[I_Love_Rice]

Have anyone done something like, telling your s/o they don't care about you, or have it been the other way around?
How do you feel? and what would they do?
I got mad at my bf for stupid things (PMS-ing) I know it's bad to blame everyone on it. But I always get so angry during those times. And I told my bf he doesn't care about me blah blah blah and should find someone better than me. And he ends up telling me, "when did i ever said i don't care about you" and that he doesn't want to deal with it. And Then the next day i left a message to him, telling him I'm sorry. And he still avoiding me, he lives too far away to visit or anything... I know he's there, but he's just ignoring me.. WHat should i do? Have anyone else been through this? It's the second day, I haven't talked to him...

I feel so bad, i explain everything to him... but I haven't called him.. Should i?

[MNLV27]

Why don't you just call him? What's done is done. Maybe you need to think before saying stuff like that in the future then.

[AMIbunny]

eeek. I always say that And i've been going out with my bf for 1 1/2 year....

when I tell him " u dont care about me.." he's like "how do i not care about u? i always try to find time to spend with u."


I'm so stupid... he is the best boyfriend anyone can have... lol.

But its hard control my anger/jealousy/ stupidness xD im still trying to improve.

YOU should definetly Call him!!! tell him whats wrong and just talk to him

[KimKTN]

well it hurts when he thinks he was doing a good job taking care of you - and you tell him the opposite just because you were pms-ing

just call him and say tell him you appreciate him bearing through while you were being difficult and you appreciate it every time that he is so understanding and "forgives you" (boost his ego and guilt him into forgiving you this time?) --- but yea, controlling the anger would help for the future - theres no point in saying you know why you get upset - but you can't do anything to control it for HIS SAKE

[nxtlvl]

to show him you really mean it when you apologize, you might want to go visit him instead of the other way around. tell him you're sorry, and make it clear that you do realize and appreciate he cares about you by telling him how he shows how much he cares.

[meiming8]

sometimes I feel like my s/o doesn't care about me as well bad feelings. Maybe instead of just lashing out at him, you should try to discuss how you feel next time? Though I'm not one to give advice really, I never say anything when I'm upset >.< And don't say 'you deserve someone better than me', I guarantee you that annoys ALL GUYS. Maybe just give it another day or two, and just calmly call him and apologize and just discuss what he does, and why you reacted that way. He probably is avoiding you because he's worried you're going to explode your feelings on him again. Just be calm when you talk to him, and I'm sure he'll take it better

[bonjour tristesse.]

what you did shouldnt have been done. i mean, i get you, pmsing and stuff.
but telling him to find someone better than you .. you shouldnt have said that if you dont want him to
find someone else.

call him and apologize frankly.