out and pushed to the limit over and over. it's so frustrating that even though i put in 12-16 hours a day to work the skills that i need for my job, after 2 years it's still not enough. in fact, my progress seems going negative! and this month has been so stupidly bad.

everyday i have to think about my future in this business. if i quit, i'm screwed because there's no other alternative for me. if i keep going, will i make? or will i just be wasting my life, and get screwed then?

i wished i knew how to gave up.
i wished i was an ignorant idiot and fricking accept the blueprint of life like everyone else.
i don't want my ambition. just take my individuality!

i've been stuck in life's crisis for.. 7 years... wow. i really shouldn't have counted that.

i wished i knew how to relax. i wished i knew what happiness was.
i wished i was good at my job so that i could resume my life and make up all those years.
i wished i had all this weight, ticking timeclock and the grim reaper off my back.

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i wished i had a genie. =)


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Posted 29 April 2009 - 08:25 AM

QUOTE (crayon851 @ Apr 23 2009, 02:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Someone managed to get into my bank account and start withdrawing money while I'm sitting in my room browsing soompi forums. I still have my card on me and I also rarely use it. WTF!!

whats' your worst month?


QUOTE (boka @ Apr 25 2009, 03:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey! I had money taken out of my account too at the beginning of the month... it was about $300 charged from a "pizza.nu" which google told me was some pizza restaurant in Europe somewhere. I put in an unauthorised transaction claim in with the bank but I couldn't get the money back because I hadn't registered for some free "verified by VISA" service that VISA runs (what a load of crap). Afterwards I saw on the news that some card skimming scam is happening all around the country and millions have been charged from locations around Europe. Makes me lose all confidence in using ATMs.

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I just went to the bank's website and complained about them lying about protecting their customers from fraud and zero liability for unauthorised transactions policy laugh.gif , though they'll probably find some fine print somewhere that tells me otherwise.

My bank account got hacked a couple of months ago...was it February. I check my bank accounts and credit cards every morning (since I DO shop online all the time), and that morning was I in for a surprise. The vender said Myspace.com (I know...that's what I said) and had withdrawn I think it was $3600 dollars in 4 separate purchases. I think my heart literally stopped and time froze because I remember my mouth dropping and not breathing for minute. When I collected myself I called my bank..Regions...if you're in the South stay away from them!! I knew I should have switched all my accounts when AmSouth merged with them, my dad had told me the crappiness of them already. Anyway, when I called they said they couldn't handle claims over 600$ on the phone. I went to the bank immediately hoping they'd put a stop on the charges. So this lady tells me word for word, "there's nothing we can do until the pending transactions clear the system (meaning: they get the money anyway). After they clear you can file a dispute, which will take 10 days to clear before the money will be reimbursed. Then another two months while the investigation goes on....But you won't get charged any overdraft fees...." dry.gif mad.gif fury.gif

I remember exactly what she said because I wanted to punch her when she said it. My other bank wouldn't even had let it get that far, they call people immediately when they suspect fradulent charges because they monitor your banking closely, any sudden changes they're on the phone. That I know because almost all my friends also bank there and have experienced that. I don't think I slept well or really knew what I was doing 'til my money was returned...The lady took my card and never gave me a new one, which is okay, I'm done with them. Something else happened in that time frame...but I can't remember, so it probably wasn't nearly as bad as having my money stolen. I spend but I'm stingy so that was crazy for me. All the better now, I use PayPal Plug-in/Paypal to make 90% of all my online purchase now. According to my friends though I was amazingly calm about the whole thing...wish they could have seen me inside!

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Posted 30 April 2009 - 06:42 PM

QUOTE (crayon851 @ Apr 23 2009, 02:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
April has been the worst month I've ever experienced in the last year. In this month, my girlfriend dumps me and ruins my long weekend, I get a ticket for speeding while other cars are travelling at the same speed, I lock myself out of my place, and to top it off someone managed to steal money from my bank account. Can't muster the energy to get to the gym sleep.gif, i used to go everyday!

So, my girlfriend calls me up at 3am and breaks up with me at the beginning of my long weekend with little to no explanation. So of course this keeps me up. Now, this pretty much ruined my long weekend because now I'm constantly thinking about it and can't enjoy this weekend at all!

I'm driving home one night and a cop decides to pull me over going 20/hr over the limit, which everyone else was doing as well. I was almost home too!

I'm in a rush to get to work, and end up leaving my keys in my track pants.

Someone managed to get into my bank account and start withdrawing money while I'm sitting in my room browsing soompi forums. I still have my card on me and I also rarely use it. WTF!!


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yeah you and I both you think that's bad

Two weeks ago not only was i told I was FIRED by some jerk or a manager but in the same day I was in a car accident. My car was F#!king total by some jerk who wasn't paying attention to the damn road. My car is RED I was at a stop. According to him he was to busy playing with his radio and didn't see that my vehicle was at a DEAD stop. Kids were getting off a bus in the sates of Florida the other two lanes to the right unless there is a divider must stop. So I obey the law but the guy behind me didn't. Smack the back of my vehicle and I hit another car in front of me. My car was the only car that got total. I was so mad cause my mom was in the car with me and she has back problems. I wanted to beat the hell out of that guy cause I'm out of a damn car and a job. So I'm going to college now. I figure I can't find job so I'm collecting unemployment checks but i should put my a$$ through college and earn my degree in criminal psychology. there is some good in the mess up that i'm in.

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