[hiy0ri]

Let's call my hesitant friend A and my ex B...

I've liked A since junior year in high school even though I knew that he had a gf for maybe almost 2 years. I got to know him in our last semester in senior year... we became really really really close friends.

I met B during the last term of senior year... He was a friend of A. I had a crush on him... He said he liked me, asked me to prom... then later on, asked me to be his gf.

I didn't answer right away because I loved A. He broke off his relationship too maybe like a month ago... and that's when I confessed to him.. but he kept on pushing me away and even said he liked someone else and that he didn't like me 'that way'.

So after 2 weeks of thinking, I decided to go out with B... but after 5 months, I broke up with him (in MSN.... I know I'm horrible but it was hard for me to say in person)

2 weeks after I broke up with B, I found out A got back together with his ex. Later on, A found out that I broke up with B... few months later, him and his gf broke up again.

After that, A and me barely had any communication~

7 months after... A admitted the truth that he liked me since a long time ago too and he's sorry for lying. He said he thought I liked B more so he gave in. We both know how we feel for each other now. But he said he's worried it might ruin our friendship...

B, on the other hand, knows how I feel about A and is feeling jealous. He said he can't let me go and he still cares about me and he still loves me.

So what should I do? I really love A and I want B to move on...

[naoto]

Did you break up with B because you still love A?

Did you go out with B out of pity because you had no chance with A and B became a rebound?

Either way it's done. B can't do anything because you aren't his gf, if you like A then go for A. But I don't think you are asking us whether or not it's right to go out with A and hurt B. You are asking us what you should do to help B move on. There is nothing to do, B will be hurt whether you go out with A or C D E F G H.

You be nice to B. You tell him you still care about him very much even though in a friendly way. You wish you would never hurt B. One day we all move on. Technically i'm forbidden to use that line because I still love her 8 years after it ended but still. I'm a freak.

[marilu_kim]

go for the one you love. i think you'll regret if you go for the one you dont love