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Do U Judge The Other By Their Look , Religion .....or What ?

#1 User is offline   blue moon 

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Post icon  Posted 30 May 2009 - 03:51 PM

iam just wondering ..how most of u judge the other ...?



for me idonot care for what religion they r it doesnot matter for me .......but some time i judge them by their look & i know it is wrong caz when u gett to know them they llok very nice or as u expect bad........so i want to know what u think???
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#2 User is offline   Tiggie 

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 04:41 PM

I would never judge someone by their religion,
I judge someone by their personality.

I can see how you could judge someone by their looks...
(first impressions and what not)
but I try my best not to judge by looks.

" Don't judge a book by it's cover"

I experienced they true meaning of that quote

I use to think people who dressed in baggy jeans riding past the butt
and wore black hoodies and bandannas were gangsters
but after getting to know those gangsters
they aren't who they appear to be :)

Also a lot of people judge others by their intelligence...

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 06:13 PM

I think I'm guilty of judging people by their taste in movies... v__v
And how they type on the internet.
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Post icon  Posted 30 May 2009 - 06:16 PM

Nooooo~Never

I only judge on how you act.


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Posted 30 May 2009 - 06:18 PM

I'll be honest that I judge a book by its cover, but on the whole, I go for someone's personality and sense of humour.
And to be honest, all of my friends are decent looking. I don't know if it's just a coincidence, or if I unconsciously chose them? I don't know how to explain myself. haha
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 06:53 PM

I am pretty sure everyone judge a person by their looks even if they say they don't. I mean, if you see someone dressed in rags, would you honestly go up to them and say hi? Not to be offensive or anything, but it's the truth. From what I've seen, many people judge based on looks.

For me, I do take that into consideration, but personality is what I really judge them for.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 08:31 PM

Looks and first impressions, yup yup. If those two work out, I'll move on to personality.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 08:34 PM

unfortunately, yes.
looks are truly a first impression i get from a person. also whether they look like they're a people person or not really makes or breaks my initial 'assessment' of them
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 09:33 PM

I kinda judge them from the way they talk to me.

Ghetto accent kind of makes me take them not so seriously.
If they talk in some sort of a sophisticated way or just with some form of intelligence, like they know what they're talking about, then I'd take them seriously.


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Posted 30 May 2009 - 09:36 PM

Humour
I don't care how pinkberry or slutty she is
Or how nerdy or geeky she is, as long as she is funny, then that's good.

If you're talking about relationships then that is different.
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Posted 30 May 2009 - 09:41 PM

I judge people by the way they are around others, mainly their personalities.
When it comes to looks -- the way they dress can say a few things, but not entirely.

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Posted 30 May 2009 - 10:07 PM

I'm very judgemental of people maybe to much.

I judge people base on religious and family background but only when it come to relationships that are romantic. When it comes to friends I'm very much don't judge but when it comes to future boyfriends. I show no mercy. The man I'm with has to have the same beliefs. I can't date someone who is religious. I'm atheist by nature and really have no care. I can't be with someone that I don't have an attraction on a physical level. My standards are strange cause I don't like very skinny or muscular men. That becomes it's a turn off to me. I feel everyone has judgemental nature some more than others. If we didn't judge someone then we wouldn't have friends vs best friends or husband vs boyfriends. We judge characteristics of person and choose mentally rather to befriend or love this person. Leave that person only or keep memory of them being an enemy. Humans are very judgemental its really an instinct.


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Posted 30 May 2009 - 10:19 PM

I'm too judgemental sometimes :T

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Posted 31 May 2009 - 10:21 AM

well my friends after i read how u judge the other ... that give me a new way to judge people which is >>( first i should define which kind of relationship i want with them ... then choose the right way to jude : religion or look or personilty >>>> instead of follow one way of judging wink.gif
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 11:45 AM

QUOTE (Miss Vivienne @ May 30 2009, 09:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think I'm guilty of judging people by their taste in movies... v__v
And how they type on the internet.


I do that too. Now if you watch Marie Antoinette, you're my best friend.
And if u typ lyk dis, i dun rly lyk ya.

I would never judge a person by their religion. I'm a muslim myself and I accept and respect every religion in this world, and I believe everyone should.
Most of the time I do not judge people by their looks either, but there can be exceptions. Can't think of any right now, though.
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 12:52 PM

I judge people by their looks and who they hang out with mostly.
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 01:02 PM

I would never judge anyone by their religion, because belief doesn't really a good or bad person.
I am guilty for judging people by with their looks, if you're wearing thick make up I would see you as someone less approachable. People who you hang out with also influence, my thoughts. I mean the first impression lasts a lifetime, make a good one laugh.gif
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 05:54 PM

Looks, beliefs, interests, style, status level (popularity: something everyone in my class wants, not interested), and other friends that I may not favor don't make me judge a person.
A horrible personality, extreme fakeness, and a judgemental mentality (the need to insult someone because they eat slower than everyone else or something as immature as that) will make me judge until that person is in pieces. Figuratively, not literally.
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 06:38 PM

QUOTE (hungrycollegeboy @ May 31 2009, 01:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I kinda judge them from the way they talk to me.

Same. Also WHAT they talk about..
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Posted 31 May 2009 - 10:34 PM

You know what I find ridiculous. Is the fact that I now judge based on how they tell me to judge.
Them being society.

You know back when I was a little kid(I know this is probably horrible considering im 22 and looking back way back for answers) I never judged people how I judge now(Looks, status, clothing, hair,eyes, any john teshing thing that has to do with looks)

Before I judged people exactly how they portrayed themselves. And that in itself is another pavement of judging. Because they werent items or even had bearings of looks, status or clothing) but rather were just physical entities.

How those entities reacted towards our whole play ground(reality) was how I judged those individuals. I.E. if said entity was running straight through a road when a car was going 60 mph on that very road I'd judge that individual as a retard.
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