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[jhealizzie]

of course you should be worried.
she met this guy, online?
i mean, you & your friend shouldn't trust or let a guy sleep in her room who she only met for a day or two.
he MAY be a thief, killer or something.
just watch out for this guy.
keep an eye on him, in not an obvious way.
don't be careless.
&& be careful.

oh~
ask your friend if she likes him or not.
because this sound she likes him.
what's her reason for letting this guy sleep in her room anyway?

[Cheri.B*]

I would worry as well since she doesn't know this guy in and out just yet.

Yet she letting him sleeping in the room.
It sounds like he's after for something....
since he want to sleep in her room and touching her <.<

Try not to invite him over anymore..

[hmong_lubpaj]

nina!!! say no to her! that's basically a dangerous thing to do if she hasn't even known him that long ><;; i wouldn't let a guy friend crash in my room. couch yea but room not at all.

[kireisnowtenshi]

Is it actually okay to just let a guy friend crash in your room?

Personally I have been in this situation and yea its fine with me...I mean the weird thing is that you hardly know the guy...thats what makes it hard. And in that case no its not ok for him to stay over cause you barely know him...so does your friend...but if its in her room and unless you have say over what goes on in her room...you cant really stop that. One of my good friends who i was staying with actually went through something very similar to this. Met a guy after she had a horrible break up and then he would come over and they would be in her room all night...I thought it was a lil strange since she just met him...but I have no say over who she lets in her room.

So for me to have a guy sleep in the same quaters isnt as strange as it may sound cause ive known my guy friends for a long time. The only problem would be me not knowing him as well as I would like.

Or should I be a mama and be worried about this?

The only thing I think you should be worried about is if he starts coming over more than usual and making extra attempts at trying to "get with her" as opposed to getting to know her.

[*Melissaa]

It's okay if you already know your guy friend well, but I don't think it would be okay if your friend just met him.

[des monstres]

he doesn't even seem like a friend, dude.
he seems more like an aquantince.
how is he her friend when they barely know each other?

and why are you guys so.. trusting.
you can't really trust anyone these days.
and you guys don't even know him.
so.. why is he even sleeping over?

be assertive. tell him he can't sleep over anymore.
and tell him he has to leave earlier.

i've slept in the same beds as my guy friends.
but i don't do that anymore since i have a boyfriend.
he's the only boy allowed in my bed. n_n <3

[aiyan]

Whoa.

Definitely worry about this. The guy seems to be taking advantage of her, and it's sketchy how he just goes to your house and sleeps on her bed. Talk to her about it, saying that you're concerned and it might not be wise to trust this guy especially since they met online and barely know each other.

If I were you, I would triple lock my room door and hide all valuables, lol.

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[Privodevat]

It's not really any of your business, so just leave it alone.
Unless he starts invading your space, let her live her life.

[vintageballad]

^Well he is living in the same place she does, so it is kinda her business.

That's such a dangerous way to try to write a book, lol.

[Privodevat]

^Well he is living in the same place she does, so it is kinda her business.

That's such a dangerous way to try to write a book, lol.

Actually, it seems like this guy is going out of his way to avoid annoying her. He's sleeping in the roommates room and not the couch which is in the shared space.

[mintcracker]

well I think it's no big deal. So what if they share a bed? It's not like they're having sex.

Whatever.

[winnay]

^ what the fk.

Anyway, big problem if its a dude she barely knows. no problem if a friend known for awhile.

[lil_miss_kawaii]

Well i am assuming ~ now that she has ended up sleeping in the same bed she is okay with it

I think if you are worried you should talk to her about it ~ she would probably appreciate it because you are a friend so its nice to hear opinions
especially if she said shes not really looking for a relationship etc

So best bet ~ talk to her first about it and give her advice
then all she has to do is listen and maybe take it or leave it ~ shes an adult and its her choice to take advice etc

[RYUUSEi]

It's creepy that he's even touching her at all and it is actually your business since she's inviting a strange guy into your home to sleep over. Even if he's not in your "shared space", i.e the living room couch, he is still "invading" your home. Two girls alone in a place with a strange guy that you both barely know? I'd be scared if I were you. What if he starts stealing things? He would be able to do so because your roommate INVITED this guy in. She should be asking you how you feel about this etc not only because you two are friends, but because you are also sharing the place together so talking to her about this would not be overreacting or being a "mama" at all. Just a concerned roommate AND friend. Good luck!

To answer your question: personally, no, a guy friend can't sleep in my bed and I have never/will never share a bed with a guy friend either. I just can't do it, haha. But everybody is different, I mean, most of my girlfriends would be totally OK with that. Though maybe not so much if they had known the guy for only 2 days ...

[heineken.]

nina!!! say no to her! that's basically a dangerous thing to do if she hasn't even known him that long ><;; i wouldn't let a guy friend crash in my room. couch yea but room not at all.

Yes, I agree.. especially since it's a guy both of you don't know that well!!!!!!!!!!

I've slept in the same bed of a close guy friend many times (nothing happened, we just fell asleep).. but I knew him and knew that he had no weird motives. This OkCupid guy is different.. since you don't know what he's thinking ><;; please tell your friend to be careful.

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