[bonjour tristesse.]

Guys that are good with kids ; is this a plus for you or a minus?

I remember asking one girl and she actually said negative because in her eyes, it says that
its encouraging her to have kids with him and that hes ready for all that sex stuff. i never really
looked at it that way.

To me, its a positive. I am a sucker for guys that are good with kids.

How about you?

[funKdam3ntal]

I think guys who are good with kids is a plus because I'm bad with kids. I think guys who are good with kids are nice on the inside.

[Swtess]

Why would it be a minus? Who wants to have kids with a guy if he's horrible with them? That girl has a weird way of thinking.

[thesisoflove]

: ) I think its a plus ! I wouldnt want a boyfriend or a husband that sucks with kids :/

[bonjour tristesse.]

Why would it be a minus? Who wants to have kids with a guy if he's horrible with them? That girl has a weird way of thinking.

ROFL. thats what i said!

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

Definitely a plus.
(:

Yeah, that girl is a tad weird for saying that...
I think she was thinking present and not future, I hope.
Haha.

[Teeeee]

PLUS,

it's soo cute!
8D

ya wtf...why would it be a minus? x__x;;

[forgottenmemories]

My boyfriend is really good with kids. I think its a plus, and its cute too.

[abductedalchemist]

i think it's a plus.
my ex was good with kids, it was absolutely adorable

[MNLV27]

It would be a huge plus.

What girl wouldn't love it for a guy whose good with kids? It shows that they also have a soft spot and not always manly all the time because kids need affection and a manly guy who has a soft side is hot.lol.
I'm glad that my bf is good with kids.

[spearmint20]

+++

i dislike guys who hate kids and make an excuse for it, like, "oh kids don't like me, they bully me." riiiiiight.

[CaptainO]

It's a definite PLUS.
I think it's adorable when guys are playing with kids.
And I'm planning to have a family someday, so my future husband better like a lot of kids because I want a big family. :D

[dolcee.]

its a huge plus! it shows that the guy has affections and a soft heart that can be applied to you as well being his girlfriend. plus, in the future you know that he'll be willing to help you handle kid problems and be a good dad. in addition!!! its super cute and adorable when guys play with little kids :3

[megan92]

hellz yeah it's a plus! one of us has to be good with kids and it's not me haha. well, i just have no experience with them really. and yeah it's totally cuuuute and is a nice indicator he'd be a pretty good dad. if i ever have a kid i need to know my s/o will be a good dad and that i will be a good mom too.

[damyoungji]

It is a plus for me. I love kids, but it will be a drag if I am to look after them or something, and he will not co-operate or even bother helping out.

My mom tells me that if I ever get married and have children, I will need a guy who are good with kids (or at least likes them) because I will be an overprotective mom. Maybe, maybe not? Either way, I know that I will worry about their safety a lot and make sure they don't turn bad.

[AzizOnDeck]

Hi I'm a guy and I <3 kids so anyone who thinks it's a minus can shove it 'cause if you land a guy that hates kids and you two get married and start a family... well good luck with that! xD

[ephemeral.]

Definitely a plus for me. O___o
It shows their caring side, it's really adorable.
Warms my heart. (:

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

Mind If I say something that I observed?
well it's rhetorical Question, so thank you.

Well From what I noticed, guys that are good with kids/little children are usually quite funny/interesting in a way.
so I think if kids like you, usually girls will also find you interesting.

Don't get me wrong.. it doesn't mean that girls like guys who are good with kids.. maybe they do.. but my point is, guys who are good with kids usually have a fun/interesting personality.
Which is why girls usually like the guy...

meh just from what I observed though.
Might be fake.

I personally think little kids (under 11) are annoying.

[love*beat]

I smell a pedo.
(My first thought when I read the title)
JK! Godd I'm weird haha. XD

But yeah if a guy is good with kids (and obviously not in the way that I thought LOL) I would think he's a sweetheart (:

I mean, if you end up marrying the guy you would want him to be that way
Considering that well, I would think a guy who didn't like kids would probably dump you if you get pregnant. o__o;

[dreamyxxx]

of course it would be a plus
for me, i think a guy who is good with kids is generally a good person. (as in warm, affectionate, compassionate etc)