[Xahns13]

So here's the story. My friend has a crush on a guy, but she has no idea how to approach him. They both do activities such as team sports, and they're somewhat close (like the friend way). She's not too sure if he knows about her crush on him. Does anyone have any suggestions for how she should approach?

PS. the older brother of the guy she's crushing on knows about her crush. Would this pose a problem? What's the likelihood of her crush knowing about it?

[xspringrollsx]

Be friendly, smile, talk about similar interests
start out small.

The thing about his older brother, well if the crush found out that she liked him isn't that a good thing?
But if your friend wants to be the one that wants to tell him and not the brother will depend on this friendship level of your friend and the older brother.

And I have a very good feeling your friend=you

[Xahns13]

Be friendly, smile, talk about similar interests
start out small.

The thing about his older brother, well if the crush found out that she liked him isn't that a good thing?
But if your friend wants to be the one that wants to tell him and not the brother will depend on this friendship level of your friend and the older brother.

And I have a very good feeling your friend=you

Actually, no. I'm a dude xD My friend's just too shy to post on these forums herself.

[AzizOnDeck]

mosquitoes are coming to get me right now so I'm gunn'a make this quick.... I'm gunn'a say it's going to depend on the friendship level of the crush and the girl if their close he might know but if their not really close then he might not know at all and just be thinking that that's just the way that she acts... anyways, I say just be herself, flirt around a bit if she can... act cute funny understand not a bit** though =) Good luck with your friend and I hope this helped

[Wendyyy]

She should just ask him to hang out some time (soon haha) and just have a good time and see how he reacts.
He might be completely oblivious and if he doesn't know yet, if they start hanging out his bro might let that detail slip.
Depends how close they are as bros I guess haha.
If she's shy, you could maybe set them up a little and kinda be the third wheel to keep things from being awkward? I don't know haha.

[kellyalster]

I think she should just ask him out. Why keep it a secret? You only live once. Just do what you want to get what you want.

[michikosashimi]

I think she should just ask him out. Why keep it a secret?

a good suggestion d:

[yellowchocolate]

i agree ^
she should just confess to him.
though it might not work out, she wouldve given it her best shot
and if her best wasnt good enough for him, then he doesnt deserve her anyways ^^
rejection will hurt...but its better than never trying

um, what was that quote?
"its better to have loved and lost than never loved at all"
haha, better to have confessed and failed than never confessed at all is the right adaptation for her situation i'd say =]

[karebearr]

HAHAHA CONFESS MY ASSSSSSS!!!! I'LL NEVER DO IT MWAHAHAHHAHAHAHH :D hi hans! :X

[Mannosuke]

Does anyone have any suggestions for how she should approach?

"Be my bf"

Isn't that how guys do it? Just replace "girl' with "boy" done.

[Xahns13]

HAHAHA CONFESS MY ASSSSSSS!!!! I'LL NEVER DO IT MWAHAHAHHAHAHAHH :D hi hans! :X

Damn it Karen... xD

[karebearr]

Damn it Karen... xD

:D well first of all i KNOW he will reject me...so why bother gettnig my heart broken? :/

[Mannosuke]

:D well first of all i KNOW he will reject me...so why bother gettnig my heart broken? :/

Oh, clairvoyant now are we.
Every other girl also KNOWS the guy will never accept her, which is why they never make the move in the first place!

We all know women have great intuition, just don't let it get to your head.

[karebearr]

Oh, clairvoyant now are we.
Every other girl also KNOWS the guy will never accept her, which is why they never make the move in the first place!

We all know women have great intuition, just don't let it get to your head.

>>; no i know. i've kinda already confessed to him and it was a rejection. but iuno T.T let's just go with i'll confess tomorrow..i hope i'll go through with it ><

[Mannosuke]

Maybe he's too manly to admit his feelings.
Cause a lot of guys actually hate being asked out by a girl cause it bruises their non-existent egos.