[ShadowMax76]

x_X' cos.. his intentions weren't exactly pure, though not unreasonable, they aren't exactly just 'platonic' or 'friendly'.

i know it's probably a quick answer for a lot of ya, thinking about those guy friends of yours', but think about it.

o_O' are you a friend to your crush?

'friend' wouldn't be the exact word i'd use.

thoughts please.

[xAzumi]

He is still a friend to me, no matter what his intentions were or from the beginning.
People are humans, and of course they will have some sort of attraction to the opposite sex.
Whatever floats his boats. I tried to make sure he knows what my feelings are, so I don't lead him on and breake his heart.
Its hard knowing that the person you love, only thinking your just a friend. I respect his feelings and I hope he respect mines.

[xsaranghae<3]

ahh well...

as i see it i still think of them as a friend.
no matter what their intentions were
in the end it led to a friendship?

but i can somewhat see it in your POV

their intention from the beginning wasnt a real "freindship"
it was just one so they can build upon and ask you out etc...

but you gotta think
they never did ask you out did they?

and to ^^^ it is hard knowing the person you love/like doesnt liek you and only sees you as a friend D:

and if you know he feels the way he does
you should set him straight so there arent any ruined friendships or broken hearts

dont know if i was much help...

but i can ssee it both ways

i just think it doesnt matter what first intentions are.

it just matters about what came from(were established from?) those intentions?

it was hard explaining that last line...

maybe i'll be back to edit?

[h0ney]

if his the sleazy type then of course not, id prob think his annoying
if his the really nice type then i just think im too selfish to want to keep him with me but stay as just friends

[eggball]

I will treat him as a friend..
Personally, I don't know how to reject friends.
But I definately won't lead him on, I'll tell him my stand straight.

[Swtess]

I have but not as close as before until I forget the feeling.

[MsChen]

He'd still be a friend to me even if he likes me.

I mean, he's the one crushing on me. Not the other way around. I'm just his friend. If you know what I mean (?).

If that kind of stuff happens, I'd make sure he knows my feelings about him. (That we're friends and nothing more, to prevent heartbreak.)

[Delusional]

Not really...
If they still like me and I know about it, I get kinda paranoid when they get touchy.
Then it gets so awkward when they stop liking you. Because they start seeing you differently.

And it's the same way for me. If I like the guy and stop, I can't really stay friends with the guy =\
That's one of the things I try to fix.
But most of the time I don't really consider myself a friend to my crush because of my ill intentions.

[f0reveralways]

yup! at some point, a good chunk of my guy friends have admitted to liking me. for some, first they admitted, and from that we became friends.


it's no biggie, really. they get over it and yeah, life goes on.

[azurette]

Until he sketches me out.

[ShadowMax76]

T _ T' you're missing the point.

aren't they slaves instead of friends?

>.>' yes -there is a difference.

[xspringrollsx]

Yes and no.
Yes I would consider him a friend if I get well with him and all but then again if you knowingly consider him a friend when you know he likes you that would be as if you're leading him on..

[lil_miss_kawaii]

Usually I am

I stay friendly but if they keep pursuing i tend to distance myself
If I make clear that I only see them as a friend and they understand that and try to move on I dont see why we cant be friends ya know if we get on and all?

[HaplessChild]

I've had it before. I always make sure there's at least one conversation where I say the words "You are in the friend zone with nary a way out," so they're not hoping or wondering.

[binjoo]

Of course. If he's a cool dude, then I would still like to be his friend even if I don't like him in that way.

Unless he's really sleazy and overly persistent, then I don't think it could work cause I would get annoyed easily.

[jihye87]

Still friends
Guys get over rejection faster than you know.
Tested and verified on my guy friends.

[j.saranghae]

of course, hes my friend!
i cant just lose a friend because of that, i actually treasure my friends

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

If he's cool, then yes. My bffer got over it superquick.
If he's annoying, pushy and claims not to like you anymore but asks you out on like 23984 dates, HELL NO. He's just a creeper.