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This topic is all about the reason for breaking up with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Please give the true reason for your breakup rather than the excuses couple make up to soften the blow.
Would you ever get back with your ex? or is it one of those breakups that even prevents you from being good friends?




Lets discuss lol

[HaplessChild]

Cheating.
Fist fights.
Long distance.
Boredom.
Realizing he's just never going to get his crap together.

[meimei__KOUSEKI]

childhood friend arrived
we were sort of being happy and all
then after some time, our parents saw how we look good together (i know, but things like these still exist in real life, but don't get me wrong..i love my current bf/fiance. we get along better than my ex a million times!)
i didn't want him to find out about this from some other people so i told him myself
shouting on the phone like crazy
...and during the reunion we had (he was there, and so was my new bf/fiance) and they had a fist fight
i felt stupid being in between

[mintcracker]

constant arguing (more on his part)
misunderstandings
communication issues
dishonesty (his side)
sick of all the crap


so basically I was just tiredand couldn't take all the bull anymore.


If there's no trust, and there's constant conflict...the relationship is dead.

[lisalee89]

Cheating.
Fights.
Arguments.
Different point of views.

[Kihyun's#1]

she wanted the relationship on the sidelines, i wanted it more serious. I wasn't as much a part of her life as i wanted to be and it was tormenting me. so we broke up.Haven't stop thinking about it since.granted it was yesterday though

[x_MiSSANN]

-Less and less things to talk about
-He wants something I wasn't ready to give
-He's a jerk face
-It was getting boring
-Cheating...kind of
-Didn't feel like putting with him and our relationship anymore

Would I ever get back with him? Heck no. I realize he was a bigger a$s now than when we were together. Gosh, I didn't even know what I was thinking when I said yes to him.

[illumiinate]

+ Couldn't stay faithful, basically flirted with every girl he came across WHILE we were going out.
+ Too clingy, completely changed once we started to date and couldn't form his own opinions.
+ I realized we had absolutely nothing in common, the conversations always died—never anything to talk about.


But fortunately I found my current boyfriend and I've never been happier

[Mannosuke]

She maxed out my cards and put me on hold for another month.

[b.changg]

Just simply not liking the other anymore.
It happens, if you don't build the relationship strong enough.
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[damyoungji]

- Racist and made fun of others (even people of my own race)
- Sexist (males will always be better than females in every way)
- Cheating? (take other girls out, but does not take me out even once)
- Huge ego (thinks he is the funniest person around when he is offensive)

What on earth was I thinking?

[Alice16uy]

-Less and less things to talk about
-He was unattractive to me as the relationship goes on
-It was getting boring
-clingy and annoying
-different POV about life and basically everything. We don't have anything in common
-he's too heavy, has too much emotions, emotional dependent and waayyy too emo about life for me
-Didn't feel like putting with him and our relationship anymore

bad relationship. Since we broke up, i've been really happy. ^^

[Angxizzle]

he was SOO CLINGY, he never let me have my space. he always assumed i was doing something. the biggest ego ever, he actually called me to ask if i wanted him back. =_=

[mintcracker]

^ LOL the last point HAHHA

[YESUNGHWAITING!]

-Our families weren't getting along
-We were both too immature (mostly him)
-Long distance
-Didn't think for himself

I still liked him a lot when I broke up with him, but I'm glad I did it.
We're still really good friends, but I don't think I'd ever get back together with him.

[ShadowMax76]

jealousy. she kept talking to me about how guys flirt with her. friend or stranger.
how fun it is for her to be with other people.

then my judging of her twisted beliefs that allowed her to seek a lover's affection from guy friends,
and lead-on many other guys through what she called "friendship"
to her apparent and naive obliviousness of a guy's true nature.

_after a few months, i couldn't pretend to smile for her anymore, nor could i try and understand her beliefs when it came to the many guy friends of hers that kept on confessing to her even to this day.

but my excuse was valid. "i don't feel anything for you anymore."
kinda hard to when you feel hard done by by that person.

. it's sad though. i've realized that 1. people use people: it's a fact. and 2. the perfect love would be non-judgmental, no matter how much you know, and to love, without expecting it in return _ what she gave me. but lol. i guess one needs to feel special to feel happy.

[iRAWRoX]

he was too emotional and got upset over the smallest things :/ i appreciate the fact that he was caring, thoughtful, etc., but him crying alot became the first thing i thought of when i would think of him :/

and no, i wouldnt get back with him. we're still good friends now when we talk, and we've both found someone else :]

[ROCKiT]

too much argument.
always said "lets break up"
said he'll never change for me.
communication.
way more. it was bad.
i noticed what an ass he was in the end...

[bebeSO-viet]

Lack of communication
Misunderstandings
Arguments
Dishonesty
Lack of trust
I grew tired and bored of him because he was just not what I wanted

[ohmysanity]

stupid arse arguments over dumb stuff
ex having major issues with herself than I can't help with
me being an Chuck Norris who doesn't care about people at all
her being some wild party girl--and that seriously turns me off
fakeness, lack of communication;
finally;

I was just tired.