[JasonB]

soo...im got dump like couples of months ago i think..

we were doing pretty good actually but she just said that she wanted to dump me cau i wasnt wearing the pant of the relationship. ..

this got me very down so i started ignoring her ex. block her on msn, facebook, and to not say anything to her.

my friend told me taht her friend think that im childish for doing this.. =[ and i though about it and i think it so true.

i want to see her smile again..i wannat talk to her , anybody have any suggestion?

u guy think that i made a wrong disscusion ..cau i keep thinking that im wrong

[kimmmmy]

Yeah, you pretty much did make the wrong decision.
Like, all she was was telling you the truth on WHY she wanted to break up with you.
It's better than her just telling you she wanted to break up with you and she didn't give you a reason why...

Yeah, you were pretty childish to block, her and stuff.
But oh well, you learn from your mistakes. ^^

Hmmms, I don't know...go tell her your sorry and that you were being childish?
The only thing you can really do is talk to her about it. ^^

Sorry I'm really no help. xD rofl,

[ShadowMax76]

your aim: to see her smile and laugh again?

hm. guess the first step is to stop holding a grudge against her.
perhaps a little talk with her might help, but if you don't need it- then don't. you'll look cooler if you can start laughing in front of her. aha.

next is to start get binoculars.. m. or somehow get someone to organize a group outing with you two.

and lastly. perhaps it's best if you can look at her and realise it's over. to accept it. there's no hope. you're free again.

[Privodevat]

Here's some advice: stop being so passive! Be a man.
She dumped you because you were too passive ("didn't wear the pants"). By being passive aggressive (ignoring her, blocking her without telling her anything) you have confirmed what she had thought. I'm pretty sure you've exhausted your chances with this woman so it's probably best if you just forget about it and move on.

[jhealizzie]

CHANGE DUDE.
show to her that you still like / care for her.
i mean, do you wanna be friends with her?
or get back together?

[winnay]

Honestly it ain't hard to get back with a girl who probably liked you before or still like you. I don't know what exact terms she mean by "wearing the pants in the relationship" but I'm assuming she probably didn't want to be someone who let me guess making all the plans, first to text/call.. etc the one in action. Don't let ya GIRL DO ALL THE SWEET SH!T. surprise her one day without letting her know, tell her how stupid of your actions were and that you're in realization that you still like/love her and that you will change FOR HER(please don't rehearse, just express your feelings. girls love that) DON'T JUST SAY, BUT PROVE that you can be the one to make her happy.

oh. and don't make your move ONLINE, please. it's absurd to be apologetic online...

[JasonB]

CHANGE DUDE.
show to her that you still like / care for her.
i mean, do you wanna be friends with her?
or get back together?

ye i want to get back together with her =[

is it still late?