[torrentgray]

So I've had this crush on this guy for like half a year while this other guy liked me. The guy i crushed on didnt return feelings So i finally gave up on him and gave the other guy a chance, Ive been with him for almost 3 months.
Suddenly I found out that he recently said he thinks i should break up with my current bf (who is his friend) and that how he's a much better bf.

Then we started talking and for once, it wasnt at all awkward, but really open.

Im confused? cuz the guy i CRUSHED on never really show emotions at all, he's considered the cold and uncaring type, yet he said that. Idunno why...?

[plegend2007]

He wants what he can't have. He is letting his selfishness and pride make this decision. Why change his mind all of a sudden?

Imo, he is no good if he is going to do that to his friend. That should tell you a lot about him in general. Sorry to say this, but most likely, he is working on the fact that you had a thing for him in the past. Maybe, he is just trying to prove a point for whatever reasons

Beside this point...Why are you even listening to this guy in the first place? Does your bf know about this?

Anyways, I don't know if he is genuinely into you or not, but from the information given to me by you in this post, he might be just playing with your emotions or whatnot.

If you didn't tell your bf about this...You should and quick. He has the right to know, and if you don't, you are just as wrong as this clown of a guy. Guys like this make me sick, and they deserve a slap upside their head or worse.

[spixder]

Well his best friend suddenly has a girlfriend....who does he have?

[wicked_]

Cold & uncaring, sounds like a drama. Why would you break up with someone who didn't ignore you and date someone who did? What kind of juice are you sipping on...the guy you're with doesn't deserve that. Forget about the other guy and just be happy with your current SO. If not it sounds like you're setting yourself up for some drama and hurt.

[Tuxedomask]

Wow...so he goes behind his friends back and says that to you? Red Flag.
This guy isn't cold and uncaring, he's also a sneaky douche bag. He can't be trusted at all if he's willing to do that.
Like someone said up there he just wants what he can't have and if you let him have it, chances are he'll be full and won't want anymore.

[torrentgray]

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[heheimawesome]

Wow these situations are so common.... Makes me scared to date a girl who had a guy she couldn't get..
the girl I like right now is like that too. =/
oh well. not like she would have been mine anyways. hahaha..

its crappy that your feelings are wavering so easily. but if you dont like your boyfriend anymore just because of this guy, then might as well break up now since you obviously barely liked your boyfriend

[LGG]

I think he's being jealous.. But then again..
There's a possibility 'the guy' did have feelings for you, but was too shy to show them.
He may be considered cold and uncaring, but most of those guys just pretend to be like that
and actually are caring. He probably doesn't really know how to handle/express his feelings..
Think hard about what you're going to do now, if you still like 'the guy'.
If you do decided to give him a chance.. don't forget to treat your boyfriend with the respect he deserves

Good luck!

[dafleur]

uh... why the hell do you even care? this shouldn't even be an issue for you. so what if he says he's suddenly into you right now? you have a damn boyfriend already!

[swtaznang3l07]

oh gosh, i know exactly how you feel. there was a time when 3 guys like/loved me at the same time and they were all my friends and hated each other..BOY was that a bad situation haha...but ANYWAYS, Yes, he just wants you now because he can't have you. Which also happened to me before, and I went with leaving that guy alone, because he hurt me before already, why would i want to be hurt again? Maybe after he does have you, he'll treat you bad like he did before bc then he'll have what he wanted already..or maybe things can change.

[h0ney]

i think he misses the attention and he wants to prove to everyone how he's capable to getting whatever he wants
theyre friends and he goes and does this behind his frds back?
no respect for him at all..
u prob still have some little feeling for him? i agree wit dafleur, it shudnt be an issue for u