[yyal]

Hey guys,
something has been bugging me for ages and i think if i don't ramble on about it i will eventually go crazy. infact i don't really know what answers i'm up for i just want feed back

So basically my formal is coming up final formal of highschool life and i wanna ask this guy to go.. (this guy i nicknamed juicebox lol dun ask =p)
but juicebox is kinda diff to all my other guy friends. (btw i go to a gal skool we can onli bring one guy each to the ofrmal)

a bit of history info about juicebox and i :
~So juicebox's grandparents and my grandparents are friend
~ Juicebox's Parents are really really good friends wif my auntie and uncle
~ Juicebox is in Uni and i'm in yr 12
~I guess you could say our family knew eachother for quite a while but me and juicebox have only known each other personally for bout 6 months.

so about 2 years ago, be4 i went to Hong kong for my summer vacation his dad and him bumped into me and my dad and grandma just a coincidence..
then on the 2nd last day at Hong kong be4 i was returning home we bumped into eachother again at the same Centre queing up for the same elevator and OMG going to the same restaurant for dinner, i mean come on its HOng kong we're on vacation its hard to bump into eachtoerh.. at that time he would give me cold looks ,or it might be his usual look he just didn't smile.

Bout like 6 months later he was doin his final year in Highg school yr 12 and i was doin yr 11 and on a rainy day when i didn't know my teacher wasn't at school for last period and my dad wouldn't pick me up i walked to the busstop and i saw him there, i then later found out he moved closer to my house actualli its only about a 3-4 min walk away O_O...
abbout a few weeks later i was at school sitting a trial exam so i finished late and then there was like absoulutley noone at the busstup and he came from no where and we bumped into eachother i started to think of the chinese saying "is this yun fen" (is this fate)

i obviously became very interested in this guy because we always bumped into eachother, i then later found out he knew my friend and then i added him on msn.,.. we hardli spoke.. but he was nice and all and this is wen we actualli got to know eachother , this was around last year 2008 sept..
from last year sept till only a few weeks ago we met eachtoher as in face to face and spoke. we met because he had a singing competition that he got into top 15 of his uni.
be4 the comp i was talkin to him online about the singing comp and at the end he was like
"oh i know it sounds gay but i would appreciate if you come to support me " so i was like yeh pretty normal he's just a friend..so why not support him, and then he offered to get me and my friends tickets so i said "ok i'll facebook you about the ticket numbers" but he was like "or you can call me" and he gave me his number. i thought that was pretty normal.
i also said to as encouragment "oh if you get into top 3 i'll shout you icecream"

So after long contemplation i decided to call him to tell him how many tickets to get , man i was really scared of the awkwardness, n e way well i called for like 10 secs and it flew to his mail box T.T half hour later i called again and he picked up.. umms this was the first time i've ever heard his voice (well as of wat i remember) he was pretty nice and all but he mumbles heaps, i told him how many tickets and such and i asked so how are you gonna giv me the tickets and he knows i live nearby coz we catch the same bus so he asked how far i live away from the bus stop but i didn't hear wat he said coz he was mumbling (i found this out after i got online) and i said Oh thanks to his quesition how stupid T_T...
hahas n e way so i was bout to hang up and he didn't seem like he wanted to coz he said "oh it was ure bd'ay a few days ago, happi b'day" i'm like "yeh thanks how do u know" and he mumbled sumfin T,T n e way he den told me he wud bring the tickets to my house i was like "O_O " no my mum will kill you altho we're fam friends.. i later said yes and told my mum the truth and she was all ok bout it.
so i decided to buy him sumfin as like "thanks for coming to giv tickets and gl" so i bought him toblerone chococlate the giant one and tied a ribbon in the middle =]

a few days later he came like at 11.30 pm so late T_T and he stood at the door i coudln't tell him to come in coz his bro was waiting in the car, n e way i gave him the chocolates and money and he gave me tickets and he spoke i was like woah coz wat i heard is that he's shy and quiet, and i was so stupid i was like holding the door handle like gving a "shoo, go away sign" .. hehe n e way he then left. n i looked on the envelop and it said " 'my name' thanks for supporting me" and i began to like him even more.

next day it was his singing comp, i saw his bro.. wen we were waiting to get in to the concert hall, and then when we were seated and waiting for the comp to start he was sitting wif his friends a few rows ahead.. he saw me and came up and spoke to me for like bout 10 15 mins according to my firneds.. he smiles at me differentli than to his friends, and he looked like he liked talkin to me and everytime he spoke he was standing and iw as sitting he was moving closer (that prob explains why he was moving closer) then i didn't see him personally besides wen he was singing for the whole nite.

after the comp finished i left wif my firneds.. and i didn't say bye to him coz i didn't know wen he'll come out, we were walking to the central and about to head to the station and my phone rang, and it was him (juicebox) and i was like "hey" and he said "hey where r u" i was like oo at "central near the station" and it was weird i didn't konw wat to say so i was like "oh yeh u sang realli realli well," n i was wanting to hang up ..but he sounded like he had something to say mayb like wait or sumfin i uno.. so about 10 mins later i got a txt from him saying "where r u " and i txt him bak saying "dude i'm on a packed train lol" and he txted bak saying "i'm on a paked train too" n i said "lol wow but i'm at blah bah staion" and i got no txt bak. (he told me be4 that his bro was driving him home , so i was guessing he either took the train wif friends or take train wif his firneds and tried to bump into me at the station"

the nxt day online, after everything was fresh n recent i was waiting for him to say sumfin but noeing him i thought waiting wud be pointless coz he always seem lazy and less liveli online so i said hey.. to him.. and he was like "hey hope yesterday wasn't boring" i'm like "yeh it wasn't" and he said "looks like i owe u icecream because i didn't get into top 3" but i was like thinkin it wasn't a bet, but ofcourse if he wants to shout me icecream i'm in. =p

So like we spoke for a while online and he said sumfin which i didn't know how to answer(nothing important or relevant to the topic i'm asking u guys =]) and the convo was getting boring so i just left it (my status was on busy) and two hrs later he goes "umm "my name" u haven't given me a reply" i'm like "reply to wat" and he said "to wat i said 2 hrs ago" and i was thinking aww he waited for me? ... and then i told him y i didn't repli i said i was busy doin hwk, and researching( i was liying) and then the nxt minute he gave me a whole page of the info on wat i was researching bout. so then he left and he said he wud be bak,,.. so he did come bak but didn't say n e thing to me =[

thats bout the last long convo we had ..fully
about 2 days ago my friend told me to ask him .. bout my icecream.. lol so i did and he seemed i uno mayb annoyed coz he said "next week is okay!!" but u can't tell on msn.. so i didn't say n e thing.

and yes i wanna ask this guy to the formal , i uno how , r we still not too close enough to ask him, so if i ask him to the formal he'll think WTH? or think i have other motifs ( i mean i do coz i like him a bit but he's not suppose to know =p) . and aslo dis guy isn't like n e other guys i've liked, usualli other guys i've liked in the pass i can always talk to them.. and i'm not scared they 'll think i'm clingy but wif juicebox i'm scared he'll think i'm clingy and he's in uni so i always think there's better ppl at uni and he can meet alot of other ppl at uni .. blahblah.. which also makes me think y wud he want to go to a yr 12 formal with me?

and guys if i do ask.. do i ask on phone.. real life or wat what shud i say?
i was planning to ask wen he shouts me icecream.. but formal tickets are on sale nxt week and i uno if he's gonna shout me icecream this week or wat .. should i ask again?
and do u guys think he likes me or showing sum signs?


thanks.. I KNOW its alot of reading,, i hope all makes sense if not tell me =p
and thanks for feedbak and opinions in advance =]

[exclaim!]

Well, I think he sees you as someone he wants to be friends with so I guess you could try asking him! :] And I suggest in real life causeee, it'll seem nicer, PLUS you get to see his reaction. 6 months is not that short so I think you should ask him! ^^

[yyal]

Well, I think he sees you as someone he wants to be friends with so I guess you could try asking him! :] And I suggest in real life causeee, it'll seem nicer, PLUS you get to see his reaction. 6 months is not that short so I think you should ask him! ^^

oh ok.. but if he says no wud that be awwkard =.= n yeh i feel like i shud ask him face to face but its a bit hard to like pull him out.. unless he shouts me that icecream but i don't want to be clingy and keep on asking him bout that ice cream, but indeed i don't care about the icecream i just wanna ask him to the formal

edit:
i mean as in the biggest problem is its hard to pluck up a conversation with him ..even on msn=.=

[exclaim!]

^ Yeahh, it'll be awkward, but if he says yes it won't be! :]
Well, if it's hard to pull up a conversation.. just ask him; i don't know if that's the best choice but it's the simplest~
And btw, since you said you guys are always meeting by accident, if you do anytime soon would be a good chance to ask him. Good luck! x

[SHINEjaejoong]

Just ask him out, I mean, it does seem like he likes you because when you didn't reply for like 2 hours and you asked for the ice cream he seemed angry, probably angry at you because you didn't reply to him. He likes you and that is obvious so you should go for it!
If he says no, then just act cool and everything!!!

OOOOoooh! He liiiiiiikeeeesss yoooouuu! *kiss sounds*

Ok, I should stop acting so childish! ^^

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

Ask in real life, face to face. and DO IT
Good luck girl. I have a feeling that if you don't ask, you'll regret it. ...so go for it!

[c'erine]

msg / call him and be likee
you owe me ice cream and once you guys
are more comfortable w/ each other then just
ask him to go to formal w/ you. prom isn't THAT
big of a deal, like you're not getting married

just make sure you are close enough to go to formal
like i went w/ a guy that i crushed on but barely knew
so it was ultra awkward ...

[yyal]

GUYS just like to say. thanks for ure help
AFTer LONG contemplation and listening to other ppls adivices i asked on msn.. yeh DON"T shoot me =.= i just can't call him or he'll think i'm desperate..
n e way he said YES he'll come =]
hahaha soo happi
thanks guys