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#1 User is offline   ddqqww 

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Post icon  Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:27 PM

I'm going to ask a random question..
Okay, so after let's say you ask someone to be their gf/bf,
then they say yes.
I mean what do you do after?
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:30 PM

You hug them, and/or kiss them
you smile,
and you don't lie.
o: .

thats what i did,
i hugged, and smiled.

i never said 'I love you'
cause.. i find it awkward right after you ask/are asked by someone to.. be your bf/gf.
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:33 PM

Really? Cause if something like this ever happened to me,
my first reaction after she said yes, is..
Alright, with a smile smile.gif, i wouldn't hug,
Then.....................................................idk lol
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:35 PM

well..that's..hard to answer actually O.O
lol
I mean you obviously like the person right..? to be asking them out and such
so what do you want to do with the person you like?
spend time together right?
talk to each other right?
learn more about one another right?
things normal friends woudln't know, habits normal people woudln't know right?
for me, after we're official we just um..continue what we do before?
lol go out to places, do things together, talk about our problems, it' like he's my bestfriend whom i also do physical things with >.o
we like to go to the beach, we're not a movie-couple lol, it's been four months and we've only been to the movie twice O.O
we eat together, at home and out, shopping, go to volunteer services event together
and since we're senior
there's lot of things to do hahah, like i would make him take me to UCI for college things that i needa prepare for
we'll go play pool, bowling, etc =]
I hope i helps <3

Edit: oh..did i misunderstood the question?
if then Um..my answer is
i would hug him and we will continue whatever we're doing lolll
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:41 PM

a hug and a smile?
LOL, a kiss seems too soon.
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:00 PM

Lol yeah, i mean like when would you guys go on dates..
and how would you ask that other person to go on a date?
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:27 PM

Get something going, like make it SORT OF obvious.. i guess.
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Be yourself, build up the courage and ask them to go somewhere,
or,
pull them to a corner that's quiet or personal,

or?!

"wanna go get some ice cream? :3 i is hungries. and i wants a buckets! "
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then pop the question.

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Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:39 PM

treat her the way you treat her before, with a twist

you can hold her hands
you can ask him/her for private movie sessions
not too many hugs in the beginning tho, you might come off as "desperate"

don't make it go too fast. that's all wink.gif
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 06:54 PM

yea apparently i misunderstood the question too.......youre asking about what you do RIGHT after?

what you mentioned about just hugging her is just fine. it depends on what is going on though.............if you guys need to be going somewhere, then ask her if its okay to hold her hand. or slowly work your way to touch her hand and eventually holding it. or if you want, you can kiss her on the forehead.

it depends.....up to you..up to her....up to what the situation is
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 07:37 PM

Uh, right after? Ask them to lunch or something. Getting to know them more? laugh.gif
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 07:51 PM

Haha somehow this topic makes me all giggling inside, I find it really cute.

Smile is a must. Then you can, perhaps, hug and hold her hands sweatingbullets.gif
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 08:12 PM

I got a kiss, roses handed to me, and then treated to a nice dinner.
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 08:24 PM

well you can go play at her house then.
And then if you wish to do it, then gogo.
If not, no biggie.

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Posted 21 May 2009 - 08:26 PM

I didn't say "yes"

I said "If I HAVE to..."

HAhahha...
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Pretty sure we kissed afterwards
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 09:04 PM

If you are the guy,
IMO ( im a romantic freak-o)

Hug her sincerely and stay in silence for a while :3 ~~~~~~ so romantic! especially at night, under cherry blossom or near the ocean
then take her to dinner? i think take her to dessert is more like it
but if itz a nice weather, hold hands and walk around :3 then kiss her? xD

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Posted 21 May 2009 - 09:10 PM

Just do whatever you usually do when you're really happy!
Be affectionate - IF you want to. You could always wait 'til later. c;

Then just continue hanging out or go grab a bite to eat.
Walk around, hold hands? Whatever works haha.

My last ex, we just sat there afterwards and held hands and talked. xD
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Posted 21 May 2009 - 10:39 PM

You mean right after?

Hehehe, I did this just last week. After he accepted, I said "Okay let's have a first date. What do you want to do?" We also got some food to eat. We're both not super romantic and we weren't ready for physical touching, so there wasn't really any hugging or hand holding right after. We just did whatever we normally did as friends.

I guess you could try to just do what you always do together, and keep the conversation going so there aren't any awkward silences.
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Posted 22 May 2009 - 12:15 AM

LOL I never thought about that.
Interesting question...
I remember he asked me WHILE he was driving so he just went back to driving after he asked. LOL

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 01:17 AM

I can't remember what happened :/ I just remembered him asking me out, me saying yes and giving him a hug :/
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Posted 22 May 2009 - 01:55 AM

I dont think i've asked or have been asked to be someone's 'bf/gf' since i was about 12/13 years old, when you get a bit older i think you both realise you're kind of dating (sorry just realised that sounds a bit patronising i dont mean to be). anyway if i was you i'd just be like 'yay smile.gif' and then ask if they wanted to catch a movie in the next couple of days or go get somewhere to eat etc.
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