[nyame]

i-i'll try keep it short :'D

i have a friend at uni who i've known since end of last year
we're not super close (not helped as we're both fairly shy) and we don't spend a lot of time together, but we're pretty good friends.
but he's one of the lovliest and kindest people i know,and i really like him :'D

now,i'm a shy girl.
and i'm too afraid to tell him that i really like him.
(i would have thought it was obvious i liked him..i don't say anything like that to him,but some friends have noticed.. but maybe he hasn't noticed,as he hasn't said anything or been obviously put off by me/avoiding me..but maybe he's just polite.)
anyway,and i don't know how he'll take it.
i think (if he doesn't feel the same,that is) our friendship would become awkward and ruined,and i really don't want to lose him as a friend. he's too much of a nice person to rudely turn me down or be cruel,but i still don't want awkwardness.....
it's close to exams as well,which means i don't really want something bad or awkward ruining our revision or anything x'D
(edit:he finishes exams before me,and before i finish he would go home,and not see each other probably for 3.5months..errr...)

err.i wouldn't know exactly how to go about telling him either.i've never been in a relationship or ask or been asked out.

i know this sounds stupid and probably quite childish. :/
but still. advice please ? D8

[xsaranghae<3]

yea it kind of suck s=[
and im only in middle shcool and i can relate
i just kinad blurted it out the last time?
haha but i jsut think that you should tell him when you bring up enough courage?
or when feeling brave? idk AFTER exams thoguh of course
im not much help though =[

[izzy015]

Definitely after exams and I think you should. If nobody does anything, nothing will happen, y'know? And if it becomes awkward, I think that it will subside over time. But who's to know if it will. It's all about taking risks hun. Just don't let it control your lifeee.

[AzizOnDeck]

If you have a strong feeling that he feels the same way tell him but don't make it seem as if though you knew and if he says "no" then continue being friends if possible because that's one thing that may even make your friendship stronger... I understand what you're going through... I'm going through it myself

[nyame]

thanks everyone,for your advice <3
i think..i will try and sum up courage to tell him. when the right moment is there
ahh a problem i forgot to mention orz
his exams are a bit before mine. so he goes home from uni before i even start my exams
and then i probably won't see him for 3.5months > __< unless we visit each other in the holiday (we live pretty far away though..)

[maverickrocker18]

Tell him!! After exams tho, of course, so as not to distract him

[hamoosta]

I once told my crush I liked him, and he ended up ignoring me.
2 years have passed and we're like 2 peas in a pod - not in a romantic way though; more like best friends



So even if you do get rejected, there's always a chance of you guys becoming great friends!

I wish you lots of luck!

[AhYee]

I'd say risk the chance and tell him straight to his face. But after exams. You don't know what's going to happen, so let's not risk that part of it. I really like quoting that one quote which I can't exactly remember. But it goes something like... I'd rather have a heartbreak than not have loved at all. I'm just saying that maybe you'll get something good out of it, and if not, then wouldn't you be proud of yourself if you did confess to him instead of hide it to yourself? At least you tried. Things may get awkward, but it's only going to last so long. He enjoys being your friend, and a friendship shouldn't be ruined that easily

[heheimawesome]

without reading
my answer is always yes. always let them know. even if you get rejected at least you can move on without a second thought.