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Do You Listen To Your Heart Or Your Mind?

#1 User is offline   kimmi.kami 

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Posted 23 May 2009 - 04:22 PM

Topic says it all, do you listen to your heart or your mind?
I listened to my heart just a few days ago, but apparently it lied to me >.>
I once read that someone should listen to their minds instead of their hearts because their hearts were only emotions that will fade.

Question is, which do you listen to more? Heart or mind?
Which one makes the right choices?
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Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:45 PM

Nowadays, I listen more to my mind. Before, my heart has led me to getting screwed over and having bad judgment in people :\ The heart has the emotions, yes, but sometimes emotions can make everything... cloudy in the mind. Or at least, for me it is... So I'd rather think and follow what my mind says.
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Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:48 PM

Listen to the mind... hate to break it to you, but you don't love from your heart, it's... just a muscular organ. :\
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Posted 23 May 2009 - 09:56 PM

QUOTE (adiavoy @ May 23 2009, 10:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Listen to the mind... hate to break it to you, but you don't love from your heart, it's... just a muscular organ. :\


Ahaha, I agree.

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Posted 23 May 2009 - 10:24 PM

i want to listen to my mind, but when i'm actually put into a situation dealing with romance or friendship, i always listen to my heart no matter what my mind tells me. and yes, i get screwed over.. but w/e life sucks and you move on
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Posted 23 May 2009 - 10:25 PM

i listen to my mind more often now. i get hurt a lot when just listening to my heart =(
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 12:05 AM

how exactly does one "listen to their heart" >.<

mine just goes thump thump.

my mind tells me what to do.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 12:33 AM

I'm not really good in love realtionship. So I actually follow my instinct, they never lie.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 02:11 AM

QUOTE (orangious @ May 24 2009, 01:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm not really good in love realtionship. So I actually follow my instinct, they never lie.


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So true wink.gif

Heart= makes emotional or irrational decisions.

Mind=makes decisions that comes from over analyzing.

Gut instinct=always leads you to the right decisions.

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 02:40 AM

Go for the mind, it's a better thinker than the heart. Have to consider the good and bad of whatever the heart wants, even though it's so hard to do!
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 02:54 AM

QUOTE (plegend2007 @ May 24 2009, 12:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^
So true wink.gif

Heart= makes emotional or irrational decisions.

Mind=makes decisions that comes from over analyzing.

Gut instinct=always leads you to the right decisions.


I can't agree more. In whichever case I stumble upon, whether it's hard or easy, I always listen to my mind first and then "double check" it with what my instinct tells me.

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 03:01 AM

I don't really differentiate between my heart and my mind for some reason,
they're both not that useful for now,
I'll say that I listen to none, I just do what seems good.

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 03:09 AM

m... i'm a guy so...what do i listen to....

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 05:14 AM

i listen to my mind once and i made a mistake o_o
but yeah. its all in the mind d:
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 05:35 AM

That's a tough question. I used to say LISTEN TO YOUR HEART, but I was foolish to believe that. Sometimes your heart is blinded, and listening only to your head doesn't work either. Then again, it depends on the situation. Learning from past experiences, I'd say.. listen to the people around you (doesn't mean you have to do exactly what they say, but atleast listen and take in their advice/suggestions) because they can see the whole situation you are in in a different way that you do. So, I guess.. just listen and have your options open and follow your instinct. It may lead you in the right direction, or maybe in the wrong one. But, no one is perfect and we all make mistakes. The only thing you can do then is learn from your past mistakes and make sure you don't end up repeating them..!
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 05:36 AM

I usually listen to my mind cuz I generally make decisions based on my personal experience rather than what i feel.
Sometimes it works..sometimes it doesnt.. its a hit or miss thing really.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 11:35 AM

seriously i can't even tell which answer came from my heart or my mind.
it's always 2 isn't it?

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Posted 24 May 2009 - 12:28 PM

Listening to my mind has saved me from making stupid mistakes by listening to my "heart".
I've learnt to listen to my mind. my heart's screwed me over way too many times XD I don't trust it.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 12:40 PM

I follow my heart and I tryyyy to reason a little, but. -shrug. I trust my heart more, haha.
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Posted 24 May 2009 - 12:55 PM

QUOTE (plegend2007 @ May 24 2009, 03:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Heart= makes emotional or irrational decisions.

Mind=makes decisions that comes from over analyzing.

Gut instinct=always leads you to the right decisions.


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