[Gummy Dogs]

...chasing dust..?

I just found out today that I've been wrong for the past 2.5 years about this girl.. =/
Gaaah I passed up on so many other golden opportunities ... all for nothing
oh well

[x SaRaNg HaE x]

Almost a year and a half trying to get my ex-boyfriend back.

[PandyAndy]

Nearly a year trying to get a guy interested in me. Ah, the weaknesses of the human heart.

[Gummy Dogs]

Almost a year and a half trying to get my ex-boyfriend back.

Wait.. is that your ex in your avatar?
As I remember, I thought you guys were still together just last year?

[_xJASEY]

almost a year now.
ive let it slip the first time .. now im the one chasing xD haha
im lame.

[emceej]

i wasted one year of my life trying to get this one guy to like me.
what a waste of time but he really is worth wasting time. he is so gorgeous, has a really nice personality, and a great brain. oh well.

[Sam Sik]

3 years of chasing her.

1.5 years of sulking over our destroyed friendship and trying to repair it.

[plegend2007]

Don't ever waste your time and effort waiting for someone to come around.

Make your move, and if it doesn't work then....MOVE ON!

Don't let other opportunities pass you by....B/C you never know.

Longest I ever waited for someone was....After I ask her out and waited for her answer.
If yes...Great. If no...See ya.

[Shuga]

^ What if she says 'I don't know'?

And I wasted time not being myself. Bleh.

[elicasis]

Don't ever waste your time and effort waiting for someone to come around.

Make your move, and if it doesn't work then....MOVE ON!

Don't let other opportunities pass you by....B/C you never know.

Longest I ever waited for someone was....After I ask her out and waited for her answer.
If yes...Great. If no...See ya.

I do think like you too but I've realized that if you can feel that way, it means that you've never really truly liked that person, you were simply interested. It is good being able to get over people quickly but sometimes it's admirable to like the same person for a few years or even a year...

And the way you say it makes it sound like you think that it's a good thing. Trust me, it's not. You treasure the person so much more if you get him/her after striving for it

[naoto]

9 years loving her (not chasing, but she knows I do). I'm debating on whether or not to make my 1000th post about it '''

[Gummy Dogs]

Ah, the weaknesses of the human heart.

You bet. ... except its more like the brain/hypothalamus lol..
but I mean, you can be born(not your fault), do absolutely nothing, and still hurt someone's feelings.. =(
it must suck to be really hot and attractive.. only one of those poor saps can win.

[Vision_Epiphany]

I've wasted my whole semester....




Doing one topic waiting for exchange to Hong Kong Uni in 2 months time ....
Can't wait... but this waiting period really sucks since I had a really bad back (surgical stuff) until recently where it's goten a bit better.

But wasted a lot of time last year for a girl, it's funny when you look back to it now.
No attraction at all.

[screamxlove]

Two years with my last ex. It was on and off, though. Complicated.

But then I finally got over him and met someone else.

Wasted... just four months? Haha, it's not bad, but I just finally gave up on the new guy (:
Er.. Crush, that is.

[bipolar{polarbear}]

I've spend a better part of 3 years with her. Currently, I'm spending about 2.5 more years regretting everything I did to hurt her. I'd take everything back if I could and treat her the way she deserved. But the past can't be changed. I've spend a bit of time trying to get her to understand how I feel now, nothing works. I even thought about flying over there to go see her, but what's the point if she doesn't even want to talk to me anymore? No, I'm being selfish. Love is supposed to be about giving right?

[ShadowMax76]

eh. but still, you gotta be over one to move on to the next.

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

3 years of chasing her.

1.5 years of sulking over our destroyed friendship and trying to repair it.

9 years loving her (not chasing, but she knows I do). I'm debating on whether or not to make my 1000th post about it '''

Blah, I wish it could be easier.
But then I guess it wouldn't be as appealing?

Spent 5 1/2 years .
He completely ignored me after he found out I liked him.
._.

The latest one... I've liked him since the beginning of this last school year.
Now he knows I like him and I'm still wasting my time.
:/

[kibum-LOVE]

4 years and counting.
but maybe i wouldnt call it a waste though?
like, it hurts and everything because they dont care about you the same way.. but there were plenty of happy moments
and i think 1 happy moment is worth more than 1000 panful ones.

[plegend2007]

^ What if she says 'I don't know'?

And I wasted time not being myself. Bleh.

If she doesn't know...Sorry, but I don't waste my time with that. I don't like indecisiveness in a person, b/c that tell me, I am not right for this person, therefore, I just move on. But that's just me.

I do think like you too but I've realized that if you can feel that way, it means that you've never really truly liked that person, you were simply interested. It is good being able to get over people quickly but sometimes it's admirable to like the same person for a few years or even a year...

I never said I liked the person...Before it turns into liking that person, when I'm interested, I won't waste my time trying to find out if she likes me, instead, I will just ask her out. You should never like that person to the point of really liking them without even making a move in the first place. If I was single and I was interested in someone who is also single...Why wouldn't I make a move? Instead of lingering around for a year or longer hoping that person likes you back, you could have moved on and be open to someone else who might be a better match for you. Sorry, but I won't wait for no one. If they are not interested in me in the first place, I'm not going to get my hopes up with a "maybe" or "what if" and wait for that person. I live for the now and not in the past nor hoping for the future. The only thing I can control is now....It's just my opinion.

And the way you say it makes it sound like you think that it's a good thing. Trust me, it's not. You treasure the person so much more if you get him/her after striving for it

I never said it was a good or a bad thing. That is you making assumptions. That is how I live my life and how I view things. I don't beat around the bush and wait for things to happen....But hey, that's jut me.

How can you treasure the person more b/c it took longer to get that person? If it took that long to get someone, it's more of a relief, and it shouldn't make a difference on how much you treasure that person. Shouldn't you love and treasure just the same, based on their character or personality and not for other reasoning, such as what you're saying. That is just what I think and nothing more.

I have a gf now, and I treasure and love her more than any other girl before her; Yet I didn't wait around for her like a year or longer. When I was interested, I asked her out, and now, we are together. In fact, I like the fact that she knew what she wanted and didn't play any games with me. I am not going to love or treasure her any less b/c she didn't make me wait for her. But the truth of the matter is, I love, adore, and treasure her with all my heart b/c of the beautiful person that she is, and not for any other reasons.

I guess we have a difference of opinion, but that's ok b/c we all have different views.

[vindemi]

Oh wow you guys. I thought I was the only one.

3 years and counting. It feels like a very long time ago.
We don't talk anymore...because I thought I was fed up. I was about something else, but I haven't stopped.