[mrsjaejoong]

So I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and we hang out in a really closely knit group and we all just call eachother 'family'. But a few days ago, I was at a sleepover/houseparty with the group, except my boyfriend wasn't there. I ended up hanging out with one of my closest guyfriend in the group (who is my boyfriends Best Friend in the group), we'll call him boy #2 and my bfs boy #1. It was 7 in the morning, and we were the only ones still awake so we ended up getting into a long talk.
I asked him about this one time where he talked to my bf in private a few days before my bf and i became official. that day, my bf was really distant and rude to me out of nowhere and it really hurt me, so I talked to boy #2 about it, and he said 'ok, you know what? don't worry about it. i'll talk to him...' Then suddenly, after they talked, my boyfriend was so nice to me again... it really kind of kept me wondering all this time, but neither of them would tell me what they talked about...


so here i am at 7AM talking to boy #2, taking advantage of the fact that he's kind of drunk, so I used the opportunity to ask him about that day... then he admitted it. my boyfriend found out that day that boy #2 also liked me, so they didn't want to fight over me, so they both agreed to stay away from me. but then boy #2 saw how depressed i was and told my boyfriend to just go for me since it's obvious that we both like eachotehr... after he told me everything, he said 'ah f***, i wish i told you this in 6 months and not now...'
me: O.o what difference does that make? it's not like you still like me
boy #2: fine, w/e... put words in my mouth
me: wait... you still like me? O.O
boy #2: ....fml.. yeah


so now, I don't know how to act in front of boy #2 when I'm with my boyfriend since we all know everything now. i know that boy #2 likes me, my boyfriend knows too, and boy #2 knows it all... we're all open with it.. but i still don't know how to act.. i dont' want to be a jerk by kissing my bf in front of him because i know that it'll hurt, but then he keeps insisting that he's fine with it (but then again, i know that he's good at hiding his emotions), and my bf and i are usually the affectionate type so if i stop, it'll obviously make an impact on the relatinoship.. but i feel reallllly guilty when boy #2 can see me and my bf kissing

[plegend2007]

The thing you should do is to have a talk with your bf about this situation, and come up with a proper solution. Since your bf is that guy's best friend and all, he of all people should understand how that guy felt about you. Carry on by respecting his feelings when you guys are all around or hanging out. Don't show too much pda and such..after all, guy #2 encouraged your bf to pursue you b/c he saw how miserable you were. He respected your feelings as well as your bf's feelings, so he deserves that much.

If your bf doesn't want to change for the sake of his best friend, and wants to carry on pda around him, then he is just a prick imo. He is just rubbing salt on an open wound, which is not right. If that's the case, I would highly think over who you're really dating in the first place.

Guy #2 seems like a good guy, so I would hope that the both of you would show him some respect and think about his feelings when the both of you are with him.

[NICONICO-Jin93]

just act the way you used to in front of him.
he'll get used to it.

[aiyan]

How do you feel about Boy #2? Boy #2 sounds like a nice guy.

I don't think you should act differently or your bf might get suspicious and tension may arise between bf + boy2.

[ThaiNote]

lol your emotionally cheating on your bf. dump your bf, it's better for him, you and guy 2

[heheimawesome]

just tell your boyfriend if it was flipped around and you dated #2 and he liked you, would he wanna see that?
he should understand. do NOT kiss your boyfriend in front of #2 it'll hurt him.

and to the person above me how is she emotionally cheating on her boyfriend? she doesnt like #2. she just doestn wanna hurt him thats understandable ive been in a situation like this when i was really immature, my girlfriend would kiss me infront of a girl who liked me on purpose and i went along with it because i didnt realize how much it hurts when u see that