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#1 User is offline   the.grace 

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Posted 08 May 2009 - 06:30 PM

nvm.
i'm so over it.

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#2 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 08 May 2009 - 07:43 PM

ignoring you have cancer doesn't cure you of it.

"let's be mature about it"
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#3 User is offline   小甜密 

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Posted 08 May 2009 - 11:08 PM

Talk to him and be friends once more?
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Posted 09 May 2009 - 01:29 AM

QUOTE (ShadowMax76 @ May 8 2009, 10:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ignoring you have cancer doesn't cure you of it.

"let's be mature about it"


ditto
confrontation isn't always a bad thing
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#5 User is offline   lil_miss_kawaii 

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Posted 09 May 2009 - 08:45 AM

talk to him?

I mean if it bothers you then talk to him ~

Dont be a kid in this situation
like the other poster said "lets be mature about it"

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#6 User is offline   -x-[.Limegreen.]-x- 

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Posted 09 May 2009 - 11:14 AM

Yeah totally talk to him about it and if he doesn't want to talk about it..then talk to his friends
And if THEY dont wanna talk about it..Ignore them like nothing ever happened biggrin.gif

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Posted 09 May 2009 - 04:02 PM

QUOTE (小甜密 @ May 9 2009, 02:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Talk to him and be friends once more?


true~

just confront him about it.
who knows what'll happen?
it could be good or bad, but atleast something happens.

good luck!

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#8 User is online   한스 ㅋㅋ 

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Posted 09 May 2009 - 06:16 PM

IMO you're not trying to move on.
Otherwise you won't be looking for chances such as this.
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Posted 09 May 2009 - 10:18 PM

well first off, i dont know what you are asking, youngin.
i think you know exactly whats going on.


he has terminal illness and doesnt want you to be a part of his life cuz it will only cause more pain.

next time his friends look. i say show your bucktooth and let that lipstick slip ohmy.gif

be mature?
PFFFFT

dont be silly. Things like this are never mature nor immature.
I'd say youre being mature for not doing the same thing they are doing.

now a 'supposed' mature option?
Ignore
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#10 User is offline   daintymilk 

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Posted 09 May 2009 - 10:20 PM

Meh, similar thing happened to me. His friends also look at my way, I try to ignore it. I heard he liked me, I liked him as well, but I never had the chance to tell him. He ignored me and I avoided him for a while, so I never confronted him why he was ignoring me. He moved away in another city, and I never got to find out why he was ignoring me.


So, my advice to you is confront him.
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#11 User is offline   maverickrocker18 

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Posted 12 May 2009 - 03:01 PM

Yeah, I've dealt with a somewhat similar situation. Honestly, there's only awkwardness if you guys MAKE it awkward. Just try to initiate something and see what happens wink.gif
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#12 User is offline   XiaoMei_开心 

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Posted 12 May 2009 - 03:53 PM

somethin similiar happened to me . this guy said he liked me.. so we just hung out not rele ina relationship. tried liking him but turns out i rele cant. so now wer friends. but i just wave at skool not rele talk/ is like waving to stranger - -ll and about his friends pointing at you. is like that guys ex is like stalking me and pointing at me . and i wonder wuts in her mind;... but i ignore it all cuz i dun rele wanna care about these things anymore.
but i think you shud try saying hi n getting to talk to him more... ORRR yu can ignore them all . :]
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Posted 12 May 2009 - 04:04 PM

Forget him. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
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Posted 12 May 2009 - 06:32 PM

my ex does this.
everyone avoids me because he's being a little baby and they're trying to lick his wounds for him
just ignore it... Summer is almost here! you'll meet new people!
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Posted 12 May 2009 - 09:13 PM

You thought that guy was hot? You like him because he's hot?
What are you considering? Do you consider going into an actual relationship with him? Do you like him enough to confront him?
If yes, then go get it out of him.
If not, leave it be. It's been a while and it's not going to go anywhere.
If you're still wondering about this, then you aren't moving on, you're hoping for chances.

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