[manifesto cav]

i've alway hung out with korean ppl, dated korean ppl, and fought with korean ppl.
and my whole life revolved around my korean friends.
however, for a long time, i've lived in a very small and very white town,
and i was considered weird? lol idk why.
but anyways, i'd have to take the bus to the korean area, to meet my friends.

i did tae kwon do, but i thought my life was waaay to boring and i needed a new sport,
so the first sport i've ever played was football, and i'm about to play on varsity (no arrogance)
and, this meant..popularity (again, no arrogance), and now i've went from weird asian kid, to a jock.

and anyways, i'm really not into white girls,
but there's this cute girl that's been all over me. (she was like this before)
she's not in the group of girls my group hangs with (I RELALY DONT CARE)
and she's the only cute girl that's not been with 100 guys,
and she's not PERFECT, and she's really nice and cool.

and she's like a train waiting to leave to train station if i dont ask her out.
but i mean, i dont even no if she likes me.
cuz i think i like her.

i usually have that nooon-chee to tell in like 1 second, but she throws different signs.

1. she always asks me to hang out.
2. she always talks to me (not to the point where it's annoying)

and not like my friends, i'm totally not looking for sex.

but then again, idk if i shuld juist keep it single..

i really don't know.
advice?

[SHINEjaejoong]

She obviously likes you and she is pretty much waiting for you to ask her out so you should go for it.
I dont think she would give you those signs if she JUST wants to be friends with you.

xoxo

[_Kelly]

No regrets. When you feel it's the most comfortable time to say it, you say it. Your interested and why be single, when she's giving you signs that she's interested in you also, you should try it out, there's nothing to lose. Were all still young.

[manifesto cav]

She obviously likes you and she is pretty much waiting for you to ask her out so you should go for it.
I dont think she would give you those signs if she JUST wants to be friends with you.

xoxo

that's wat i'm thinking, but
i've never had this much trouble asking someone out =/
idk.

[Lie]

Maybe my reading comprehension is low during the summer, but I'm not sure you presented us with any signs that she's not interested? Everything looked positive.

[*reminiscing.soul.]

^ LOL i gotta agree.
But yeah, just go for it, there's nothing to lose ^^

[catheezy]

yeah, you don't have anything to lose. ask away :]

[MNLV27]

I don't see how she's confusing you or throwing different signs at you, so why don't you just go for it and just tell her you like her.

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

I don't see how she's confusing you or throwing different signs at you

Exactly what I was thinking....


Thank you.

[AngelsWhisper]

hmm. Not enough infor. haha but i think you should definitely give it a shot.

[dramaprincessxox]

You sound a bit young and undecided...lol
Anyway you have to first be sure that you like her. Because it's disturbing the way you say you're "not really into white girls BUT..." as if she's some weird exception or something. Since you live in a new environment now, you'd better ditch that attitude and fast.

It doesn't sound like she's behaving strangely, I don't think she is the one confusing you. She's hinting at you that she likes you, it's not very hard to understand. There's something in your head that is holding you back from confessing to her etc. and you will have to deal with that personally. Based in what you've written, it's possibly that thing you've got with "not really being into white girls". Do you like her as a person or not? Just decide. End of story.

[ritzy!]

from what ive been reading...
seems like it wouldn't hurt for you to ask her out~~~
and IF (unlikely from what ive read) she turns you down, at least you know now and won't be "confused"..

[manifesto cav]

I don't see how she's confusing you or throwing different signs at you, so why don't you just go for it and just tell her you like her.

ye, i guess i didnt really put much description, but
i was thinking about it, but
i dont want her to want me for my popularity...u no wat i mean? (not being arrogant)
yeah, definately that, i'm not sure if she likes me for who i am, or for my status.

hmm. Not enough infor. haha but i think you should definitely give it a shot.

from what ive been reading...
seems like it wouldn't hurt for you to ask her out~~~
and IF (unlikely from what ive read) she turns you down, at least you know now and won't be "confused"..

[StephyT]

Well, if you're unsure then just go on a date with her, one on one.
Don't just ask her to be your gf yet or anything.
The only way you'll know is if you give it a chance.

[shining_star[:]

Exactly what I was thinking....


Thank you.

dude 한스 ㅋㅋ i saw u everywhere on soompi tooo!! lol
btw yeah u should go for it just like every one said shes obviously waiting for you to ask her out
but uh how is this confusing? i think its normal for girls like her to give out different signs.
Give her chance and ask her^^

[AngelsWhisper]

well, it doesn't look like she's doing anything rash; like telling everyone that she's hanging out with you, the popular guy.
I'm gonna push the question a little further. what are you afraid of if you do ask her?

[manifesto cav]

well, it doesn't look like she's doing anything rash; like telling everyone that she's hanging out with you, the popular guy.
I'm gonna push the question a little further. what are you afraid of if you do ask her?

i finally got it!

i think i'm afraid to ask..first of all, i dont wanna get rejected.
but, ultimately, i'm afraid to ask cuz idk if she wants to be best friends or a good relationship...

i'm not 100% sure yet. and i'd rather not get embarressed.

1. we've really bonded, and i think she likes me (i got noonchi like that) but that might be "let's be friends" bond, but im not sure.
2. she talks to me or i talk to her almost everyday, and we like talking to each other, the awkward barrier's broken now.
3. SOMETIMES, we pass the hallway not saying hi, or sometimes not talking on the bus (idk lol)
4. most of the time, she tries sitting next to me.

ALSO, like we've hung out a lot, but
idk if she's shy or not, but it's all ways been with other people around.

[superhumanchichi]

Maybe my reading comprehension is low during the summer, but I'm not sure you presented us with any signs that she's not interested? Everything looked positive.

^Agreed

I think, if anything, you are the one not interested (or holding back) from her because she's Caucasian, or maybe because you're worried that she'll say "no" to you (which I doubt. She seems to think of you as more than just a friend). I say go for it! Couldn't hurt to ask, right?

Good luck!

[linguazn]

ask her out! don't worry about rejection. i bet she'd be flattered that s/o like you would think of asking her out!
anxiety makes you worry about the possibility of rejection when it's probably not even there.

[manifesto cav]

^Agreed

I think, if anything, you are the one not interested (or holding back) from her because she's Caucasian, or maybe because you're worried that she'll say "no" to you (which I doubt. She seems to think of you as more than just a friend). I say go for it! Couldn't hurt to ask, right?

Good luck!

ask her out! don't worry about rejection. i bet she'd be flattered that s/o like you would think of asking her out!
anxiety makes you worry about the possibility of rejection when it's probably not even there.

i dont wanna be a little girl but
can anyone guide me about HOW i culd ask her out?