[lovebite]

It started around last year in the beginning of school year. I crush on guys really easily and then they freak out and avoid me and tell their friends and then they start avoiding me. T_T On top of that, I look at them a lot, which is understandable why'd they avoid me.

and I don't know why... it's like every guy I meet, they're the one. I don't know why... and I think this is happening again...with a coworker... out of all places... why? can anyone help me??!?! I don't know why I stare and why I am so deseprate!

[Privodevat]

You do it, because, frankly, you're a creep who desperately wants male attention anywhere she can get it.
If you have severe social anxiety or social awkwardness or feel that this behaviour is harming your relationships, I would suggest seeing a mental health professional.

[hamoosta]

You've been single for too long, my friend.
Hurry up and find a guy! 8)

[miszgotpho]

Uhm, have u ever tried to do something to take ur minds off guys ? like your own thing ..

[naoto]

some girls can not exist without having a boy. It's very bad you should mature and be independent. Don't be easy you're too good for that.

[xAzumi]

Its just nature and how the human instincts work

We tends to be attracted to certain characteristics in an ideal mate, and willing to do anything to attract that person attention.

Some tends to go to extreme as you stated, "stalkerish."

Everyone want to recieve the same attention back even if its "back off, I don't like you."

You want to let that person know that you like them even if you may come off a bit creepy.

[whood]

You need a bf or at least more guy friends.. then you might stop staring?
I dunno how that's gonna happen though if everyone avoids you.

[demllequ]

you sound like a little girl. LOL
I suggest you play it cool next time!

[h0ney]

did a guy ever like you?
sometimes guys enjoy the challenge ne...

[jhealizzie]

take everything SLOOOOOOOW.
because you're so fast.
i mean, at least try to be not obvious that you like someone.
Chill.
Let guys go gaga over you.

[Kamoku-Ai]

I don't mean this to sound rude but how many relationships have you had? It sounds to me like you just need more experience with boys. Instead of staring at him why not go talk to him and get to know him a little more? Or play hard to get. Like h0ney said, sometimes the challenge is fun! Also, if you're aware that you're staring at guys you like try to not do it as often. A little peek is good, but staring is a bit intimidating.

[manlytoe]

it's ok. i just think your hormones are raging.

[kimmi.kami]

maybe its cos you have no experience at all with boys.
._. and you may think the guys you've like, are like "crushing on you"
and you have a facebook or myspace account, and write everything about them on your profile.
sorry but, i knew a girl who was like that. actually i still do, and she STILL does that.
o_o

[¥ēllόЩ]

You're lonely and you need someone to pass time with.

[lil_miss_kawaii]

i think its because it been a while since you've been in relationship (if u have been in one previously) and you probably do not have a lot of male friends

[meiming8]

you just need to spend some more time with your friends and start pursuing your interests or studying more or something. You must be really stalkerish if all the guys you're crushing on are saying that about you. Even if you like them just try to be friends with them first and don't look so much at that, yeah?

[angels.disguise]

don't act so desperate & get a hobby.
guys like things they think they can't have
& if your going to be chasing after them all the time...
well theres no fun in that :/

back off & chill.

[hippiehop]

Staring is pretty creepy. How about you just try and take a break from finding a guy. Usually when you are the most satisfied with who you are is when guys come crawling. People can sense when someone is confident and people are attracted to confidence. But remember there is a thin line between confidence and cockiness though. Don't overdo it.