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Am I Losing Feelings?

#1 User is offline   pinkgirlblueboy 

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:00 AM

I really like my boyfriend, but I can't figure out whether I still like him in THAT way.

It sucks alot. But I just don't feel that excitement, that fuzziness, just that FEELING you get when you're with someone you really like. I care about him ofcourse, so thats why i'm confused...maybe i like him but I'm not IN like with him.

We use to fight all the time but i really really liked him and then we broke up, i regret it, asked for him back, and since then we havnt really had a fight...so maybe it's because i'm not use to it?

If he moved on tomorrow and broke it off with me I'll be upset....

sooo i have no idea.

How do you know when you're falling out of like? ( We've been dating nearly 6 months)
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#2 User is offline   dabrain 

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 01:31 PM

i think its normal that u kind of lose THAT feeling after some time.
as long as u really care ...
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#3 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:07 PM

x-x' my first response is

"love is not just a fuzzy feeling"
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second.
are you just comfortable? cos.. i'd kill for that feeling. rofl

if something still feels wrong. after you realise that having a s/o doesn't mean a forever of fuzziness.
there's just something you need to discuss with him.

"just cos you love someone, it doesn't necessarily mean you like them" - ahaha.
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#4 User is offline   aiyan 

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:11 PM

Since you guys have been dating for 6 months already, it's normal not to feel the same "sparks" as you did during your first two months with him. :|

You said that if he just walked out of your life the next day you'd be upset right? That shows you do still like him...
There are some questions you should ask yourself, such as
1- Can you honestly say I like you or Ily to his face?
2- Why do you feel like your losing feelings? What could be the reason?
3- Do you want to be with him a lot and when you're with him are you happy?

These are just basic starter questions. (: goodluck.
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#5 User is offline   小甜密 

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Posted 22 May 2009 - 06:11 PM

It seems like honeymoon stage is overrrrr. Staying in a relationship is right when you want to stay commited, but it's not right to continue being there for them just because you care about their feelings. As a matter of fact, you're eventually hurt them in the end for taking so long to break up.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 01:49 AM



sighs. i'm in the same situation. honeymoon-stage officially over. i think you should consider the relationship over; if you still care for him but no longer have feelings for him, i think it's better off if you broke it off. you'd save him a lot of hurt later on.

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#7 User is offline   ShadowMax76 

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 02:05 AM

^that somewhat seems like 'oh. the high he gives me is gone. ah well, next guy."
doesn't it?
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 06:43 AM

I know from many that the feelings are somehow strange after a break up, i mean break up means there is no point in the relationship so you have to leave that person.

Why you fought so much before?


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