[GummyChocoXP]

my girlfriend broke up with me like about last week because we hardly ever saw each other since shes ALWAYS so busy. This was a problem for me too but i always thought that it could work out but she also told me that she thought she was ready for a relationship but actually wasnt. she said she'd like to be friends and i agreed to it.
At first i thought that this was a good decision but when i got home i started to think about it too much and i got such a mix of emotions. first i was sad then i was angry i didnt even talk to her for like 3 days but that was stupid of me and i apoligized.
Now we just started talking again as if everythings fine but i really miss her and would love to get back together but im not sure if she feels the same way. what do u guys think should i move on or tell her how i feel?

[ShadowMax76]

it's always best to know the enemy's intentions. rofl.

otherwise you're just being lead by the leash you put on yourself. perhaps the reason you were mad?

m. to move on. or tell her how you feel.
i think they're the same.

[hypnotiC]

it's time my friend. all about time. if a female isn't ready for a relationship, you shouldn't rush it. you'd end up rage quitting.

i been all this before and to be honest it's not a fun thing to do at all.

[seafood]

i say talk to her about what is up , ask her if she want to give it another shoot & if
the answer is still no then just move on.

[heheimawesome]

if a girl liked you enough she would MAKE time for you. life doesnt give u time and say okay here u go now have a relationship.

does she live with her parents? does she have a bunch of people to support?
if she lives with her parents, and doesn't have kids or younger siblings to support (because the parents are gone) then she not "too busy" she is just too busy for YOU because she doesn't like you enough. dont tell her you want her back and just move on. i mean there are bound to be more times where you're both really busy. you can't just quit when stuff gets hard.

[litaznboi]

you sound like a black friend of mine, he's flip though. If you do do something, post it back up, we want to know the consequences

[¥ēllόЩ]

Tell her how you feel. Its worth a try.

[brownman90561495]

agreed. tell her how you feel; talk about it and do it OPENLY. from there at least you can narrow down your options.

post it here when you have done it.

[ThaiNote]

welll just give it one last chance by telling her how you feel.
if she says no, then jsut get over it and treasure the friendship

[_Kelly]

Well, How old are you both? and does she have any experinece in dating before you? I had trouble being comfortable in a relationship at first during my first few times in a relationship. When a girl isn't ready, it means either she's uncomfortable having a boyfriend now, or an excuse to say she's not intersted in you? hopefully not the latter. I think you should take it slowly, if she doesn't want a relationship then give her friendship, be there for her, and make her feel more comfortable being around you and maybe later on it'll work out for both of you. She might change her mind. Second times are better than first. You learn and understand what your partner needs and want the first time, and give it your best the second time. You can take it slowly by being her friend, hinting and showing her that you have strong feelings towards her and want to be more than friends but try not to be too pushy

[GummyChocoXP]

i still havent said anything to her but lately shes been acting weird, she doesnt treat me as her friend and we hardly talk. Everytime i text her i would get simple response like "yea" or "nah its cool"