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Hit And Run? Re-edited! Added another story! This is LONG! Sorry!

#1 User is offline   MzTLuv3ee 

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:08 PM

My best friend and I have known each other since 8th grade. We are now going to be seniors in high school. Just recently, we had a big problem...........

She has this boyfriend she lives with, he was in a gang (TOP). Just recently, he was locked up for a gang shooting. He got out a few days before school ended... She was really happy. Anyways, on the 3rd to last day of school, she, for some reason HAD to rush home to see this boyfriend. What resulted afterwards is her rear-ending this lady. It was an old lady. It was pretty bad because my friend was driving a 4Runner and the lady was driving a normal sized car (I can't remember what).

My friend didn't have her cellphone (she gave it to her boyfriend), so she couldn't call me. I took my time to get out of school, I was driving home on the same road she was driving on and I saw her. She was screaming for me to pull over, and I did. I pulled over and went to see what was happening. The lady in the car, couldn't move. She just sat there and cry. She told me her back, neck, stomach, shoulder, and legs hurts. She also has a little boy in the back, who was fine.

So I was so scared. I was shaking. She borrowed my phone, to call her dad. No one picked up. She tries calling her mom, again no answer. So she turned to me and simply said, "I'm leaving, k?". I was like, "What?!?" and she repeated, "I'm gonna go." I said, "You are NOT going anywhere!" She ignored it, got into her car, and drove off. The lady was screaming in her car, screaming and crying. I was so scared! And I felt SO bad! I was crying too!

So I called the cops, it took forever for them to come! The ambulance happens to pass by and stopped to check on the lady. They got her into the ambulance. But on the other hand, my friend was home and was texting me on her phone. She kept telling me to not snitch on her, she'll do anything for me. She thought we were friends, she'll pay me. She'll do anything. Just don't snitch on her.... etc. You get the point. Ehh, I don't know how she could do this. I told her she was an inhumane irresponsible freak! But she still insist on begging me not to tell the cops anything. She told me to leave!

But I didn't, I stayed and reported what happened to the police..... I snitched on my BEST friend. sad.gif I felt terrible but I had to do it or I can't look at myself. Now she won't talk to me. She deleted me off her friends on the messenger lists, myspace (It's not like I get on alot anyway) etc. I feel so mad at her because she still doesn't know what she did wrong, but then sometimes, I wonder if I did the right thing?

Seriously, I don't know how she could just leave like that. When it is HER fault! She also left me there to deal with her crap. sad.gif I don't know! It's been almost 2 weeks now, but I'm still so bothered about it. I just had to get this off my chest but can someone tell me if I did the right thing?? I keep having doubts, because she's my BEST friend! sad.gif sigh........





I have another story about her I was just telling someone on the 3rd page. I figured I should put it here too..



Before, my god brother was so nice to her. He gave her rides when she didn't have a car, when she wanted to sluff school (her parents checks her attendance), she would call my god brother to pretend to be her dad to call in and check her out. He was so nice to her (because she was my BEST friend), he takes her out to eat and all this.

One time, she was at the mall with HER friend, she went into ZUMMIES and stole something and got caught. Her friend left her, she called me and my god brother (I was with him) to come. We didn't know what happened so we came. He went into Zummies to talk to the police, I stayed out so I didn't know everything that happened, just that she had to go to court for it and my god brother SIGNED the paper saying he will be responsible for her to appear at court on that day.

The night before that day came, we told her to go, she says, "No." I was so upset, I txted her telling her to go or my god brother is going to get into big trouble. For something she did! She ignored me. I called her, she rejected my call. My god brother called her, she rejected his call too. She text him later and said, "I'm not going! I'm gonna die. I'm gonna get into trouble." So my boyfriend, my god brother (he is also my boyfriend's really good friend), and I was talking and they decided to come to her house around 6 the next day (she has summer school, so she leaves around 7-8 ish?) to talk to her dad.

They came, and caught her dad. She was in the car with him, I guess she REALLY was planning to go to school. God! I was so mad! But they talked to her dad, she got into trouble and went to court, ignored me for a few days and we talked again... until her accident!

But my god brother never talked to her again afterwards but she doesn't seem to care? She doesn't seem to regret losing such a good friend or anything. My boyfriend hated her since.


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I think it's karma for her because before someone hit her in a parking lot when she was driving out of the school. No one got injured or anything. Nothing happened to her car except for the little thing they have on the truck where you step onto to get into the car (I have no clue what they're called) fell off. Her dad made it a big deal and called the guy's insurance, and told his daughters (she and her sister) to pretend to be sick.

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:18 PM

yes you did the right thing.




your friend is hella messed up to leave you there like that though
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:24 PM

lol raaaaaaaaaaat.

Her fault for running away. You were just following procedures (or, picking up where she left off, literally).
Plus, her man's probably going to get himself locked up again anyways, so she'll regret her decisions even more.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:25 PM

Reading that pissed me off.
She should take responsability on what she's done.
I mean, she just left you and the old lady there. >__>
You did the right thing.

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:28 PM

You definitely did the right thing on staying and reporting her.

Your friend was scared...maybe that's why she left...but she should have stayed and it was so irresponsible of her to leave you and the person she hit like that. If she deleted you off her lists/not speaking to you now after you DID THE RIGHT THING then it really shows you what kind of friend she is, huh?

And what do you mean "she still doesn't know what she did wrong"?! How can she NOT know what she did wrong? I think it's right that you're angry at her, and don't feel guilty for doing the right thing!

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:35 PM

Your friend is really messed up. If she doesn't understand, then just forget her. What she did was incredibly wrong and irresponsible, and she's finding someone to push her blame on.

Don't doubt yourself, not even for a moment. You did the responsible thing, the humane thing, the RIGHT thing. There was absolutely nothing that you did wrong. You should commend yourself for not letting her pressure you into doing something you knew you would regret. Be proud of yourself.

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:39 PM

you did the right thing. Your 'best friend' is a pinkberry for doing that. I'm appalled by what she did. You don't need to feel any guilt AT ALL.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:41 PM

QUOTE (Tranberry @ Jun 19 2009, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And what do you mean "she still doesn't know what she did wrong"?! How can she NOT know what she did wrong? I think it's right that you're angry at her, and don't feel guilty for doing the right thing!


She doesn't know because she called me a few days later, because the cops called her and she was scared. So she kept asking me if I snitched on her, why'd I snitch on her. She acts like what she did was nothing big. You know what I mean right?



Thanks guys! smile.gif I don't know why, there's still another side of me that feels really bad towards her though. Ahhh. I'm so stupid. sad.gif

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:50 PM

QUOTE (MzTLuv3ee @ Jun 19 2009, 01:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks guys! smile.gif I don't know why, there's still another side of me that feels really bad towards her though. Ahhh. I'm so stupid. sad.gif


I agree, now go buy yourself a sno-cone to congratulate yourself on a job well done.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:58 PM

QUOTE (MzTLuv3ee @ Jun 19 2009, 01:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She doesn't know because she called me a few days later, because the cops called her and she was scared. So she kept asking me if I snitched on her, why'd I snitch on her. She acts like what she did was nothing big. You know what I mean right?

Thanks guys! smile.gif I don't know why, there's still another side of me that feels really bad towards her though. Ahhh. I'm so stupid. sad.gif


If you ever talk to her again, tell her that what she did, would be considered a felony is some states because someone got hurt. =) And stop feeling bad! Go buy yourself ice cream or something. You deserve it, for doing the RIGHT thing.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:01 PM

Don't feel bad, if I was in your shoes, I'd do it too. The girl needs to get some moral sense knock into her.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:07 PM

you did the right thing.
she shouldnt be all mad. it was her fault
she needed to get to action done to her.


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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:10 PM

even if you didn't snitch on your friend, the old lady would've been there as a witness
damn straight you did the right thing, your best friend is messed up
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:20 PM

are you stupid?
of course you did the right thing!

you should lose that 'friend' of yours
dont go running back to her

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You did the right thing, but you're a SNITCH and an bubble gum imo.


I would never trust you IRL.


A person like you deserves no true friends.



I may sound like a d-bag, but that is the honest truth.



A better way to deal with it would be to get the Old Lady HELP.


And if the cops come just say you don't know wtf happen.


yea you're a douche


scratch that I dont think you're stupid
this person is
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:30 PM

QUOTE (xTyneeTom @ Jun 19 2009, 04:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You did the right thing, but you're a SNITCH and an bubble gum imo.


I would never trust you IRL.


A person like you deserves no true friends.



I may sound like a d-bag, but that is the honest truth.



A better way to deal with it would be to get the Old Lady HELP.


And if the cops come just say you don't know wtf happen.


Honestly, you're pathetic.

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You did the right thing. If you didn't tell the police that she did it, the elderly woman would have. She got
what she deserved and do not go back running to her as a friend.

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:36 PM

I wouldn't say you actually did the right thing more than you did the ONLY thing. Your good morals left you there to wait for the police.. and then what were you going to tell the cops? YOU yourself rear-ended this lady.. without a scratch on your car? Some random person hit and ran the lady and you just randomly decided to pull over. The lady knows what your friend looks like and her car model. Even if you lied to the police, your friend who eventually get caught anyways and she would still blame it on you.. just give your friend some time. If she's reasonable, she'll eventually think you had no other choice

ithink tyneetom is joking guys.. there's no way idk wtf happened would ever work
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:37 PM

QUOTE (xTyneeTom @ Jun 19 2009, 02:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You did the right thing, but you're a SNITCH and an bubble gum imo.


I would never trust you IRL.


A person like you deserves no true friends.



I may sound like a d-bag, but that is the honest truth.



A better way to deal with it would be to get the Old Lady HELP.


And if the cops come just say you don't know wtf happen.

How is she a bubble gum? In what planet did snitching became such a crime to you? Speaking out the fair truth is treated it's own way. Plus, even if she didn't snitch her friend, the old lady probably spilled it out herself.

You took the right action so don't fright or feel bad. If I was in the same boat, i'd do the same. Your friend deserves to go through all that trash, a friend is supposed to take your back, not run away herself.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:47 PM

Wow, madprops for doing the right (but albeit harder) thing.
That was really selfish of her to run off and leave you to clean up her messes. It doesn't matter if she's your bff-er or not, I'd do the same to my family if they were acting that irresponsibly. That's just wrong.

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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:49 PM

So did she get in trouble? Yo she still need to pay for the damages she done on the car and the old lady. What you did was absolutely right and you should have no shame in what you did.
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Posted 19 June 2009 - 01:52 PM

hell yea you did the right thing. if ever one of my friends did that to me, regardless if they were my best friend or not, i would do way more than just snitch, she's obviously not a good friend let alone a friend if she left you there with the responsibility of telling the cops what happened
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