[b3b3l0v3]

It's been a bit more than a week, since my boyfriend and I broke up. And I mean, it's been pretty sad for me lately. I know everyones been through something like this. But the reason I am posting this, is because, my boyf-- well ex. But i'll just call him boyfriend for now. But yeah basically, in the beginning of our relationship, he put a lot of effort to talk to me, and vice versa. After about 2 months, he just started losing interest. I mean it really felt like it in my point of view. I was the boyfriend of the relationship, since I bought him so much, and took care of him. I basically was a push over during the whole thing. When we broke up, he gave me a blunt reason ' its just always the same, and i just dont feel like putting effort into anything anymore '. I mean yeah, I completely understand, because you can't help other peoples feelings towards another right? But lately, apparently he's being completely one wordy, and such to his close friends as well. And no, it's not because of the break up or antyhing, since he's been one wordy BEFORE the break up. We've tried asking him if anythings going on thats bothering him in his life, and it really doesnt seem like theres anything. But anyways. ONe of his ex's... that he went out with about a year ago, and had a short relation ship with (3 months), apparently he liked her for a LONG time, and did so much for her... And I've heard so many of the amazing things he did for her, because he loved her so much. And then he started going out with me. She tried to break me and him up as well. But he rejected her and told me he was over her... but sometimes i get the vibe that he isn't. And that I was just rebound to get over her. When he broke up with me (over msn -.-), he had no sign of care and support even as a friend. We haven't talked at all since then, and I mean, its weird because his friends told me that he wasn't usually like this, when he breaks up with a girl. I've asked them about his ex, and about me being a rebound. And they don't even know the answer to that one either.

I've just been really upset over this whole thing. I'm not even sure why I'm posting this. I just need to let it out ): Please don't tell me that I'm still young and that I have tons of time to be in another relationship... I understand that completely. And I usually don't get upset over these things. I'm just so sad, since I mean, I thought he would at least care for how I was doing with this whole situation. Whatever happened to "I'm still going to be there for you, no matter what". Oh well. =/ Maybe he should have just gone out with his ex again.

[i13elieve]

i think he didnt seem to give out so much cuz he realized in the end he wasnt gonna get anything in return.
even though you gave him alot it may have not been enough for him.
he didnt want himself to get hurt so he let you go so he wouldnt have to deal with it.
im very sorry for your break up. these days guys are kinda iffy on their attitude.
but about his possible feelings for ex. it might be very possible.
it seems like thats the whole reason why he didnt give out so much cuz he felt like it would never be worth it.
but i could be wrong. i hope everything works out for you.

[AhYee]

Good for nothing fool? With those kind of guys you're going to have to let up. He's not going to do anything, and you're not getting anything. What better than to stomp on it? Maybe you were there at the right place but wrong time. I know what it's like, "I'm still going to be there for you, no matter what." You cant trust those promises, ever. Let's not rely on those to make us happy, alright? Be strong!

[Bombom.]

What the heck T.T
I seriously hate guys like that! My first bf, was the one that I loved like how you
loved yours too. So like I always did the first move and all that crap and it seemed like
he wasn't putting any support/effort into it. Till 2 months later, he broke up wif me.
Some guys always seem to break itoff wif their girls, 2 months later. WTF is wrong wif them mangs T>T

&& I think it's messed up how he dont wanna be your friend, when he
is like still kinda his ex right? Jeez, what a crackhead >.<
I hope you feel better *hugs* (:

[naoto]

Wow. Well the only thing I can say is that I wish I could find a total pushover girl someone who would pour their heart out to me, like I do to a girl I like. So you know, that guy is out there waiting for you. Forget about ex. He doesn't like you fine he doesn't deserve you. There is someone waiting out there who loves you so much more.

[spixder]

Well, think this way, would u rather him stringing you along for 3yrs before letting you go? Imo you should thank him for being honest and slap him for being a jerk.

Btw you are young, one day you will look back and say to yourself, wtf was i doing with him?

[babystar*]

dont try to love someone who's not planning on to love you back -- straight up.
your just going to suffer. move on, theres other people better than him.