[snitch]

Alright, I feel like sharing a story today. So here it goes.....
My friend and I decided to go out to eat lunch to this place we know that is very cheap. We don't usually go there coz it's a bit far but we were bored and decided to go today. Anyway... fast forward, I was in line to buy my food and I suddenly saw this beautiful girl ahead of me. Of course, I was ecstatic to see such gorgeous girl in my life. I mean god, she looks like a korean actress/model. That is rare. So here's what literally came into my mind when I saw her:
" O-M-G, I need to know her and ask her out! but maybe she'll find me a creep coz of my goatee. jeezzz.... I mean she's asian and I know they aren't into guys with beard. and besides, she doesn't know me and I don't want to freak her out. So nahhhh, I'll probably have a 0 chance to get to know her."

So my instinct was just to get my food, find a place to sit in, and completely forget about her. But NO!!!! my friend picked a table right across the beautiful girl! So basically the whole time, I kept on thinking about her and was really tempted to talk to her coz again, she's really really really BEAUTIFUL There were so many things popping into my mind at that time on how to approach her and all that but crap, knowing myself, I'm a virgin when it comes to these kind of things. I literally hide to my shell and be a complete snail every time I see a girl that I like. In reality though, I'm really loud around my friends and generally to people. SHE is one of the few that makes me a complete snail of myself. And what's even more crazy is the fact that we don't know each other. *sigh, when she left, I felt so depressed to myself coz of this certain characteristic of mine in which I really hate to death.

Anyhow, wow... my story turned out to be more on a rant rather than a statement that seeks for advice.
So girls, how can guys (strangers) approach you without being a creeper???

BTW, til this moment, I still think about her and pray that I may bump into her again.. wishful thinking huh?











P.S haha, crap. I really can't stop thinking about her! I've seen many hot girls but man, she's quite different. I think I was love struck by cupid himself

[ShadowMax76]

do not go all googly eyed or stutter "can i have your number?" _cos i'm pretty sure that would have you crossed out in many girls' books.

offer the goods first. have a conversation, don't come off as too nice [just be you, a bit confident, a bit down to earth.]
if she shows any signs of discomfort, you can either address what you think is discomforting her, or just back off .

from experience, i gotta tell ya... you have to get used to being rejected, and getting back up again, if you're ever going pick up the next stunningly gorgeous girl off the street. let alone talk to a girl.

and what probably helps in whatever you say to a girl, or anyone, is that you set a confident/good-hearted objective behind whatever you say

before you say "i'm hungry" . you're hungry, right?
so before you say "hi" you can't be thinking "omg you're so absolutely gorgeous that i think i'm hopeless but i'll try anyways because i think i love you"
you think "i want to know you. and you want to know me."

god damn, i think i smell chicken for dinner <3