[trippy<3]

I'm really mad, right now, because my Boyfriend keeps doubting me.

We've been dating for about one month, and one week before the second. My Boyfriend and I have been fighting ever since we started going out, because I've lied to him in the past, and then he found out. Lying has been a bad habit for me since I was young, but since my Boyfriend's confrontation with me about it, made me realize how bad it was getting. So now I'm trying to get rid of it.

My Boyfriend told me he'd give me another chance at this, cause he has really strong feelings for me. But the thing is, he's been having a really hard time trusting me and having faith in me - no matter how hard I try. He doubts me any chance, small or big, he gets.

(Btw, I'm 14 years old and my Boyfriend's 16 years old.)

We're always arguing about this, even when I'm telling the truth - he's not sure if he should believe me because of all the rumors he hears from all the people that I'm "close with" about me.

I don't know what to do. I'm already doing all I can do, I talk to him through everything he questions. I tell him everything that goes on right now in my life, and I left no room for secrets.

The only thing I haven't told him everything about is my past, which I'm not sure where to start - cause I don't exactly think about it. In fact, it's been left to dust in the back of my mind.

We're both suffering in this madness.

EDIT:

We resolved things out, but he's always questioning me about communication and how I don't "communicate" with him. I mean, I tell him what's on my mind, how my day is and stuff, BUT he still thinks I'm hiding stuff from him. I tell him about my past and what I remember, but he just thins I'm still not communicating with him enough. I don't know what he wants me to say. He's trusting me more now aday's, but he still worries about me because I hang out with my cousin and sometimes her best friend (which is a guy) and he thinks that I'm up to "no good" when I'm with them. I call him constantly, but he still thinks that i might do him wrong. Has anyone ever felt this way about your S/O?

[the dork]

i remember when my boyfriend lied to me.
i didnt trust him for a few months.. so we fought constantly.
it was horrible.
it just hurts a lot when someone like your s/o lies to you.
its like.... your not worth the truth.
so stop lying and gain his trust. it can take a while :/ but..
without trust in a relationship.. there is no relationship.

[trippy<3]

i remember when my boyfriend lied to me.
i didnt trust him for a few months.. so we fought constantly.
it was horrible.
it just hurts a lot when someone like your s/o lies to you.
its like.... your not worth the truth.
so stop lying and gain his trust. it can take a while :/ but..
without trust in a relationship.. there is no relationship.

But how can I gain his trust? I tried everything I can think of "/

[the dork]

But how can I gain his trust? I tried everything I can think of "/

to gain his trust.. you have to be honest.
it takes time to gain trust. (:
you just gotta show him and you just gotta wait.
eventually.. he will start trusting you.

[Seraphyx]

Is there even a question in here? This just sounds like a typical immature relationship where either one or both participants of the relationship is/are not mature enough. It's your fault that he doubts you since you were the one that was lying to him. You can't expect miraculously to gain his trust over night or quickly. Trust takes time to develop, so keep up what you are doing. If he doesn't start coming around after a while, then your relationship is probably not going to work out.

Best of luck~

[trippy<3]

to gain his trust.. you have to be honest.
it takes time to gain trust. (:
you just gotta show him and you just gotta wait.
eventually.. he will start trusting you.

I am completely honest with him, and I do wait for him.
But he doubts me every single time he can. I do understand why,
but he expects me to do much more then I really can.
He's the very protective, cautious, and jealous type of guy's, you know?

[Swtess]

Only thing you can do is just tell him the truth and leave it at that. Don't argue or make a big fuss cause then he'll think you have something to hide.

[_ATELIER]

you're still young , if you can't work things out, move on =P