[lalaFLY_x3]

problem solved :] close topic please.

[hobobear]

he likes you.
in the beginning he probably was trying to be all "grown up" and wants to create that barrier between him and teenagers.
but i think after he got to know you more, and you guys spent a lot of time together, he started to develop feelings for you.. and is forgetting about the barrier.
good luck

[xKanane]

Well, I think that it's quite obvious that he does like you :]
All those signs that he's giving you must mean something ~
And his change in attitude towards you....Yep! He's into you.

[lalaFLY_x3]

he likes you.
in the beginning he probably was trying to be all "grown up" and wants to create that barrier between him and teenagers.
but i think after he got to know you more, and you guys spent a lot of time together, he started to develop feelings for you.. and is forgetting about the barrier.
good luck

i don't really know. it's not like he's ever set a real barrier between him and teenagers. one of his really good friend is younger than him and until recently, he was considered a teenager. and he acts kind of immature sometimes, so i can't really say :/

Well, I think that it's quite obvious that he does like you :]
All those signs that he's giving you must mean something ~
And his change in attitude towards you....Yep! He's into you.

i can't really tell. and i think that even if he did; he wouldn't tell anyone because he wouldn't want to admit that someone he use to like as a sister is suddenly someone he likes. because at some point, he told me that he would never want to like a girl he saw as a sister because everything would turn really weird between them two. :/

[aimfullyz]

I'm going to be honest... and I don't think you should assume that he likes you.
When you have feelings for someone, you tend to subconsciously think that every affection they show
is a sign that they like you(I know I do)
I fully read your story and it seems like he could have been just
showing you that he cares about you as a good friend or big brother figure.
Since you two have gotten to know each other better, I think it's normal that
he asks you about your well-being like if anything's wrong and whatnot
because he was worried about you and he was being a good friend.

I don't mean to be pessimistic but there have been instances where I misunderstood
the actions of a guy I liked and I'm just basing this reply on what happened to me.

I think you won't know if he likes you or not unless he tells you or steps out of
his comfort zone to show you how he feels(if he's shy).

[AHLEENA]

ask him if he likes you romantically.
don't guess his actions and don't assume.
from reading what you wrote, i think he 'might' like you-
-but i'm not really 100% sure either.
just ask him yourself :]

good luck <3

[demllequ]

he likes you
but you have to ask to really know.
and 4 years isnt much of a difference.

[ny-sw / ny_sw.]

I think you should go ahead and ask.. it seems like it, but then you never know.. guys are weird sometimes. :/

[shotamerican]

4 years isn't so much of a difference, but if you both are still really young...

then he might just be really fond of having you as his "kid sister."
in junior high and highschool, i was always close with my guy friends in the way you spoke of but it never got romantic.

but generally, from what you described, there's a good chance he does like you, assuming he is out of highschool.

[xwinnie_lovex]

um.. looking at it in one way
he does seem to like you

but after considering what others have said
ya it does seem like hes looking at you like a lil sister as well

so i think you guys should talk about it?
just be like "youre really confusing me. do you like me or are you just playing around with me?"
or something like that

if he really cares and wants to be friends, things wont get awkward
if he doesnt, then...things will

good luck~

[lalaFLY_x3]

I'm going to be honest... and I don't think you should assume that he likes you.
When you have feelings for someone, you tend to subconsciously think that every affection they show
is a sign that they like you(I know I do)
I fully read your story and it seems like he could have been just
showing you that he cares about you as a good friend or big brother figure.
Since you two have gotten to know each other better, I think it's normal that
he asks you about your well-being like if anything's wrong and whatnot
because he was worried about you and he was being a good friend.

I don't mean to be pessimistic but there have been instances where I misunderstood
the actions of a guy I liked and I'm just basing this reply on what happened to me.

I think you won't know if he likes you or not unless he tells you or steps out of
his comfort zone to show you how he feels(if he's shy).

the thing is, i don't think he'll ever tell me because of quite a few factors that i can't explain. and i don't want to wait 'till he tells me anything because chances are, he won't tell me anything useful. i want to get over him asap if he doesn't like me romantically.

ask him if he likes you romantically.
don't guess his actions and don't assume.
from reading what you wrote, i think he 'might' like you-
-but i'm not really 100% sure either.
just ask him yourself :]

good luck <3

i don't really know how to ask him. asking him would be so weird for me because i'm not going to know how to open up that conversation or anything like that.

he likes you
but you have to ask to really know.
and 4 years isnt much of a difference.

4 years is a big difference in his eyes because of how big the gap between your minds are. through out 4 years, you can experience a lot and your maturity level can change.

I think you should go ahead and ask.. it seems like it, but then you never know.. guys are weird sometimes. :/

i concur about them being weird.

4 years isn't so much of a difference, but if you both are still really young...

then he might just be really fond of having you as his "kid sister."
in junior high and highschool, i was always close with my guy friends in the way you spoke of but it never got romantic.

but generally, from what you described, there's a good chance he does like you, assuming he is out of highschool.

well, i'm going to be a sophomore in september and he's going to be a sophmore in college. there's still that big gap of mental age and how much a person can mature in 4 years.

um.. looking at it in one way
he does seem to like you

but after considering what others have said
ya it does seem like hes looking at you like a lil sister as well

so i think you guys should talk about it?
just be like "youre really confusing me. do you like me or are you just playing around with me?"
or something like that

if he really cares and wants to be friends, things wont get awkward
if he doesnt, then...things will

good luck~

i don't really know how to ask that. it's really hard to bring up that conversation about liking each other. we never even had conversations about liking other people. he generally never has that with other people either because he doesn't act that way to other girls. so i don't really know how to bring it up.