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Ordinary Girl Dating A Celebrity? Possible or not?

#1 User is offline   erika.march1993 

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Post icon  Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:13 AM

Haha of course we all have those day dreams of dating our favorite celeb, but what do you think the chances are for that sort of thing to actually happen?

Having a crush on a guy is great and all, but I know people who just won't date anyone because of their obsessiveness with a celeb. The chances are small so most of the time I want to slap the common sense into them. tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif plus you won't even know how their true persona is like. They might be an angel in front of the camera and fans, but behind close doors they might be a monster tears.gif tears.gif tears.gif tears.gif tears.gif tears.gif

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it would be scary to date someone like...I don't know...Jaejoong maybe? Think of how many threats you're going to receive from fan girls lol.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:21 AM

Chances are quite slim unless they work closely with actual celebrity.

Celebrities date celebrities because they work/see each other more often and have more chances to get closer to each other.

I agree with you completely. They might seem great in front of a camera, but they can turn right around backstage.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:26 AM

QUOTE (kikkie.kl @ Jun 6 2009, 02:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
They might seem great in front of a camera, but they can turn right around backstage.


Quoted for truth.

To be honest, most celebrity x celebrity relationships don't work out because of the press and pressure from fans.

As for fans and celebs? I highly doubt it. Fans like to put their celebs on a pedestal. If you've ever experienced that, it's really tiring. I think the celeb would be tired of being expected to do this or that (even if fans say they don't expect anything it's not true. They've already formed their own skewed conceptions of that person).

I think, celeb dating a random person he/she meets on the street/cafe/bookstore or whatever is more likely (to work out, but less likely to occur).


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PPS. I think most celebrities have a big personality defect. They might act a certain way around people on shows, but let's remember they know it'll affect their PUBLIC IMAGE. Most celebs are divas.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:30 AM

oh dear god....
I never knew there were some girls who were that obsessed with a celebrity that they wouldn't date anyone else. WTCRAP LOL. Seriously those girls have no chance... and it's not a situation you'd want to be in. Celebrities are messed up. Even Jon & Kate didn't work out ?!?!! of all the people omg.

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#5 User is offline   sumi_ 

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:32 AM

hhaha. yeah..the chances are slim...or close to 0
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#6 User is offline   skycheerio<3 

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 10:58 AM

............
One thing I have to say.... is...
"but I know people who just won't date anyone because of their obsessiveness with a celeb."
this sentence plain scared me....
I'm glad I don't know people like that.

oh yeah to answer your question.. I don't think its very likely...
But my friend told me.. that katie holmes dreamnt of marrying tom cruise when she was little..
and now they are married.. dont know if its true or not...

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#7 User is offline   siyeon 

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:19 AM

It has happened before.. I can't think of anyone off the top of my head, but it's not like it has never happened before.
Unfortunately, these people have to be really resilient to criticism, hate mail, rumors, gossip, etc, which will come at that 100x worse than for their celebrity partners. Usually, that's why dating-wise, most normie/celeb couples don't last.

Also.... at least for the korean entertainment industry, you CAN meet certain celebrities but you have to have really, really good connections. Like, if you can get into hot clubs/bars in Kangnam, Seoul, you can probably meet celebrities... which means you have a slight chance of actually hooking up with them. But at the same time, most of the celebrity/normal people couples usually meet through mutual friends.

Anyway, I don't know why I'm rambling....
I just know that it's possible.. but I don't know that I personally would actually want to date a celebrity!
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:20 AM

skycheerio<3: It is true.

I think it is possible, but I doubt that they'd date an obsessive fan.
Maybe just a normal one, that listens to their music or looks up to them as an inspiration.
I think it's likely to happen.

The celebrity dating another celebrity thing only happens because they don't go out much and can't really meet other people as easily.
I know that a few celebrities have said that they've caught a fans eye before but lost them after.

Some of them also say that they want to get married to a fan, but I doubt they mean an obsessive one.
Just one that respects what they do.

So, yeah. I think it can happen.
Defo.
Anyone has a chance really.
You'll make it. Just keep going.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:24 AM

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lol agreed

It's not impossible
but most likely will never happen
this is the time for me to wish
my life is a drama

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 11:58 AM

Impossible, unless the stranger doesn't know that the celebrity is a celebrity, then it would safe for the celebrity to think they're not just using them. It's kind of hard to meet someone genuine knowing that they know you're someone famous.
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#11 User is offline   Baby-Kisa 

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 01:17 PM

The chances of that are so low, you might as well give up that hope. rolleyes.gif

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 01:31 PM

unfortunately no, lifes not a shojo manga.

This reminds me though,
Anybody knows Crown Prince Frederic of Denmark?
He met his wife -an australian commoner- in an australian bar.
And ever since they met they kept contact and eventually married.

*sigh* this is such a cinderella story~
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 01:33 PM


I think it's definitely possible but the chances are like, one in a million.
although I def agree about how stupid it is to be so hung up on a celeb.
I mean, I love taeyang but when it comes down to it, I don't actually except to date him.
that's highly unrealistic on my part -- especially since I'm not korean. language barrier ftw?

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 01:34 PM

doesnt it happen always?
im pretty sure most guy celb and girl celb has a bf/gf who's not famous
it happens always
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 01:49 PM

a day dream...alot...of me having a future with -insert name here-
but then i think again,it would never happen.



no genre just musicTOOFASTTOLIVETOOYOUNGTODIE
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 02:02 PM

Possible.
But unlikely.

i don't see whats wrong with it though
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 02:10 PM

possible, but veryyyyyy rare hahaha
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 02:11 PM

Depends on the girl and the celebrity. if they are ready to make it work why not.
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Posted 06 June 2009 - 02:47 PM

that denmark prince story is so adorable. *sighs* if my life was like that . . .

i think the chancces are slim too, & it really depends on the celeb's real personality & how you feel about them. personally, i think a fan-celeb relationship won't work out. the fan will love the celeb even if he/she does anything bad to them. a random chance meeting between a person who doesn't know the celeb might work better - then they will not judge them.

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Posted 06 June 2009 - 02:51 PM

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