So theres this guy, I've known him since high school and now I'm finishing up my freshman year of college.
In high school, our relationship was really cool, and chill: which made me fall for him.
We always go hang out with our group of friends.. I would sometimes go hug him from behind,
and he would put his hands on top of mine. When I hook his arm, he would hold my hand...sorta...and cuff it...then he would hug me from behind.
But we was just friends...I wanted to take things to the next level...and wanted to confess to him...that i have been crushing on him for a long while...but...
things took a turn and our relationship isn't as cool as before...before when i hug him, he wouldn't let go before i let go...
but now its different...and when I stand kind of near him, he would walk away...well, to me anyways,
maybe i'm just noticing it more... >_<''...two of my friends was trying to get me to tell him,
but i just felt like...he isn't interested anymore...I have no idea what to do anymore... >_<''...he just makes me really confused...
Should I confess to him...(when i gather up my courage to) <-- how do you gather up courage? >_<'
or should i just...let go...
thanks for reading...
advice please? >_<''
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So Theres This Guy...
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Posted 02 June 2009 - 02:51 AM
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Posted 02 June 2009 - 05:21 AM
hey this is quite a tough one. questions though:
1. would you know if he really was interested in you before?
2. are you aware of any events about him (maybe he has now a girlfriend/soon to be gf)?
3. how much do you like this guy? is it enough for you to sacrifice some things?
if you guys are sexists, this will always be a disadvantage to girls - to tell the guys that you like them. really, it's hard to weigh if it's the right decision or not, or if there is no right decisions at all - even harder now that he seemed lost interest in you.
you also have to think about this angle too - confess to him now while you still can! if you let time deal with this, maybe you'd be drifted apart, apart enough that you might think it's too late.
don't panic. just relax. take your time in weighing your choices ok?
1. would you know if he really was interested in you before?
2. are you aware of any events about him (maybe he has now a girlfriend/soon to be gf)?
3. how much do you like this guy? is it enough for you to sacrifice some things?
if you guys are sexists, this will always be a disadvantage to girls - to tell the guys that you like them. really, it's hard to weigh if it's the right decision or not, or if there is no right decisions at all - even harder now that he seemed lost interest in you.
you also have to think about this angle too - confess to him now while you still can! if you let time deal with this, maybe you'd be drifted apart, apart enough that you might think it's too late.
don't panic. just relax. take your time in weighing your choices ok?
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Posted 02 June 2009 - 10:18 AM
for me.
one, he's avoiding you
second, he's aware of your feelings
third, he just found out that he likes you and is shy to get all lovey-dovey.
its NOW or NEVER.
confess honey.
even if he has girlfriend or not.
oh~
i think you're just quite sceptic about the way he reacted.
you're not used to his sudden change.
why don't you just ask him first?
you should clear things up first.
how about this.
you are about to hug him (again)
and he walked away,
approach him,
"hey, what's wrong, you don't like my hug anymore"?
say it jokingly.
it might work.
ahaha XD
JUST ASK THE REASON WHY HE CHANGED AND SAY YOU'RE NOT USED TO IT.
one, he's avoiding you
second, he's aware of your feelings
third, he just found out that he likes you and is shy to get all lovey-dovey.
its NOW or NEVER.
confess honey.
even if he has girlfriend or not.
oh~
i think you're just quite sceptic about the way he reacted.
you're not used to his sudden change.
why don't you just ask him first?
you should clear things up first.
how about this.
you are about to hug him (again)
and he walked away,
approach him,
"hey, what's wrong, you don't like my hug anymore"?
say it jokingly.
it might work.
ahaha XD
JUST ASK THE REASON WHY HE CHANGED AND SAY YOU'RE NOT USED TO IT.
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Posted 02 June 2009 - 10:35 AM
^i would hug him too and if he walked away, i would run to him and try to hug again.
he: what are you doin'?
you: i'm just a little sleeepy, what are you thinkin' about, me liking you?!?!
just feel his reaction, is he happy, is he confused, is he mad?
the rest is up to you
(and if he's happy, dump him, he shouldn't be happy xd)
he: what are you doin'?
you: i'm just a little sleeepy, what are you thinkin' about, me liking you?!?!
just feel his reaction, is he happy, is he confused, is he mad?
the rest is up to you
(and if he's happy, dump him, he shouldn't be happy xd)
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