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#1 User is offline   brownman90561495 

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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:01 PM

What does it mean when a girl asks you if you like her? smile.gif How would you feel and how would you react?
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#2 User is offline   xspringrollsx 

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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:05 PM

Well, I'm a girl but if a guy were to ask me that I would most likely think he must have some sort of interest towards me unless we're good friends. Just in case he does, I would either try to avoid the question or answer by naming the positive qualities about that person.

I sometimes ask my good guy friends this out of curiosity to see what impression I give off people I guess. But that sort of question can be interpreted differently so depends on the level of friendship.


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#3 User is offline   plegend2007 

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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:29 PM

Why beat around the bush...

If you like her...say yes.
If you don't...say no.

If you like her and she doesn't like you back...Just move on.
If she likes you and you feel the same...Then go for it and have fun.

You see, by being straight forward, you just saved a lot of time and energy without all that pointless wondering...One way or the other, you'll know and act accordingly.

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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:32 PM

It means she wants you to take your pants off.

Or not. She might just like you and wants you to "admit" it first you know? Just straight up tell her if you do or dont haha
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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:40 PM

QUOTE (bobby is hungry @ May 29 2009, 02:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It means she wants you to take your pants off.

Or not. She might just like you and wants you to "admit" it first you know? Just straight up tell her if you do or dont haha


amusing replies hahaha smile.gif

well this happened several years ago already, and we just did know each other for just 2 weeks. just at one point (maybe at least 12 hours before we parted ways for good), she popped that question. and yes i told her i like her because i did (and i still do). it's like a million dollar question for me because it has been puzzling me why.
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Posted 28 May 2009 - 10:48 PM

um.......I like you but I don't want to make a fool of myself so I want you to tell me first........
it's harder to say so they just say "Do u like me?"
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#7 User is offline   brownman90561495 

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Posted 28 May 2009 - 11:15 PM

what's quite disturbing is this very pretty girl in your eyes whom you like so much asks you that question. it's like a trick question or something.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 07:56 AM

um.. if i asked a guy that
i would most likely have some interest in him

i guess it depends on her tone?

if she said that with some disgust
maybe she thinks or heard you like her
and is just confirming?
(in this case she doesnt like you)

but if shes kinda like nervous/shy when she asked your
or said that in a flirtatious tone
then she likes you
and wants to know how you feel about her before she confesses to you
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#9 User is offline   qquinto 

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 10:01 AM

i wouldn't ask a guy that unless i liked him. a lot. and knew he liked me back.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 04:07 PM

If a girl can summon up the guts to ask that sort of question, I sure hope the guy has enough balls to give a straightforward answerr at the very least
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 05:47 PM

uhm yeah? i would think so but there are people in the world who doesn't....like my friend, he cares about people liking him in the normal non like like way?...i guess it depends on the person.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 06:20 PM

Tell her the truth!! haha And if you don't like her, tell her in the nicest way possible because chances are, she's asking you because she kinda likes you smile.gif
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 07:25 PM

Out of curiousity?
Maybe you gave her signs of liking her & she was curious to know if you actually did?
I know one of my friends sometimes showed he liked me, but then there were times it seemed as if I was being an idiot for thinking so dry.gif I really wanted to ask him, but didn't have the guts sweatingbullets.gif
Just be honest, you might regret it if your not smile.gif

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 07:40 PM

x_X' makes me suspect her of attempted manipulation of my heart. the question itself being the end of the game and plucking the fruit of her flirtatious labor.

but meh. i love getting to the point of all things unnecessarily frivolous.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 07:52 PM

i'd like to think the same myself, but here's the short story to that:

we were in a bar with some family and friends. we decided to go home. i went outside the bar first because it was noisy inside. just moments after, she followed me. alone. then we talked. and asked me that question. i certainly am sure of her tone not being disgusted because on the look of her eyes. and eventhough i didn't want her to know, i told her the truth without hesitation that i like her alot. that happened 12 hours before we parted ways for good.

hope this helps smile.gif
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 07:55 PM

Man up and just do that mini cooper
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 08:58 PM

It means you are very very boring.
It's like those awkward moments question
EG "So...........................how's the weather?"
or "So................ what you up to?" and then the next 5 minutes the girl asks you again "What you doing nao?"

Honestly, every single girl will ask you that and mean nothing.
So I can only conclude one thing - AWKWARD MOMENTS.
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Posted 01 June 2009 - 07:09 AM

QUOTE (한스 ㅋㅋ @ May 31 2009, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It means you are very very boring.
It's like those awkward moments question
EG "So...........................how's the weather?"
or "So................ what you up to?" and then the next 5 minutes the girl asks you again "What you doing nao?"

Honestly, every single girl will ask you that and mean nothing.
So I can only conclude one thing - AWKWARD MOMENTS.


LOL no one told me this before hahaha but i'll take good note of this one tongue.gif
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Posted 01 June 2009 - 08:35 AM

that means she likes you and you should say yes. tongue.gif
how would you feel? hmmm just dont feel scared of commitment
 

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Posted 01 June 2009 - 09:26 AM

She's obviously interested in your love life or who you might like or leading towards what kind of girls you like. So I'd say she's interested in you, and wants to know more about that part of you before admitting that she likes you or making a move.

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