[ddqqww]

Eh last question sorry!,
Okay so there's this girl..
We talked like alittle before until
I developed feelings for her..crush you can say
Then I told my friends about it..
Turns out my friends liked her too. So we all knew that we all liked her, 3 guys?
Time went by and they stopped liking her..
Before that they said if they stopped liking her, I had to ask her out
Problem is..


Well then I'm guessing she knows I like her.. thanks secrets for being a secret..
I guess she's alittle quiet recently? She doesn't hang out as much, she's been sick alot
She never says hi anymore, and now I'm like..bleh

Now my friends are getting disappointed for me breaking their promises
It's cause I'm afraid of rejection and I'm like sure she'll say no

Idk what to do, my other friend advised me to just confess then be led by false hopes
But I don't want to face the truth and it'll just be more akward you know?
I'm trying to be a better person/ and hopefully things work out
And all this silence would go away


idk what to do.. any advice?
I'm just confused by all these false hopes & sometimes I just tell myself
It's not true, but I wanna believe it..

[AHLEENA]

go o_o
what are you waiting for?

go ask her out :0


edit: stop thinking about the 'signals' or whatever you think she's giving you. o-o you won't know until she says yes or no herself :0

okie! goodluck!

[muffinx3]

Try it in a subtle way.

Ex: Since you haven't talked to her in a while, say "Hey, I haven't had the chance to talk to you much recently, wanna go see a movie and catch up sometime?"

And based on her answer, you can go from there. :] I hope you understand where I'm going with this.

[MNLV27]

What's there to lose? Just getting rejected by her isn't going to kill you. You'll live. Just tell her your feelings and if she doesn't reciprocate then at least you were able to tell her instead of always saying, 'what if I told her my feelings?' So go for it..

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

I say don't do anything.
Maybe it's just me, but what both of your friends said, about you must asking her out if they stopped liking, is very bs. Why the hell would someone do that?

I conclude that something is fishy. lol.
Because it's usually quite hard for the guy to not love the girl anymore.. unless they find a better one.

well just my opinion.

[ddqqww]

I say don't do anything.
Maybe it's just me, but what both of your friends said, about you must asking her out if they stopped liking, is very bs. Why the hell would someone do that?

I conclude that something is fishy. lol.
Because it's usually quite hard for the guy to not love the girl anymore.. unless they find a better one.

well just my opinion.

Lol I thought that first,
well one of the guys like this one girl now.
I don't know about the other guy though
I thought something was fishy too

[ddqqww]

What's there to lose? Just getting rejected by her isn't going to kill you. You'll live. Just tell her your feelings and if she doesn't reciprocate then at least you were able to tell her instead of always saying, 'what if I told her my feelings?' So go for it..

I don't wanna worsen friendship you know? Maybe I'll think about it..

[quyennypoo]

erhhh...as a girl if she's not the same around ya theres a problem...dont do it... if she like you she would let you know!

[AhYee]

It's not really a friendship if you guys don't even talk to each other that much anymore. If you don't do anything about it and just hope it miraculously goes away, you're going to have to wait for a while because these feelings don't just go away, you know? You shouldnt sit there convincing yourself that she's going to say no and you're going to lose face/friendship because you can't take the rejection. Consider doing something about it. I'm not saying you have to, but it's an idea. Who knows, maybe you're wrong and she's actually waiting for you to talk to her first. Girls are like that sometimes. You might get something goood out of this. But hey, if you're really afraid of getting rejected, or you're so sure she's going to say no, then save your pride and go on as if nothing happened. As for your two friends, did they really lose interest in that girl? Or they're just saying it because they want you to ask her out. I'd understand why they would be disappointed then if that was to be the case. On another note, she can be trying to avoid you and that's your sign. But heck, even as a girl I wouldn't know what another girl is trying to do or is thinking. Um... follow your heart?

[plegend2007]

Just wondering...

Is this girl the same girl that you always make new posts about every other day?