This Guy Is Trying To Pick My Girlfriend Up

This Guy Is Trying To Pick My Girlfriend Up What should i do?

#1 WinSenSun12

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Post icon Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:42 PM

Hello, guys and ladies

I like this girl and i think so she likes me as well
but there is this one guy that tries to pick her up, he is in competition with me.
I told the girl to add that guy in the conversation, so i could talk to him
but then he stood in silence and not talk at all...

I really don't know what to do guys and girls please help me give some advice !

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:43 PM

Did you actually ask her out ? Since you said, you only liked her, and you think she likes you back..
If you didn't actually ask her out, any competition is fair.

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:45 PM

What are you going to talk to him about?
If I were you, I wouldn't talk to the guy, shows that you're weak and want to come to term with him or something

Well, depending on your age right now (which I had no idea), do you really like the girl? Or is it through some infatuation? kk

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:49 PM

Sorry, i didn't ask her out yet..
I am turning 17 guys

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:54 PM

Well,since you are only ASSUMING that she likes you back...
She's on no-man's land right now.

It's fair game, he is every bit entitled to try to become her boyfriend as you are.
Telling him that she likes you back,without her clearly stating so; is underhanded and wrong.

May the best man win I guess!

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:54 PM

Get ahead of the race than, if you think she's worth a try in dating. ^^

If you are 13 who posted this, I would tell you to go suck a...

Underage dating are like eating raw fish with a passion. (Should focus on study)

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:55 PM

be a man now. you don't try to talk the guy out of it, you tell him to get the hell away and not to mess with you.

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:57 PM

HAHAHA

17? Since when did 'liking' sb instantly mean you're a couple?
LOL nowadays dating for like a month might not even mean you're in a relationship. Making out and sex doesn't mean it either.

All's fair in love and war. Suck it up, he's doing nothing wrong. Grow some balls

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 10:57 PM

she's not even your girlfriend yet! Man up and ask her out before you lost your chance.

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 11:00 PM

QUOTE (WinSenSun12 @ Jun 12 2009, 11:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Sorry, i didn't ask her out yet..
I am turning 17 guys

My friend, don't claim her as your girl if you have no idea who she likes, nor if you haven't asked her out. I think it's time to make a move. Besides, the guy can do whatever he wants. You guys aint together yet

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 11:14 PM

Unless she's your girlfriend there's really nothing you can do.

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 11:17 PM

Topic title is misleading ;] "This guy is trying to pick up a girl I like" or something to that effect, yes. (:
I'm with BrightCloset. But you can either just ask her out before he does.

ask me something!

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 11:40 PM

Best thing to do would be to ask her out before the other dude does and ruins your chances of getting booty

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Posted 12 June 2009 - 11:43 PM

Since it's not official, may the best man win.

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 12:06 AM

lame.
She is not yours buddy.
anyone could grab her any time, any day, any minute, any second.

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 01:13 AM

Dude, she's not even your girlfriend yet. It's a fair game, and anyone can win.

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 01:26 AM

as everyone else as said... anyone can win.
if you really think she likes you, just ask her out.

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 02:14 AM

Don't hate the player...Hate the game

All is fair in love and war.

You better step your game up kid before she becomes some other guy's girl.

Go get her!

#19 SuperkAyjnr

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 05:20 AM

Well.. you shouldn't worry too much about the "new" guy. These things happen and occasionally some guy would "pop" up and start flirting or take interest in your crush. What you really have to just do is stay strong and have confidence. Don't give up and just keep trying and you might eventually get the girl you like.

I've had similar problems with other guys trying to steal my girlfriend but I kept strong. I tried keeping my confidence at its peak and tried to show my girlfriend that I truly loved her. Good thing is that she saw this in me and stayed faithful towards me. Every now and then when a guy tries to pick her up, she'd either just politely say she's taken or would talk with them a bit, and leaving it just at that - friends.

Talking to the other guy might be a good thing but it also could be a bad thing. It would show that you're having concerns and might make the other guy more confident. On the other hand, talking to him might detour him when he finds out that you like the same girl, only more than he does.

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