[rarawong]

Hey everyone!~~ This is kinda long and confusing but i'd really appreciate it if you could give me some feedback as i'm completely stuck as to what i should do next =( Bob is my really close friend, like a brother and Mimi is someone i met at camp a few times and we just talked alot over msn...

Its kinda a long story and I don't know if you really want to hear it >< but its your choice if you want to read it in the end or not. hehe. See I had this guy friend called Bob, and then a close girl friend called Mimi. I've only met mimi like once, but we're super close and stuff for some reason because we think really alike... but Mimi lives in England and Bob lives in my city and we go together for school. So mimi starts talking to bob becaused I introduced them and over time they had a little internet fling >< (they've never met) but she got tired of him when she found out he still liked his X and she was kinda mad. So after ignoring him for three months she goes back and talks to him and was all like trying to be close to him and all but all along all she's been doing is try to win back his heart so she can break it and get revenge on him >< eek!~~ Not that great an idea. Because mimi and I are good friends we share all our passwords and she';s always on my MSN. Shes also never given bob her real name, her real address, or any real pictures. Ai and she's always talking to him as her fake account and then she's also on my account talking to him. She also only goes online when I do so her schedule matches up with mine

SO the real problem starts when Bob suddnely realizes something is going on and that mimi is kinda fake when he searches up the information he gave her and the pictures she gave him and found out they were off the internet. So he then suspects that it is me pretending to be her the whole time to get his attention because her schedule matches up with mine and whenever she replys on her MSN i don't reply and whenever i reply she never. When he told her that he thought it was me she told him that yeah I am Rachel (myname) and she pushed everything onto me beacuse she thought she could really hurt him that way, AT first he never seemed mad so I took the blame >< because I had already done it once in June of last year (long story) but now he's super pissed off and won't talk to me... and i don't know what to do. Mimi then dissapared for a while because she didn't want anything to do with him and just didn't care what happened anymore, and it turns out that she was trying to break my relationship with him too because she thought me and bob were too close and she thought I liked him. Thing is, bob now thinks I made the whole thing up to play him and make him like me when I never did ><

But since I already took all the blame I didn't bother try tellng him the truth because it'd make things worse. But then suddenly mimi found her conscience and went on her "fake" account and said sorry and she used the word "we" implying me and her when she said sorry. Then bob msg me and told me that I should stop lying and that there was no "we:" in the whole situation and only me.... So if I tell him that it wasn't me all along he'll just think I am making up another lie to get him back.. ai. This is really stupid. IT really does seem like I did it though because of the timing when she talks to him, never when my account is talking, when i'm not home neither is she... when he's at my house shes never online...

Should I just keep on letting him think it was me? Or should I tell him the truth and risk him thinking that i'm making another huge lie up.

anywayss ♥ if you read it all thank you so mcuh ^^ hehe it made me feel alot better writing it down!~~~ and thanks so much for posting =) it means alot to mee

[xspringrollsx]

I suggest changing your password now. I don't see why she has to use your msn when she has her own :S
You should tell Bob the truth (and for some reason in real life not on msn) its up to him whether he believes it or not.

[rarawong]

^^ aww thanks for replying and reading =)
I changed all my PW a few times and she acutally got into some of them. My friends all believe me because they knew I was acting weird on MSN before when it was actually her talking to them >< but even though Bob knows me best I don't think he'll believe that... She just likes pretending to be I guess >< and she's really good at it. Like she knows my friends almost as well as I do and she knows everything about me... which is kinda creepy. At first I let her reply everyone because I was busy doing HMK and i dind't want to seem like I was ignoring everyone... but I didn't realize she went on all the time, and that it was getting so out of hand.. the thing is, we're in the same class for like three? four subjects? and we're completely ignoring each other and he's always surrounded by his friends and i'm surrounded by mine... and I don't know how to approach him. I tried saying sorry to him once and he just told me to stop being so annoying.

[xspringrollsx]

Just make your password SUPER DUPER HARD and don't tell anyone else either. If she still gets in then she must be using some hacking program or something LOL

From now on, I think its best that you don't tell anyone your password. Because when she goes online no one knows its you or not and just makes things more complicated when it shouldn't be.

Nah don't say sorry to him yet. Well personally its not even your fault there shouldn't be anything to be saying sorry for and it just makes you look like to him all your fault.

[rarawong]

yeah no >< she's not going on anymore, I can't even find a way of contacting her.... but i'm really stuck as to what I should do now. His friends all know my side of the story and they all believed me and were kinda appalled that he would believe I would actually do such a thing because its totally OOC plus I really don't have time to make up a fake account just to talk to him and stuff >< anywayss, yeah thx for helping tho!~~

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

this is sad.........and let this be a lesson to you'. leave bob alone. if you guys are meant to be friends then you guys will eventually be friends again. i know if i were bob i wouldnt want anything to do with you even if its your fault or not. how the hell youre gonna let some girl who you guys never even met get in between you two?? seriously go out more or something. work on intrepersonal communication and not online chatting. seesh

[lxmikexl]

break it and get revenge?
wtf

i'd hate to meet girls like that

[anjerlaninja]

Uhh...I think you need to tell him the truth

[rarawong]

this is sad.........and let this be a lesson to you'. leave bob alone. if you guys are meant to be friends then you guys will eventually be friends again. i know if i were bob i wouldnt want anything to do with you even if its your fault or not. how the hell youre gonna let some girl who you guys never even met get in between you two?? seriously go out more or something. work on intrepersonal communication and not online chatting. seesh

haha, thanks for your reply ^^ I'm leaving him alone def. I just don't know what to do next. I know bob is mad but he doens't hate me yet but still. It wasn't like I let her get in between us. And it was the fact that I was always out and not online that she went online and talked to him >< so i don't think thats the problem

break it and get revenge?
wtf

i'd hate to meet girls like that

haha, break what?? XD but thanks for reading

Uhh...I think you need to tell him the truth

I want to too, I just don't know if he will believe me... do you think it'd make it worse or better? Thats my question... ai but thxx I really appreciate you commenting.