[and i sayd]

So there is this girl who asked me to Senior Ball ONE YEAR ahead of time so she had dibs . Anyways during pictures I asked her if I could drive my friends there instead of taking the limo because they wanted to drink and they were short one driver and I didn't want anyone to get hurt, she said yes but gave me that look and I said okay nevermind ill stay with you since your my date. We danced together most of the night but she went to the bathroom etc and that's where I left her to dance with a couple of other girls. One time I danced with my friend and she came up behind me and started dancing with me for like 30 seconds then left. One other time I made this mistake, I was dancing with her then I saw this girl and pulled her towards me and started dancing with her :/. So she's mad at me because I left her a couple of times I mean did she want me to stick with her the whole night? Should I be the mad one? I don't want to confront her seeing that it might cause more trouble.

[Meenuh]

What relation is she to you? Gf? Friend? Or just someone you know? Really depends. If it's your gf then i'd say that's pretty messed up. Other than that, I don't see it being too big of a deal.

[and i sayd]

What relation is she to you? Gf? Friend? Or just someone you know? Really depends. If it's your gf then i'd say that's pretty messed up. Other than that, I don't see it being too big of a deal.

just a friend

[supa'Wanki]

I don't want to confront her seeing that it might cause more trouble.

=O You call yourself a guy? So what are you going to do, whine like a baby and just sit on your ass not doing anything about this? Talk to her even if she doesn't want to. Man up and demand her to talk to you. You two need to clear things out. Don't be an ass about it and be closed minded. Understand where she's coming from and make her understand you too. Communication is pretty damn important in friendship.

[oxoX_Kotori_Xoxo]

if she's your girlfriend. then, i think you put yourself in a bad situation.
if she's just a friend. then, you don't need to worry. but, if she's mad, i think she has feelings for you. and if you kinda have feelings for her... your screwed. okay okay, you can work this out.
just talk to her casually. ^^
and no, you shouldn't be mad at all.

[diana78]

well, it's kind of weird to start dancing with someone else WHILE you're dancing with her...but it sounds to me like she's feeling possessive but trying to be cool about it- like she wants you to chase her or something. i dunno. I think neither of you should be mad. She just needs to figure out her own feelings towards you. IMO.

[and i sayd]

=O You call yourself a guy? So what are you going to do, whine like a baby and just sit on your ass not doing anything about this? Talk to her even if she doesn't want to. Man up and demand her to talk to you. You two need to clear things out. Don't be an ass about it and be closed minded. Understand where she's coming from and make her understand you too. Communication is pretty damn important in friendship.

im sorry im a pinkyberry D: hehe :/ any other advice except to talk to her

[supa'Wanki]

im sorry im a pinkyberry D: hehe :/ any other advice except to talk to her

If you're not going to talk to her, forget about her. You're pathetic and a pinkberry. Why are you so scared? Man up. I'm giving you the best advice anyone can give you.

[Tuxedomask]

If you're not going to talk to her, forget about her. You're pathetic and a pinkberry. Why are you so scared? Man up. I'm giving you the best advice anyone can give you.

lol...

A little harsh...but I'm going to have to agree with this.

[and i sayd]

If you're not going to talk to her, forget about her. You're pathetic and a pinkberry. Why are you so scared? Man up. I'm giving you the best advice anyone can give you.

because Im not sure if she's mad at me or not I can only assume or maybe Im just overeacting on this situation I have no problem talking about it I just want to make sure im not overreacting over something trivial

[Tuxedomask]

because Im not sure if she's mad at me or not I can only assume or maybe Im just overeacting on this situation I have no problem talking about it I just want to make sure im not overreacting over something trivial

She's the one over-reacting and it doesn't matter if you're not sure or not. The point is you have to CLEAR things up and the only way to CLEAR things is to talk to her straight up about it. Make it clear that you were just having fun with YOUR friends and although she was YOUR date that doesn't mean you have to be stuck with her for the rest of the night.

Take charge of the situation.

[AnthonyKkoKko]

She's the one over-reacting and it doesn't matter if you're not sure or not. The point is you have to CLEAR things up and the only way to CLEAR things is to talk to her straight up about it. Make it clear that you were just having fun with YOUR friends and although she was YOUR date that doesn't mean you have to be stuck with her for the rest of the night.

Take charge of the situation.

(quoted for the truth!!)
just wanted to quote it and comment myself so you know somebody else agrees
beat me to it D:
wait...
ok....
k.
now i know my post is long enough. ^^

[and i sayd]

She's the one over-reacting and it doesn't matter if you're not sure or not. The point is you have to CLEAR things up and the only way to CLEAR things is to talk to her straight up about it. Make it clear that you were just having fun with YOUR friends and although she was YOUR date that doesn't mean you have to be stuck with her for the rest of the night.

Take charge of the situation.

kay just the motivation I needed thanks

[onFiRE*]

Dude wtf, you left her to dance with other girls when she went to the bathroom? You could have at least told her you were going to. I mean, she probably came out of the washroom and was like "wtf, where is he?" You pretty much ditched her. And not only that, you ditched her again in the middle of DANCING with her. I'm sorry, but that is just sooooo rude. Not only that, you also hurt her pride and embarrassed her. If I were her, I'd be hella pissed too. If you didn't want to stay with her the entire night, you should have let her know in the beginning. I'm going to my friend's pre-prom thing in a few weeks, and he's from a different school so I don't know a lot of people, if he does what you did to her, I'd be soooooooooooooooo pissed. You better freakin' apologize to her, because what you did was downright disrespectful.

[oxoX_Kotori_Xoxo]

Dude wtf, you left her to dance with other girls when she went to the bathroom? You could have at least told her you were going to. I mean, she probably came out of the washroom and was like "wtf, where is he?" You pretty much ditched her. And not only that, you ditched her again in the middle of DANCING with her. I'm sorry, but that is just sooooo rude. Not only that, you also hurt her pride and embarrassed her. If I were her, I'd be hella pissed too. If you didn't want to stay with her the entire night, you should have let her know in the beginning. I'm going to my friend's pre-prom thing in a few weeks, and he's from a different school so I don't know a lot of people, if he does what you did to her, I'd be soooooooooooooooo pissed. You better freakin' apologize to her, because what you did was downright disrespectful.

i totally agree with you.