[n3squ!ck]

thanks for those whos helping. (: it really meant a lot.

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those of you who are reading i hope you dont refresh !

[AngieK]

Just a warning, I have a feeling you're going to get a lot of negative responses. So be mentally prepared.

Now onto your post. I'm going to say this once. It's gonna be harsh and you have every right to be offended but I'm going to say it anyway.

You liked Drew yet you're going out with someone? Okay, maybe you decided to stop liking Drew and then went out with your ex. But if that's true then your feelings for Drew should be that of a parental figure (your father daughter relationship thing). So the answer is simple: say no to Drew and continue on with your lives (either be friends or move on).

But if I'm wrong and you still did like Drew, then the fact remains that you were, maybe not on purpose, cheating on your ex. You liked Drew but you were still with your ex during the period where you liked Drew. This was unfair to him from the beginning, no matter how much he 'didn't put in the relationship'. Either way both sides had their faults.

Anyway, I just wanted to point that out. In terms of what you should do..well in all honesty it's up to you. I don't think you and Drew should be together. But that's just me of course. Ultimately I think all four of you need to work on your communications skills. When Drew was unhappy he should've been going to Steph about it, not you. If he didn't trust her that is something he needs to work out with her. They should've focused on working out their problems and you should've focused on your relationship. Yes, friends should be there for one another but at the same time you cannot allow yourself to be the middle man in another person's problem.

In the end you should both learn from it. Communication is key.

[SHINEjaejoong]

I agree with AngieK on that it was unfair for your boyfriend, but I think it is OK to be with Drew. But only if you really think he likes you and is not just saying that to have his way with you. I feel that you didnt give your x oppurtunity(Did I spell it wrong?) to kind of participate in the relationship because, well, it seems like you used your time more with Drew so your x didn't actually do anything wrong. He might have tried to call you or talk to you but maybe because you were so blinded of this type of "love" you kind of ignored it. I dont excatly know what to say except that your x had every right to break up with you, but if you are soooo madly in love with Drew, then you can go for it. But you should be careful and NEVER let anyone have their way with you easily. I read a post wheere a girl was having sex with different guys alot and that just made me feel disgusted, so you shouldn't let them be all over you before you yourself feels ready for it. If they try to push you to do it with them, then he pretty much just wants your body.

Not sure if I helped but this is just the way I see it.

[n3squ!ck]

Thanks. This really helped out a lot (:
I know .. It was wrong what I did.


Believe me, both of those responses made me think .. It helped a lot. Thank you again.