Beginning Of A Relationship? Questions for the taken..
#1
Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:27 PM
Okay, so after let's say you ask someone to be their gf/bf,
then they say yes.
I mean what do you do after?
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#3
Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:33 PM
my first reaction after she said yes, is..
Alright, with a smile
Then.....................................................idk lol
#4
Posted 21 May 2009 - 04:35 PM
lol
I mean you obviously like the person right..? to be asking them out and such
so what do you want to do with the person you like?
spend time together right?
talk to each other right?
learn more about one another right?
things normal friends woudln't know, habits normal people woudln't know right?
for me, after we're official we just um..continue what we do before?
lol go out to places, do things together, talk about our problems, it' like he's my bestfriend whom i also do physical things with >.o
we like to go to the beach, we're not a movie-couple lol, it's been four months and we've only been to the movie twice O.O
we eat together, at home and out, shopping, go to volunteer services event together
and since we're senior
there's lot of things to do hahah, like i would make him take me to UCI for college things that i needa prepare for
we'll go play pool, bowling, etc =]
I hope i helps <3
Edit: oh..did i misunderstood the question?
if then Um..my answer is
i would hug him and we will continue whatever we're doing lolll
#6
Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:00 PM
and how would you ask that other person to go on a date?
#7
Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:27 PM
8D
Be yourself, build up the courage and ask them to go somewhere,
or,
pull them to a corner that's quiet or personal,
or?!
"wanna go get some ice cream? :3 i is hungries. and i wants a buckets! "
;D .
then pop the question.
#8
Posted 21 May 2009 - 05:39 PM
you can hold her hands
you can ask him/her for private movie sessions
not too many hugs in the beginning tho, you might come off as "desperate"
don't make it go too fast. that's all
#9
Posted 21 May 2009 - 06:54 PM
what you mentioned about just hugging her is just fine. it depends on what is going on though.............if you guys need to be going somewhere, then ask her if its okay to hold her hand. or slowly work your way to touch her hand and eventually holding it. or if you want, you can kiss her on the forehead.
it depends.....up to you..up to her....up to what the situation is
#10
Posted 21 May 2009 - 07:37 PM
#13
Posted 21 May 2009 - 08:24 PM
And then if you wish to do it, then gogo.
If not, no biggie.
#14
Posted 21 May 2009 - 08:26 PM
I said "If I HAVE to..."
HAhahha...
Pretty sure we kissed afterwards
#15
Posted 21 May 2009 - 09:04 PM
IMO ( im a romantic freak-o)
Hug her sincerely and stay in silence for a while :3 ~~~~~~ so romantic! especially at night, under cherry blossom or near the ocean
then take her to dinner? i think take her to dessert is more like it
but if itz a nice weather, hold hands and walk around :3 then kiss her? xD
#16
Posted 21 May 2009 - 09:10 PM
Be affectionate - IF you want to. You could always wait 'til later. c;
Then just continue hanging out or go grab a bite to eat.
Walk around, hold hands? Whatever works haha.
My last ex, we just sat there afterwards and held hands and talked. xD
#17
Posted 21 May 2009 - 10:39 PM
Hehehe, I did this just last week. After he accepted, I said "Okay let's have a first date. What do you want to do?" We also got some food to eat. We're both not super romantic and we weren't ready for physical touching, so there wasn't really any hugging or hand holding right after. We just did whatever we normally did as friends.
I guess you could try to just do what you always do together, and keep the conversation going so there aren't any awkward silences.
#18
Posted 22 May 2009 - 12:15 AM
Interesting question...
I remember he asked me WHILE he was driving so he just went back to driving after he asked. LOL

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