[Tayl]

So, what is it about "Nice Guys" that cause their hearts to get stomped on by women and people in general?

[Tuxedomask]

Not true.

Nice guys always finish first when we find the right girl who deserves to be treated like a queen. We just choose not to manipulate girls and hurt them on purpose, like the so called bad boys...lol...

[&rea]

It's because most of the "nice guys" you're talking about aren't nice guys, they're actually just pushovers. There's a difference between being nice and being a pushover, and no one really wants a pushover in the end.

[MISS-xaxa]

Or nice guys are just THERE. Given that if he liked the girl, he would somehow express it to her, other than constantly being there. Most nice guys DON'T confess to the girl until it's too late.

Sure, you can always be there for her, give her a shoulder to cry on and etc etc etc, but if you don't step outside of JUST being a nice friend then nothing is going to happen because the girl isn't going to be like; "Why are you so nice to me? Do you like me?"

Maybe sometimes it isn't about nice guys finishing last, but rather it's about the guy who is willing to step up to the plate who finishes first.

[chopstick^^]

nice guy's are taken by nice girls.

[annabeelee]

bc they dont ever tell the girl they like her. or they cling. or they just need to man up and stop whining about "finishing last" and actually get out there. :]

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

^ Hahaha, word. Guys who fail to MAN UP finish last.
Nice guys end up doing better in the long run, imo.

[Fly for Fun:D]

It's because most of the "nice guys" you're talking about aren't nice guys, they're actually just pushovers. There's a difference between being nice and being a pushover, and no one really wants a pushover in the end.

True. Being a nice guy doesn't label the guy as clingy, pushover, etc. You can be nice without those traits that are stereotypically (in a negative sense) attached to the term "nice guy."

[supa'Wanki]

Huh? I never got my heart stomped on by women!

[screamxlove]

Not all nice guys finish last. There's a nice guy in like.. almost every guy out there. If the guy's a pushover, then... there's something that needs to be fixed :|

[Regina Rae]

Some nice guys do come in first~.

[xwinnie_lovex]

because girls these days just tend to fall for those so called bad boys who treat them badly

cuse we want the excitement of the chase
and nice guys just let us have everything with no fun and games

well thats just with young people i guess
(and im young so thats how i feel xD)

when i get older i'll prob start to appreciate the really nice guys :]

[heheimawesome]

i don't consider myself a nice guy but i get played by this girl
over and over againnnnn and apparently some other guys have been mislead by her too. thats what they told me at least

oh well! it doesnt hurt anymore.. just another lesson learned. my next girlfriend i wont be so stupid

but i wonder if im a push over to her only. to everyone else i know for sure im not a push over... but for HER.... maybe i am. maybe thats why she can play me so easily

[yasmie]

My theory is that nice guys often become the 'best friend' of the girl.
The guy that she turns to when her boyfriend just broke up with her.
He's there to say "don't worry, you deserve so much better than him!"
There to give her support when she needs it.
And he ends up falling for her but doesn't say anything because it would ruin their 'friendship'.
So she goes on dating other guys and always end up turning back to the nice guy.
In the end, he either ends up going out with her when she realizes they're perfect for each other
or he finds a girl that's just as nice as him and deserves him for the person he is.
THE END! Hahaha (:

[nailbunny]

Is it because "nice guys" tend to shy away from the girl?
Girls like confidence.

Or maybe because some of the nice guys are actually social rejects and need something to make themselves feel better. -shrug-

[_ambrosia]

My boyfriend is a nice guy, really nice and funny, but he doesn't finish last.
I think when you are with the appropriate group of people, and accepted for who you are then you won't finish last.

if you are with the wrong group of people and a pushover, don't voice what needs to be voiced, and such, and keep mum, you're basically going to finish last.
So just be confident and you won't finish last. This relates both to finding a girl, and friends. =)

[Pogichinoy]

To the OP: I believe you are refering to 'nice guys that are chicken/shy', those are the nice guys that finish last.

The nice guys that are confident, never finish last.

[superELLE]

My boy is the nicest guy I've ever met.

I made the first move for a lot of things though! Ahah, but I don't care. =] It's worth it!

[NONE.LIKEYOU]

I don't know what world you're living in, but nice guys are pretty up there on my list

"Nice Guys Finish Last"? No, more like "Nice Guys Who Try Too Hard and Are Borderline Stalkers Finish Last".

There is an air of mystery clouding the Bad Boy, but unless the bad boy is sweet to you, you're not going to fall for him.
Nice guys are just as capable; they can do the disappearing trick too (I wonder if anyone understands how I term things =o=).

Girls like it when guys aren't too pushy and throw themselves right beneath the girls' feet. The term nice guy just often has that connotation?

[heheman]

at the present usually guys who can't stand up for themselves and always please the others are called "nice guys", in that case, they never really finish.