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Jerk From Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Jerk

#1 ddqqww

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:18 PM

How to be a jerk?
Transforming from MR. Nice, Quiet Guy to MR. Jerk, loud Guy..

#2 chopstick^^

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:19 PM

why? ... being nice is the best! People who have problem probably ain't that nice. True Nice people dnt have problem being nice!

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:26 PM

QUOTE (chopstick^^ @ Apr 27 2009, 03:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

why? ... being nice is the best! People who have problem probably ain't that nice. True Nice people dnt have problem being nice!

Recently i found out that being nice is boring to girls.
Although being a jerk may look bad, but it's actually entertains the girls..
I'm trying to find a way to be a jerk without offending..

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:27 PM

QUOTE (ddqqww @ Apr 27 2009, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

How to be a jerk?
Transforming from MR. Nice, Quiet Guy to MR. Jerk, loud Guy..

lol..

that's easy! i know plenty of jerks.

but why would u want to be a jerk tho?

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:31 PM

QUOTE (gisbiz @ Apr 27 2009, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

lol..

that's easy! i know plenty of jerks.

but why would u want to be a jerk tho?

better not be referring to who i think u r

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:32 PM

QUOTE (jonogunn @ Apr 27 2009, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

better not be referring to who i think u r

why dont you help him out? heard u were pretty good in that field.

I would never let a woman kick my ass. If she tried something, I'd be like, HEY! You get your b*tch ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:32 PM

Nice guys are boring to girls,

Ways to be a jerk?

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:33 PM

Any girl who would prefer you to be a jerk is not someone worth your time. She should accept you as you are.

Don't get excited, I rarely post.

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:37 PM

QUOTE (Lie @ Apr 27 2009, 05:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Any girl who would prefer you to be a jerk is not someone worth your time. She should accept you as you are.

jerks arent bad.. u know?

I would never let a woman kick my ass. If she tried something, I'd be like, HEY! You get your b*tch ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!
-Eric Cartman, South Park

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:41 PM

i hate jerks.... ~_~

just be the way you are lol.

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:46 PM

QUOTE (gisbiz @ Apr 27 2009, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

jerks arent bad.. u know?

I suppose if you're a jerk by nature and can't help it, it's not so bad. But being rude to people because you think that's what women want is misguided.

Don't get excited, I rarely post.

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:49 PM

QUOTE (Lie @ Apr 27 2009, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I suppose if you're a jerk by nature and can't help it, it's not so bad. But being rude to people because you think that's what women want is misguided.

y r u always right huh?

I would never let a woman kick my ass. If she tried something, I'd be like, HEY! You get your b*tch ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:54 PM

Reason why?
I like this girl, but I'm quiet and she always tells me to talk more

She told me once that I was nice and funny, I think to repulse a joke she said
Anyways I noticed there was another guy she's friends with..
She's more yelling/hitting like a married couple you know?
But that guy's like the jerkish type; he doesn't care what other people think of him
Yu can say I'm jealous somewhat, I'm tired of being quiet , quiet, kiss-ass, nice
But that's how the world works I learned,
Jerks > nice quiet guys

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:56 PM

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#15 gisbiz

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:57 PM

QUOTE (ddqqww @ Apr 27 2009, 05:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Nice guys are boring to girls,

nooo dont ever change for a girl..
once you do.. they'll decide that they want the nice guy.

I would never let a woman kick my ass. If she tried something, I'd be like, HEY! You get your b*tch ass back in the kitchen and make me some pie!
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Posted 27 April 2009 - 02:58 PM

If you're challenging, then girls will like the challenge - at least, that's how I see it. But being a complete and total jerk - no.
Girls may be attracted to jerks, but we don't really want a jerk. We want someone who is nice, but not too nice to make us think you're a pushover, or something just to make us happy, because, yes, that can get a little boring. Spice up things, y'know? Do things that'll make us think about you a lot. But then again, every girl is different with what they want. Just be yourself and look for someone who'll appreciate you as yourself :)

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 03:11 PM

Being nice isn't boring. But being boring is boring. Boring hasn't got anything to do with being nice imo. People who think that haven't met a true nice person. This is because there are people who ain't nice, and is boring.

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 03:29 PM

Then how do you be creative / fun / not boring& corny?

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 03:31 PM

QUOTE (ddqqww @ Apr 27 2009, 06:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Then how do you be creative / fun / not boring& corny?

o.O? I think you need to watch some romantic comedies lol...

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Posted 27 April 2009 - 03:43 PM

I don't think women are looking for a jerk exactly. Unless of course, they're convinced they'll go through similar experiences in a few misleading dramas (DBY anyone?).

Anyway, you don't have to become a jerk to get women to like you. Besides, wouldn't doing so be lying to them, and yourself? I'm saying, just be yourself. You can totally be the nice person you are now and just open up more. Make yourself seem more inviting, approachable, and/or willing to talk in conversations.

And you can't get the interest of all women being one type of person. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion (or at least should be). This is why being yourself matters most because you'll eventually come across those who like you for who you are, not a plastic jerk