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#1 User is offline   loveAmore 

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Posted 03 June 2009 - 05:02 PM

So there is this guy right...
He's tall and cute but.. REALLY ANNOYING. He's always trying to get in my personal life and keeps asking why I'm upset. *I'm upset because he is bothering me*
At this point I don't care if he looks good I just want him out.
Everyone agrees that he likes me, however I have no feelings for him. *I'm not 100% sure if he likes me or not but it really seems like it*
Everyday he keeps patting my head, I really hate it and I feel like shouting "STOP john teshING PATTING MY HEAD" at him but I can't because I have a feeling he's going to come up to me later and ask me whats wrong and FORCES ME to tell him whats the problem.
He treats me like I'm his girlfriend and of course I am not, and I don't plan to be either. He's like a dog following you and won't go away.
I really want him to go away, I rather just not be friends with him but I don't have the heart to tell him 'get the hell outta my life'.
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Posted 03 June 2009 - 05:16 PM

hahahahaha. I remember I was in this position not to long ago--dude keeps john teshing with me to the point where I wanted to rip his neck...but weird thing was that I started liking him blink.gif

Anyways, what I did to get him to stop pestering me was to just ignore him and make it totally obvious that he's in your 'bubble'. If he can't take a hint, tell him to eff off. And if he comes back, asking you what's wrong--you should tell him straight up. Honesty is the best policy :]
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Posted 03 June 2009 - 05:20 PM

Girl, I've been there except the guy actually followed me to my house!=.=... I know this may sound mean but just tell him to mind his own damn business cause he's annoying the crap out of you and that you would REALLY appreciate it if he leaves you alone and gives you your space. I tried to say it in the nicest way possible, but that didn't do anything so I completely ignored him, and gave him nasty looks.
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Posted 03 June 2009 - 06:40 PM

Thank goodness that the dude who is bothering you is good looking. If he wasn't, I will be worried that it is the same stalker I had back in high school!

Anyway, tell him off. Be strict and blunt about it. Hopefully he will realize that what he is doing to you is really annoying you and that you're not playing hard to get. If he doesn't, maybe you can get your friends to help? Go as far as making up a story of having a boyfriend or something? =P
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Posted 03 June 2009 - 06:44 PM

Why not simply tell him you do not have interest in him and the things he is doing is annoying, not cute.

Or just hold another guys hand or hug him.
Let him think you have a boyfriend and he has no chance with you.

Do something before you blow up at him.
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 10:09 AM

You know why he's following you like a dog? Because you're being too nice to him. Just tell him to stop bothering you because it's annoying, just be honest with him. Tell him that he's crossing the line and being a little too friendly, and that you could use some personal space right now. It's better than "leading him on" with your silence. Besides, how the heck do you stand it? I have zero patience and I would have already blown up at him if I was in your situation, lol!
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 10:33 AM

i had the same problem. he thought i was playing hard to get, when i honestly thought he was so annoying.
so one day he was jokingly like " why dont you love me? *poutpoutpout*"
and i was like "cuz you have a big ego, you're annoying, and honestly, you're a creep."

he's left me alone since then. x]
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 12:54 PM

people are only as good looking as their personalities... I know of a guy who could probably grace the cover of a magazine when I first met him. Every girl I knew thought he was amazingly cute. Then 2 weeks later, after dealing with his nonstop chattering and overall weirdness.. everyone pretty much ignored and avoided him. Not worth the trouble. lol
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 01:03 PM

hahahaha, i was in a situation like this not too long ago tongue.gif
i actually went out with the guy, but after 2 weeks, he just
got on my nerves way too much.
and he was soooo cute. ugh, such a shame :/
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 01:37 PM

Geez, I met a super hot weirdo-creeper once, he liked me too.
After his constant, weirdness, I said some stupid excuses and lies so I'd never have to see him again.
Ugh, never knew super hot people can be so annoying, what a shame dry.gif

If I were you, I'd just tell him off. That'd be the end of it. Yeah, his feelings might be hurt but who cares? Not you, you want him out of your life, right? :]
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 02:41 PM

LOL you guys...

You say "good looking" like it's an excuse for the way that he acts...

"he's annoying, but he's not ugly so his stalking isn't as horrifying as it should be".
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 03:00 PM

I think its obvious he likes you but annoying boys are generally not good for the future so tell him t get a life smile.gif

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Posted 04 June 2009 - 03:02 PM

I had the same problem when I was in high school. My friends called him my stalker. lol. It's kind of mean but yeah. He was really annoying and wouldn't leave me alone. I didn't have the heart to tell him off so I just tried to avoid him as much as I can and hope that he got the message. Guess what? He did and I was able to spent my senior year in high school stalker-free.
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Posted 04 June 2009 - 05:34 PM

QUOTE (monrada @ Jun 4 2009, 06:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL you guys...

You say "good looking" like it's an excuse for the way that he acts...

"he's annoying, but he's not ugly so his stalking isn't as horrifying as it should be".
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LOLL....agreed. its like being goodlooking means theyre not actually stalking you....just bothering you 24/7 >_>

what a load of bologna! who cares if he's goodlooking...tell him he's a creep!!!!
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