[spearmint20]

I am a girl (over 18) and I have never been to a night club. I want to go this Saturday to see my crush because he'll be there, but I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DANCE!

so is it okay to not dance at the club?

can a girl just go to a club and chill and mingle?

[PoooBear]

Of course why not?
Unless you start dancing, I doubt anyone is going to dance with you.
I mean, they might approach you and ask you to dance, but if you say no, then that's it.

Go, have fun learn to dance if you don't know how.

[mayholic]

of course it's ok, but i would personally feel a little awkward
and why else would you go besides to dance? ;p can your crush dance? ask him to show you!

[DailyMelody]

Have you been to parties, proms or dances before?
I mean if you're going clubbing you at least wanna dance
one time right? And how are you so sure that you can't dance?
Sure we aren't all as good as Chris Brown, Usher or Michael Jackson lol
but if you got some rhythm there is nothing to be afraid off.
And why don't you ask some friends to come with you?
The point is; nothing is wrong with just chillin' and hanging out
but i'm the kinda person who likes to dance and like other people
to dance too. So don't be shy, just go for it 8D !
And if you really don't wanna dance, than that's okay.
Just go there, order some drinks and go sit in the lounge and have a great time. (:
(PS: i don't think that this thread belongs here XDD.)

[SushiToaster]

uhh this is probably in the wrong section buuut sure, haha it's perfectly fine to just go and mingle at a club, just make sure you at least have a couple moves up your sleeve in case he wants to dance ;) hahaha

[spearmint20]

Thanks for the replies!

Sorry I posted in the wrong section!

[BAZINGA!]

I think you should dance with him, especially if you're crushing on him. Since you're 18+ I'll just say put your butt on his peepee and move. haha.

[misstiffany]

^ LOL

um.. just bring your girls. look really confident. pretend you know what you're doing and get sandwiched in the middle so no one suspects anything!

[justwildbeat]

The easiest thing to do is just look at how the other girls/friends are dancing just go along with it XD Haha as I think it's kind of weird to just stand or sit somewhere at a club. Especially when all of your friends are going to out on the dance floor.

[BAZINGA!]

Oh yeah. If you live somewhere where you're legal to drink. Then I suggest you to drink because that'll help you just let loose and dance. Again, just BOPEEP (butt on his peepee) and if you REALLY like him, bend over. ahhaha. Getting sandwiched in the middle helps too if you need help dancing to the rhythm if one of your friends is in front you can follow her lead. Move your butt in circles OR a figure 8 if you really want to grind up on someone.

haha! I hope I've helped!

[AngelCherry]

Well honestly, I find it weird for people not to dance when they're at a club. It's kind of pointless why you're there, BUT that's just me. But since it's your first time, I can understand because I was like that too before. But if you're going to just stand around and do nothing, I would stand by the wall or side of something. Because people will stare at you and you WILL stand out if you're just standing in the middle of a crowd that's dancing and you're not. Also, don't stand by the bar if you're not going to buy any drinks, because I know some people who do that and they just get in the way of people buying drinks.

[squishybear]

No you MUST dance. That's the rule!

[hippiehop]

I definitely don't dance EVERY time I go. But if I don't dance, I'm usually drinking at the bar.....

[bluberri_oreo]

It's not fun when you don't dance. Then all you'll be doing is chatting with your friends and drinking if you're 21. Some people are afraid to dance, but once they try it out, they love it. So don't go just so you can watch your crush cause they may end up being boring.

[carmenxox86]

of course it is okay not to dance...if your not comfortable..you can drink and mingle with your friends at the lounge area..

[acexnyc]

It's true. It's not fun when you don't dance.
Also, if you think you got a shot at your crush, just grind with him!

[YUNICA]

of course it's okay. ;D
i didn't dance when i first went clubbing. haha. but i'm pretty sure you will after a few times. take it easy. =D

[cannotfindserver]

i think it's okay as long as you have a couple of other people who don't dance like you. haha. i'm not fond of dancing myself so i'd rather watch those cool dancers doing their thang on the dancefloor.

[ninyaah]

I think it's okay... but definitely not fun. Like during prom, everyone is dancing and having fun It's okay if you don't know how to dance; just sway along to the music. Haha. Don't worry too much and enjoy.

[shortstufflai]

Its fine to not dance (:
But theres nothin much to do if you don't...
Its either drink, dance, socialise or flirt LOL!