My boyfriend is leaving for the Korean army in Septemberish. Since he lives in Chicago and I live in California we have a long distance relationship and we can basically only meet up during long breaks when both of us go to Korea. We haven't been going out for very long time (a little over a month..) and i honestly still don't know if i know him well enough..in other words, he's kind of mysterious. And to make things worse, we don't have a single mutual friend because we met at a club. Im only 18 and he's turning 21 soon. My friends keep telling me that waiting for him for two years is going to be extremely difficult and its a waste of time considering I'm at the age where i should be partying my butt off and having fun with boys and whatnot. He told me the other day that he's not gonna ask me to wait for him because he doesn't expect me to. However, if he starts to like me to the point he doesn't wanna let go, he said hes probably gonna beg me to wait. To be honest, I'm very immature mentally when it comes to "love.". For example I start to like other guys fast and I've been called a player many times because I supposedly flirt a lot. As of now, I feel like I really like him and I've never met a guy that expressed his feelings for me as much as he does. Were meeting in Korea again in a month and we basically have three months to "date." I thought of breaking up with him for now just because of the situation right now...but I feel like I'm going to regret it a lot because I feel like I wont be able to meet someone as good as him (lets just say he has the looks, the brains, and a charming personality that girls are attracted to). I guess I don't have a problem "waiting" for him if it was guaranteed that he'd like me forever.what am i supposed to do???
