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#1 User is offline   imaviet 

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 10:42 PM

How persistent are you when it comes to the person you like?

There's this guy who likes me, and he calls me like 29384938 times
a night. No kidding. Its not like I won't answer it, but I have my OWN
things to do at the moment, and I really don't have the time to
talk on the phone.
Although I keep telling him I'm not interested in a relationship,
he still tries to... uh... 'pursue' me.

What about you guys?
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#2 User is offline   naoto 

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 11:34 PM

He is creeper. I would give her space, but let her know I like her. If she is interested she would let me know. Like this girl, she knows I like her but I know she doesn't so I give her all the space and don't creep her out by saying stuff. Well it's been 5 years since I confessed but maybe one day she will like me back.
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#3 User is offline   xAzumi 

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 11:42 PM

I like this guy for 8 years of my life, elementary, middle and throughout highschool. I never confessed to him, but I know that he knows I used to have feelings for him. I tried to talk to him late at night, write him love poems, and give him meaningless gifts. I watch him fall, and pull himself up. I watched him through all his mistakes, and his past girlfiends. Still in my heart, I still like him, I can't let go. But now, my feelings changed and I start to understand, I need to let him go and find someone else who will have the same feelings for me. Life is too short, to chase after guy, who does not return the same feelings back.

I never confessed to him. He is my nieghbor for 7 years. He is now currently with one of my friends from middle school. He is a year older than me.

I just liked them in my mind, I don't called or aim them 24/7.

If he don't like me, I just keep it to myself and watch him silently falling for another girl, and wishing it was me.
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#4 User is offline   wicked_ 

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Posted 13 June 2009 - 11:43 PM

If a guy says he's not interested then I don't keep pestering him because if it were me I would want the same. I wouldn't want someone to keep bothering me after I've already showed no interest whatsoever. XD
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Posted 13 June 2009 - 11:47 PM

i'll only pursue if the person i want, wants me back. lol.
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Posted 13 June 2009 - 11:54 PM

Usually I'm never persistent when it comes to crushes. If it's with someone whom I really and sincerely liked, then I will be persistent to a certain extent so I won't seem like a total creeper, lols. However, I'll only be that way if I know for sure, I have a chance. If not, then as soon as I know they don't want to be with me, then I'll stop :)

When it comes to others liking me though, and if they're persistent even after I told them I'm not interested, then that would be annoying. Cuz the ones I've dealt with before tend to become stalkers and just.. want to find out almost everything about me so it would seem like they "know" me and etc.

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Posted 14 June 2009 - 12:01 AM

i give up before anyone gets creeped out [including me] . lol
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Posted 14 June 2009 - 12:06 AM

I would probably never end up confessing, but if I did and get turned down. I just have to move on, the person isn't interested in me. Why try to make something happen when it won't? Over time the person might grow feelings but, by that time..the 'confessor' might grow feelings for someone else already. A lovely cycle, haha.
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Posted 14 June 2009 - 02:37 PM

I usually keep it quiet, unless they like me back.
This guy... still.. likes me.. after 6 months and I've rejected him because I had a boyfriend :3
and he`s still trying to change my mind..
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Posted 14 June 2009 - 07:54 PM

Usually when I get the idea that the person I like isn't interested in me I try to forget them

Otherwise I do stupid and annoying things to get their attention and it just makes me look bad...
and I start feeling down on myself

I just think that if he doesn't want me it's his loss and I'll find someone who appreciates me as much as I appreciate them. Life's too short to waste time on someone who doesn't appreciate you.
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