[cowpatty95124]

So I have this friend that I like. At first I hated her because I thought she was sooo annoying. But then there came this time where we actually started getting really close. She would call me like everyday and we'd just talk for hours and hours. So then after a few months I started liking her. Yeah, I'm a lesbian.

But anyways, I've had experiences where I've liked someone and I never told them. So I thought I'd be like straight up with her and tell her that I was starting to like her. From what I know, she seemed straight. But we'd have like flirting moments? Idk, after I told her that I liked her she didn't really have a bad reaction. She basically said, "oh..." and I was like "If I was a guy would you like me?" and she was like "Maybe.." then we changed the subject.

After that though, we would hang out every weekend just like normal and we'd always cuddle whenever we watched a movie. Like she would want me to wrap my arms around her and stuff. So I was just confused on what was going on.

Nowadays though, it seems like she gets soo mad at me for everything I do. But she doesn't know why she gets mad at me. I don't get it either! So I asked her 1 day if I was a bad friend to her and she said I wasn't. So I said that I felt like a bad friend cuz it seems like everyone else can make her happy but I can't. And it seems like she really hates like company. But she said "I think I love you so much that I dislike you so much."

That made me sooo confused right there. Idk, does this happen with just anyone? Or does it happen with people that you like? I'm just so confused cuz I don't know whether to treat her as a friend or as a crush. Either way, I'm still so lost.

[naoto]

Her feelings for you are done. I think. Many times people like each other and then the person who doesn't like them anymore gets mad at everything they do, it's a sign that it's over. I'm sorry if that hurt you though... just my thought. Ask her if she wants space.

[MNLV27]

Maybe she's confused right now. She doesn't know what she wants and she doesn't know if she likes you that way. You should talk to her about it or you should just give her space..

[小甜密]

Maybe she's confused and is turning bi. o_o

[screamxlove]

I think she's probably confused about how she really feels for you, especially since you said that she's straight. It's confusing, and there's this whole... feeling uncomfortable about your sexuality thing that gnaws in the back of your brain. She's unsure, most likely, and she doesn't really know how to deal with it? Just give her some time to sort out how she really feels ^^.

[cowpatty95124]

^^ Thanks to all you guys :]

It's really put some thought in to my head. I guess it does seem like she might need space. Thanks again :]

[cavil.]

Update report. What's going on hurr.

[cowpatty95124]

Update report. What's going on hurr.

^^ Hmm what do you wanna know??

[kitakaoin131]

I have this friend. We met in freshman year. I thought she would be the type of person who would understand me and everything until last semester, she kept yelling at me and ignoring me. When I asked her a simple question, she just shouted at me and started to talk behind my back. I call her name in the hallways and she still ignores me. Then two weeks later, she tells me it was because of stress. I have been trying to talk to her normally for like two weeks and she tells me its stress...the semester barely started and she said it was stress. That is BS! Ever since the first time I was one of her mood swings victim. It is hard to talk to her and she thinks I'm a lesbian! Well, she was the one who keeps pinching or slapping me in the butt. She is not a lesbian but she acts like that. She does things to her friends like slap their butts and stuff and doesn't think its a lesbian thing but when it comes to me, she is totally homophobic. I do not understand her!

[mstar]

I'm not too sure you should give her space. Stick by, do your usual. Call her up, ask to go watch some movies. Maybe she's unsure of what she really feels.

Not saying you should forcefully prod her in one direction, but your complete absence isn't going to produce her true feelings either.

[HikariJung]

Maybe she's having trouble? like maybe her parents don't want her to be with you and stuff like that.
I mean some parents don't really want gay or lesbian kids right.
and she's confused because she doesn't know if she is one or if she isn't.....
just my opinion

Maybe ask her if she wants space because if you just go without asking her....she might get mad or hurt or stuff like that ^^

[cowpatty95124]

I have this friend. We met in freshman year. I thought she would be the type of person who would understand me and everything until last semester, she kept yelling at me and ignoring me. When I asked her a simple question, she just shouted at me and started to talk behind my back. I call her name in the hallways and she still ignores me. Then two weeks later, she tells me it was because of stress. I have been trying to talk to her normally for like two weeks and she tells me its stress...the semester barely started and she said it was stress. That is BS! Ever since the first time I was one of her mood swings victim. It is hard to talk to her and she thinks I'm a lesbian! Well, she was the one who keeps pinching or slapping me in the butt. She is not a lesbian but she acts like that. She does things to her friends like slap their butts and stuff and doesn't think its a lesbian thing but when it comes to me, she is totally homophobic. I do not understand her!

^^
oh man, you seem like you're having the sameish problem. I think she might like you... but is in denial? Idk.... I'm sorry for your situation though


Whoa thanks for all the help you guys :].

Idk, everything seems so complicated sometimes. But not complicated at the same time?

Yeah, I've tried avoiding her once time and she ended up getting mad @ me. Then again, wouldn't anyone get mad if their friend just started avoiding them?

But yeah, she seriously just has all these weird mood swings.

A couple days ago she was like I WANNA HANG OUT! and i'm like oh wow.. alright sounds good. And then I went on a 2 day trip to do some martial art demos and she never texted or called once. I was like I missed you! and she was like okays. and i was like Lol, did you misss me? And she's like idk how to explain it.



Then there'd be days when she is all sweet and like cute and flirty and i'm like WTH! I never know when to be sweet or like just bleh.