someone needs a friend. i don't remember myself being quite that bad, but i was somewhat socially awkward before someone were so kind to guide me to social norms. though i'm sure she thought i was normal before she found out, and had to put up with my phases.
i can't blame people for running away from them, agreeing to each other about how weird they are, but that doesn't help the problem.
_ in essence. he's like a 3year old. of course he'd follow someone around. i don't think anyone treats him his age, right? everyone thinks he's a freaky spastic kid? _ neh. people used to think i was a serial killer type. lol [fact: serial killers blend in]
what to do? go up to him and tell him in words. i'm sure he speaks English too. :] + while you're at it, treat him like a normal person.
ahaha. thanks. ^^ i`ll put that into consideration while confronting him! (:
tell him to piss off and if he doesnt, tell the teachers or get a restraining order, lol.
hopefully, he`ll listen to me, and i really don`t want to get the teachers involved in this because i don`t want the situation to get out of hand. xD LOLOLOL, a restraining order.
why did u stop your guyfriend?
just let him tell him off or else he's gonna keep following you
yeah... i`m just afraid that my guy friend will choose a fight with him. my guy friend has a very short temper and just loves to pick fights with people so that`s why i didn`t let him but now thinking about it, it sounds better than me confronting him personally `cause i`ll probably chicken out and end up being nice to him. thanks! ^^
Best thing you can do Is confront him or report this to someone or! somehow embarrass him so he never stalks you again.
lol. i`ll won`t embarrass him but just confront him. xP thanks. <3
hey whoa I had like a similar situation xD
except I had no classes with him, and he'd bug my friends to give me pictures he drew of me.. o_o and I kept seeing him take pictures of me (so freaky) and he'd be pretty blatant about it, too
uh my friends suggested that I talk to my guidance counselour around it, but the school year ended and we graduated (middle school) and my friends kinda...
cursed him off :x
o-o; was he a good drawer at least? o; WOAHH, your stalker sounds worse than mine! taking pictures of you? man, that`s very creepy. at least he left you alone now. (:
Wow...It brings me back bad memories of the past as well as the present lol. I hate stalkers.
I have sympathy for you b/c I know how that feels. Unfortunately, you can't stop people from stalking you, but what you can do is take measures to minimize the effect of it all.
I have so many stories to tell you, but I don't think this is the place to really tell you about them, so if you really want to know tips on stalker prevention, let me know, and I will be more than happy to share them with you. I learned through trials and errors to come up with some great ideas. You can never fully stop stalkers, but you can discourage them to the point of them giving up or make it harder for the stalkers.
Good luck and stay safe.
thank you so much! it`s very comforting to know that you know how i feel and know that that you also been in the situation as me. if i need tips on stalker prevention, i`ll surely come to you! (: i`ll stay safe. no worries.
Che, thanks for reminding me I have to go confront mine tomorrow night .. ;_;
And in regards to your situation; I get the whole not wanting to be mean but want to tell him off thing (same as me), so I would advise you to tell an adult (maybe a parent, because they're cool in the over-protecting thing in this kind of case) because that kind of obsession can go really bad if left alone.
Can I add, don't ever be alone (or in an instance where he could get/find you alone).
best wishes to you and your stalker situation! i hope everything works out for you. (and me too! haha)
Confront him, but do be careful. Stalkers are scary, but considering I sort of qualify as one myself... ierno T_T.
I pretty much stalk my girlfriend. But I always wonder if it's possible to stalk your SO.
i don`t think you qualify as a stalker since she`s your girlfriend? (:
stop being a wuss and tell him to leave you alone
I dont see how that can be so damn hard
i would surely confront him soon! -toughs it out-
Oh geez woman.
Grow a set of guts and tell him to leave you alone.
Your guy friends wanted to help you and didn't let him? o_O
Uh huh.
Two ways of seeing it.
Be the little nice girl you are and allow him to stalk on.
OR
Tell him to stop! He's creeping you out.
bleh, i hate myself for being such a chicken. yeah... i`m going with way number two. thanks. (:
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