This is probably a stupid question, but there are many bf/gfs out there that used to be good friends. And I just wanna know,
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
Thanks in advance:P
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Transition (friend - Lover) Era Step by step, how did it work?
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 01:54 PM
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 05:42 PM
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
We were more than just comfortable around each other. It may seem weird but when we had skin contact, it seemed like something sparked.
We spoke as if we've known each other for years. I just didn't really sense anything until ...well he confessed.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I didn't know what to do. I just thought to myself, do I like this guy as well. I had a boyfriend at that time too but we were on the edge of a cliff.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
Because we knew each other pretty well and it's just how we both felt.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I became more of a girlfriend that a laid back friend. I was alert of what he was doing etc etc.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He confessed, giving me a text saying " i think i like you :[" it was exactly like that.
I made the first move in kissing him.
We went out for 14 months and i dumped him last thursday.
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We were more than just comfortable around each other. It may seem weird but when we had skin contact, it seemed like something sparked.
We spoke as if we've known each other for years. I just didn't really sense anything until ...well he confessed.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I didn't know what to do. I just thought to myself, do I like this guy as well. I had a boyfriend at that time too but we were on the edge of a cliff.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
Because we knew each other pretty well and it's just how we both felt.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I became more of a girlfriend that a laid back friend. I was alert of what he was doing etc etc.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He confessed, giving me a text saying " i think i like you :[" it was exactly like that.
I made the first move in kissing him.
We went out for 14 months and i dumped him last thursday.
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 05:49 PM
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
I didn't feel anything there for a while. Or maybe I did, but was just oblivious. likely possibility. But he had a gf then, and I had a bf. As for sensing..I suck at that. xD
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I kinda just let time do it's thing...as awkward as that sounds...lmao.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
We were just comfortable with each other. We literally told each other everything. He helped me with my problems, I helped with his. It never struck us that the relationship could turn awkward, yanno?
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I'm happier.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He did. x]
I didn't feel anything there for a while. Or maybe I did, but was just oblivious. likely possibility. But he had a gf then, and I had a bf. As for sensing..I suck at that. xD
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I kinda just let time do it's thing...as awkward as that sounds...lmao.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
We were just comfortable with each other. We literally told each other everything. He helped me with my problems, I helped with his. It never struck us that the relationship could turn awkward, yanno?
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I'm happier.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He did. x]
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 06:04 PM
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
idk. It just kind of happened. We'd talk for hours and hours about nothing BUT it wouldn't be a waste of time.. and.. what's funny is. usually when guys like me, they try and stay up longer than me (I'm an insomniac) and when I tell them to sleep. theye're like. no. but they complain about being tired.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I tried to figure out if he liked me or not, asking realllyyy obvious questions like. do you like anyone, etc. etc. and I'd ask questions about their ideal relationship/type/whatever.. hahah.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
There were points where it was awkward, but it's best to just laugh it off.
And honestly, it's not thaaaaat awkward 'cause you already know them.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I became. much. much flirtier. LOLL.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
I usually confess first. But everything else is up to him.
idk. It just kind of happened. We'd talk for hours and hours about nothing BUT it wouldn't be a waste of time.. and.. what's funny is. usually when guys like me, they try and stay up longer than me (I'm an insomniac) and when I tell them to sleep. theye're like. no. but they complain about being tired.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
I tried to figure out if he liked me or not, asking realllyyy obvious questions like. do you like anyone, etc. etc. and I'd ask questions about their ideal relationship/type/whatever.. hahah.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
There were points where it was awkward, but it's best to just laugh it off.
And honestly, it's not thaaaaat awkward 'cause you already know them.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
I became. much. much flirtier. LOLL.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
I usually confess first. But everything else is up to him.
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 08:11 PM
QUOTE (ax1989 @ Apr 28 2009, 04:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
2. How did you know when/how to act upon it?
3. How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
4. How did you change your acting? At all? None?
5. Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
2. How did you know when/how to act upon it?
3. How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
4. How did you change your acting? At all? None?
5. Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
1. I knew when we were very comfortable around each other and he was the only one that I looked forward to see and talk to compared to all my other friends.
2. I didn't want to act on it, so I had pushed my feelings away. I didn't want to ruin our friendship if he didn't like me back as I did towards him but I was flirty with him and asked him questions about who he liked and all that.
3. It wasn't awkward because he and I were always comfortable around each other and I'd just act as if nothing was wrong.
4. I was more talkative and more open with him with my feelings and things that went on with my life.
5. He was the one that made the move/confessed first. If he didn't then I wouldn't have ever told him about how I felt because I wasn't sure about how he felt and I was afraid of being rejected and ruining our friendship.
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 09:52 PM
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
It was just a connection feeling for me that built over time.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
flirted. . . . A LOT. +spending time together
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
We were pretty close (best friends) and the flirting helped.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
Being more attached with some sense of control over them.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
It was actually a mutual thing. We knew that we liked each other and one day it was just like bam..you know.. haha
It was just a connection feeling for me that built over time.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
flirted. . . . A LOT. +spending time together
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
We were pretty close (best friends) and the flirting helped.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
Being more attached with some sense of control over them.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
It was actually a mutual thing. We knew that we liked each other and one day it was just like bam..you know.. haha
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Posted 28 April 2009 - 09:59 PM
When/how did you know that there was something more between you guys? How to sense that?
We would talk for hours on end on the phone and he would always make time for me no matter how busy he was. We spent a lot of one-on-one time together, just getting to know each other. I looked forward to seeing him every day and he always manages to make laugh.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
He made all the moves, lol. But we took our time and never rushed each other. We spent a lot of time together and flirted a lot. We both wanted to know that we were truly interested in each other before we got together.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
At first, it was a bit uncomfortable but a few weeks into it and we just got really comfortable with each other.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
At first, I didn't know how to act around him at all. I was really shy and didn't know how show my affection for him at all, lol. But as time went on, we became more comfortable with each other and everything came naturally. I'm not so shy to show him my affection now.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He did everything, lol. And it was a good thing he did, because if it was up to me, I don't think we'd ever be together!
We would talk for hours on end on the phone and he would always make time for me no matter how busy he was. We spent a lot of one-on-one time together, just getting to know each other. I looked forward to seeing him every day and he always manages to make laugh.
How did you know when/how to act upon it?
He made all the moves, lol. But we took our time and never rushed each other. We spent a lot of time together and flirted a lot. We both wanted to know that we were truly interested in each other before we got together.
How come it wasn't so 'awkward' considering you were friends?
At first, it was a bit uncomfortable but a few weeks into it and we just got really comfortable with each other.
How did you change your acting? At all? None?
At first, I didn't know how to act around him at all. I was really shy and didn't know how show my affection for him at all, lol. But as time went on, we became more comfortable with each other and everything came naturally. I'm not so shy to show him my affection now.
Usually, who confessed/made the move first?
He did everything, lol. And it was a good thing he did, because if it was up to me, I don't think we'd ever be together!
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