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He Likes Me... But I dont ><" tips?

#1 User is offline   BubbleTea_x3 

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Post icon  Posted 16 June 2009 - 03:44 PM

Okay so lets start with the story, shall we?

So before I even knew him, I actually thought he was 'cute'.
Then we ended up being in the same class.
Then my bestie had this 'great' idea that me and him match (since we are asian ==")
So she technically convinces everyone that we should start dating.

So then once we were playing spin the bottle (*sigh* I regret it now)
And i actually wanted to kiss this guy (his friend) sweatingbullets.gif
But I ended up kissing the guy that likes me -_____-"

I really had no feelings for him,
So we starting talking allot on MSN and I saw him as a really good friend,
but turns out he thinks of me differently.

Then on a day my bestie told me that she talked with the guy,
and she found out he liked me.
And I was like O_O
Ans she likes, so do you like him?
And i'm like... no...
Then somehow, someway I think everyone can see that he likes me.
Even one of his friend told me that he likes me.
I've heard from at least 6 friends who told me he likes me.

Then I got boyfriend and (the guy who likes me) friend was like talking to me and told me,
Yeah, I wish you luck and everything with your bf, too bad for the guy who liked me, he's such a idiot to not chase after you.
And the guy who likes me told that guy who was talking to me, that he likes me.
Point is; I know he likes me and I think he knows that I know that he likes me (I think)
So I tried different ways to get rid of him
Like taking advantage of him, like ask him to buy me stuff etc.
To knock some sense into him (I know it's not that kind but w.e ><")
And I tried avoiding conv. with him (doesn't work)

He never confronted me that he liked me, well he did but on MSN saying:
Didn't ever occur to you that I john teshing like you?!
But I guess he thinks I never received the msg.
And my other bestie keeps on teasing me about him liking me =="

He never confronted me telling me he likes me,
So technically I can't tell him straight to his face that I dont like him.
What should I do?!
Help tears.gif

Oh btw: Me and bf broke up.

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Posted 16 June 2009 - 03:49 PM

What the heck are you talking about? I got lost in the "I think that he knows that I know that he thinks that...".

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Posted 16 June 2009 - 03:52 PM

Didn't ever occur to you that I john teshing like you?!

lol he cursed out his confession? hahaha
anyways, confront him. Ask him if he likes you and give him ur reply.
everyone gets that 'hey you know he/she likes you?' and like everyone tells you that except the person them self.

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Posted 16 June 2009 - 04:11 PM

QUOTE (小甜密 @ Jun 16 2009, 04:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What the heck are you talking about? I got lost in the "I think that he knows that I know that he thinks that...".


sweatingbullets.gif Sorry for the confusion ><"
Well I think he knows that I know that he likes me.
As in he knows that I kno he likes me (if this even makes sense to you?)
ok nvm I such at explaining this situation XD

QUOTE (k o o k i e. @ Jun 16 2009, 04:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Didn't ever occur to you that I john teshing like you?!

lol he cursed out his confession? hahaha
anyways, confront him. Ask him if he likes you and give him ur reply.
everyone gets that 'hey you know he/she likes you?' and like everyone tells you that except the person them self.


yhe he did ><"
I don't think I'm that gutsy to confront him XD
Since like all of us hang out together I find it might be awkward :S
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 05:09 PM

The best way is to just flat out tell him that you only [emphasize the word ONLY] see him as a friend. And if he doesn't take the hint then just tell him that you don't like him more than a friend.
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 05:39 PM

QUOTE (adore_linda @ Jun 16 2009, 09:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The best way is to just flat out tell him that you only [emphasize the word ONLY] see him as a friend. And if he doesn't take the hint then just tell him that you don't like him more than a friend.


Agreed. Or talk about relationships one day and say how you are not interested in anyone or in dating at the moment.

Or if you're good, you can somehow gear him towards the relationship issue and make him confess (haha, I have done that before).
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 09:04 PM

put on your big girl panties and be straight forward with him

I know from experience that I HATE being unsure and I actually am really appreciative when a guy tells me "I just don't like you as any more than a friend"
I actually respect them a lot more for doing that
to me it shows that they care about my feelings and don't want things to get confusing or dramatic

Of course say it in a nice way, but just say it and get it over with
dragging it out like this is more painful than just telling him.
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 09:06 PM

mmm...
high school drama
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 09:06 PM

Just talk to him. It'll save you (and him) a buttload of trouble later on :)
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Posted 16 June 2009 - 09:21 PM

um well he likes you, you know he likes you, he knows that you know that he likes you.
you know you don't like him, but he doesn't know that.
just ask him do you like me? even if you both know it and then give him youranswer.


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Posted 16 June 2009 - 10:39 PM

Just talk to him in a normal conversation and pretty much say you only think of him as a friend?
End the drama... Sure it will hurt like hell and things might be akward for a bit, but if he cares and all and is mature he will understand?
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