[ShadowMax76]

is it meant to be a strong wall of denial, conjuring whatever strange reasons/logic against the person
to build that wall of denial,
until the feelings are logically inaccessible?

or is it actually meant to be 'moving on', 'out of mind', knowing where within the heart/mind not to tread when it comes to that person ?


_ i blame the person who told me "you can never un-love someone."
>>" someone explain it, cos i can't make much sense of it all.

it almost seems like changing which drug you're addicted to.

[ilovefoodx333]

....knowing where within the heart/mind not to tread when it comes to that person ?


_ i blame the person who told me "you can never un-love someone."
>>" someone explain it, cos i can't make much sense of it all.

it almost seems like changing which drug you're addicted to.

I won't say "you can never un-love someone" but I can say that you can never be truly over a person. Since you've been with that person that means that at the time the person earned a pretty important spot in your heart right? Even if you and the person is over a part of that person stays in that spot. So...to be truly over a person. You have to forget everything that has to do with that person. All the memories.

That's what I think o-o

[blueskiezgurl]

If its really over then its OVER..the only time its not over, is when u still have some feelings for the other person no matter how small or big it is..

[heheimawesome]

i think you're truly 100% over someone when you no longer feel the need to PROVE how well you are doing or PROVE that you are over them.
neither will you have to prove that they weren't worth your time. they'll just be another person who is there.

simply put the feelings just arent there. and if you like someone else, thats even better. i dont think its "knowing where your heart should and shouldn't tread with that person"
i think its more that your heart won't even have those thoughts or feelings. thats moving on

[5.mystline]

I say one is never truly over someone because there is always that very little feeling left behind, unless something really nasty happened. haha

[PI.]

To me, moving on is when you can think of that person and have no more lingering feelings. It takes long to get over someone though.. trust me, I know. ): But its okay, cuz life goes on, and you gotta do the best you can to move on.

[daulism]

Getting over someone is like a teenager's old Pokemon obsession.
They've liked it since kids, eventually they moved on,
and even though they don't er, watch the shows and collect the cards and probably threw those cards away,
they don't regret liking Pokemon; but it's not on their mind 24/7 and they don't choose it first over something else
(ex... choosing gossip girls over pokemon on tv)

T__________T Well that was lame. I tried haha.

[Sam Sik]

Getting over someone is like a teenager getting over their Pokemon obsession.
They've liked it since kids, eventually they moved on,
and even though they don't er, watch the shows and collect the cards and probably threw those cards away,
they don't regret liking Pokemon; but it's not on their mind 24/7 and they don't choose it first over something else
(ex... choosing gossip girls over pokemon on tv)

T__________T Well that was lame. I tried haha.

I've never read such a genius simile like this before.

[colloquy]

To be completely over somebody means that you would never go back to them and you have no feelings for them anymore. That's when you know you're over them. But, then again, some people will never be over some of their ex's.

[AhYee]

LOL at the pokemon analogy. Pure genius.
I completely agree with it.
Personally I don't think you'll ever get over that person because that one person once meant something to you, and no matter how hard you try, you won't be able to forget everything that happened. It's like a soft spot; you'll always have that soft spot. You won't care for that person as much, or he really doesn't make a difference to your life, but you'll have that spot left behind.

[AHLEENA]

Getting over someone is like a teenager's old Pokemon obsession.
They've liked it since kids, eventually they moved on,
and even though they don't er, watch the shows and collect the cards and probably threw those cards away,
they don't regret liking Pokemon; but it's not on their mind 24/7 and they don't choose it first over something else
(ex... choosing gossip girls over pokemon on tv)

T__________T Well that was lame. I tried haha.

It's not lame.
I totally agree!

[Pinkychan]

hmm to me.. i kidna figured this out when me and my co-worker were talking about getting voer guys.. but the thing is even though.. you have found someone else to sapzz over?? when you meet the person that you rpeveously had a crush on... theres still a space for them in your heart.. i dont know i get those feelings its liek i can still liek them again kind of thing..so i guess it goes with wut your friend said?" you can never stop likeing someone"?

[plegend2007]

It's like having that favorite shirt or a pair of jeans. When you know you can either throw it away or give it away to Goodwill or Salvation Army without being all sentimental and without hesitation...Then you know you are over it.

[SKINNY_GENES]

getting over someone means that you're not IN LOVE with him/her anymore.

[elperro]

are you asking what it means to be over someone, or the ways in which people get over someone?

well, you can never truly "get over" a person you truly loved; there's always a little remnant left behind, whether it be a reminder of the person or the times spent with them in which you can now hardly remember their faces anymore but perhaps the encounter of a sea shell might suddenly trigger a memory of your summer days with your former love. but it's just a reminder, nothing more and nothing less. i think this is how getting over a person is what it's like.. of course you'll get flashbacks of your former love, but when you can look back with a little sense of neutrality and not with intense bitterness or love, then you have, in a sense, moved on.

in terms of ways in which a person gets over someone, that can vary. people often find solace in another (not a wise decision in my opinion), try to occupy themselves in other things, etc. i personally try to find flaws in the other person. it always works. lol.

[lemoncake0910]

I agree with what most posters here said.
That particular person has a place in your heart and you can't really completely forget them, and the memories you had with them.. (unless you have amnesia or something)...
you somewhat forget them when you meet another person of interest.

[MrPower]

For me, it's when I don't feel anything when I think of them.
Apathy? For me, only one person can be on my mind at a time. Whenever I think of past relationships, I remember the good times, but I don't linger on them.

[h0ney]

i know when im over someone
is when i only rmb the good memories, i can joke abt them, i can talk to them without feeling a thing
when i think.. "well that was no biggie"

[xoxoknlove]

is it meant to be a strong wall of denial, conjuring whatever strange reasons/logic against the person
to build that wall of denial,
until the feelings are logically inaccessible?

or is it actually meant to be 'moving on', 'out of mind', knowing where within the heart/mind not to tread when it comes to that person ?


_ i blame the person who told me "you can never un-love someone."
>>" someone explain it, cos i can't make much sense of it all.

it almost seems like changing which drug you're addicted to.

thats why love doesn't walk away, people do

[rectitude*]

I think you're over someone when you don't have that same feeling you used to have for them. For instance, when you see them again they're just another person like a friend or whatever. You don't get that happy feeling seeing them. I don't know, that's just me.