[mizz_ly]

Idk where to start. But why not start from the beginning? I knew a guy who went out with this girl and broke up with him. Well im kind of an open person i would tell people how i feel. I told him that i like him didn't expect to go out but rather still be friends. So we are. Then we went out in october but his ex-girlfriend(his first love) had to ruined everything and later i soon felt that i was just another escape method for him considering he went out with so many girls just trying to forget about his 1st love. He's a pimpin' flirt but not a cheater, a player maybe. But she said so many sh.it about me behind my back and got me and him to broke up.(no i didn't cry over that stupid mini cooper) during that time i was like always protecting her everytime people talk mini cooper about her cause i didn't kno she did this behind my back. So then one day i just had it i went up and slapped her. After that i had to go to the hosptial cause i had anemia and had to get a blood transfusion. But during those time when i wasn't in school she started MADD shi.t and got him mad at me. Funny thing after we broke up, i was gonna move on be like w.e thought u like me too apparently not. But we started to hang out more often and we became closer. Closer than any one of his friends(or mines) and when i tried the 2nd and 3rd time to ask him out he truely said IDK he considered my feelings and said that he doesn't know b/c he doesn't want me to get hurt. But I made a promise(i'm a type of person who ALWAYS keep a promise no matter what) to never leave him or get him hurt. But he hurted me. He promised that he would never get mad at me? What happens he gets mad at me over what that Bi.t.ch said about me when i was gone. I was really hurt that he would believe it I guess he still has feelings for her. But lately I feel like a tool now because I've had sex with him so many time, a friend with benefits sort of thing. But what hurts the most is in his mind he's not thinking of me but probably of her. He says he only had sex with the girls he loved. Well apparently he loved so many. >< I been thinking he said that i'm one of the person he doesn't want to lose as a friend or a lover. But what am i really to him? I feel like a tool but i love him so much that i can't let go. HELP?!!?!?!

-UPDATED-
It's official i'm a tool >< But eyy love is blind like always. Takes some time to recover from this mistake.....

[ShadowMax76]

people use people. it's inevitable.
the only difference that makes it ethically right is if it's not intentionally objective.

personally, i could say i fell in love with every girl i slept with - for a night , and think that's rather reasonable. [if real love were so easy to come and go like that anyways, and if i weren't a proud virgin lololol]

_if it makes you feel better that he loved you whilst you two were together. and it has stopped. then believe that.
if you want to use his 'using you' as material to move on from it . do so.

_defamation deals it's damage whether or not it's true or believed. we just have to deal with it. maybe we even have to think about what they have to say.

p.s- no word 'hurted' as that itself. -eye hemorrhage -
lololol -> http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hurted

[naoto]

Find a man that treats you like a princess. Forget about him and forget about her. I'm sure you feel stupid about it, but when a man takes care of you then you will forget all about this. It's not even something you can fix, nor is he someone you should have feelings for because he is a player and uses girls for sex.

[Lie]

Consider it a (harsh) lesson learned, and try to move on. Make an effort to find someone who can put as much time and emotion into you as you're willing to put into him when you're ready to start dating again.

[fudgemonk3y]

dont trust guys dat havent gotten over their ex's =( sorry
i hope ur able to forget him n move on