[ShadowMax76]

No, don't go to that thread and look for answers. And do be honest with yourself here.

I know you know what you like.
but I think its a little twisted/misunderstood when it comes to trying to attract the opp. sex.


What do you think the opposite sex looks for in their opp. sex?


_don't forget to mention the not-so shallow level. :]

[courtney6776]

Im a girl so in a guy's point of view...
-looks?
-body?
-a girl that has charisma?

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

I like an innocent looking girl
-smart
-Nerdy-ish
-dorky
-Funny
-not so shy
-not boring
-interesting
-pretty
-good looking

that's it.

[Octopus__]

Huhh.. my guy friend asked me,
"Hey, what do girls look at when
they want to hook up with a guy?"
I just smiled and joked, "Face?
Hygiene? Oh, major points for
big butt." I was really joking, but
he said, "Oh guy's look at butt too!
And the boobs." He wasn't joking, lol.
But, I'm not sure that's true since he's
an inconsiderate bulk I call a friend.

I'd like to say most guy's look for
someone to relate to and find a friend
in, but I don't think it works like that.
It's more of a general attraction, isn't it?
Some guys like looks. Others like the
personality? However it works, I just say
someone who's pretty. ;D

[Malice_Kaiser]

I heard of guys digging girls who don't wear make-up, look pretty naturally. That way they can't take off the make-up finally and surprise him with how different she looks. Because I've heard of that happening.

At least I hope that's true; I never wear make-up. ^^;;

[SarangHeyo <3]

lee Hyori
yeah thats what they want.
but that girl must have a special charm
and someone thats not fake
and is totally cool in their own way

[emceej]

lol. im a girl and i think a guy looks for an outgoing & all natural sexy girl.
but that really depends on their personality.

[blahs07]

I think that a guy would look for a natural beauty type of girl who doesn't rely on make up.
Along with something bout they'd prefer a girl with good personality and a bit of looks rather
than a hottie with bad personality. Since my guyfriend told me that...

[junsujunsu]

the same things my sex looks for

[Kanzen]

Guys look for:

- Pretty face
- Decent body


- Has a sense of humor
- Easy-going
- Smart
- Well-mannered
- Confident

[AnthonyKkoKko]

HEHEHEHEH

it's 12:12 AM and i think i'm still high from SNSD's comeback, but i'll try to do this...

i look for:

shallow-wise:
-an inch or two shorter than me
-luscious, long, silky hair
-long, defined, hot legs (turn on )
-pure looking face
-relatively large eyes (but not too big...)
-clear, luminous skin
-no facial hair >_>
-and yeah i look "down there".... 'nuff said xD
-straight, white, shiny teeth
-healthy body
-good looking

i think i just described SNSD O_O''

personality-wise:
-warm-hearted and compassionate
-dorky and cute
-can be hot and sexy at the right times
-smart! nobody wants to be their S/O's tutor...
-funny and is fun to be around
-nice and not insulting
-understanding
-tries to be happy and doesn't bring people down
-interesting
-HONEST
-mature (yes, some girls can be immature)

other:
-has ambitions and dreams
-hygienic. then again... all girls are hygienic....
-nice family

somebody that can be a good friend to fall back on in bad times
somebody that can be happy for me in joyful times
somebody that can be HOT and SPICY when i'm feeling spicy
somebody that can be calm, and nice + compassionate when helping others
somebody that can be understanding when nobody else will understand me

... that's it, i think.

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OMGENIE

i think i'm WAY TOO DAMN picky!
LOL
I JUST GOTTA SUCK IT UP IF I SEE FLAWS AND ACCEPT IT, LOL!
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...... wait. you asked for who the OPPOSITE sex looks for. damn. i'm a guy. my bad... did the wrong thing. >_>''
um... well, i really have nothing else to say so i'll go sleep now. good night soompi

[RiderKamen]

I'm going to answer the title of the thread.

They aint looking for me lol

I rather be me than someone's ideal.

[girlpika]

I think it'd depend on the guy. Different guy's have different tastes, right? But, I think all guys would want someone who's personality was good and was pretty? Not too sure though.

[donporkuloin]

From my experience I've noticed the opposite sex looks for

-In most cases the bad boy type that the female can try to change.
-Guy who is tall.
-Guy who is cocky/arrogant.
-I'M NOT GENERALIZING WHEN I SAY THIS, but most Asian girls I've talked to do not go for Black guys when it comes to long term relationships. The ones I have met seem to have a majority of Black people in a certain "light" that is not true to all Blacks.
-A guy who will deal with the games the female plays along the way.
-Then I've met some girls who just care about a guy's muscles. Even though in most cases his brain power is low, and he's a prick.
-There are the group of girls who are just outwardly, or low key gold diggers. You know what they are after.
-The newest one I've seen is the girl with a "princess syndrome" aka wanting to be taken care of all the time, and everything paid for, etc.
-Girls that will keep playing games with a guy just to see how long he will pursuit her.. then she pushes him away. I don't get why girls do that one?
-As much as girls say they want the right guy. They want a guy or 2 they can push over as well. Like getting the guy to get coffee for her at 4pm while she's sick. Knowing the guy likes her. She's still fiddling him along. Doesn't know why girls do stuff like that either?

[Amaranthine Memories]

I'm a guy, and this is what i look for in a girl.
- Personality is a MUST.
- Funny, makes me laugh, never boring
- Good looking, must be regular or above. haha
- Clean in hygiene
- Healthy
- understanding
- Likes sports?
- i can go on forever...

But, looks are temporary, because once they start making babies, their looks will start to fade away. (for girls)

[cocopuffs]

I heard of guys digging girls who don't wear make-up, look pretty naturally. That way they can't take off the make-up finally and surprise him with how different she looks. Because I've heard of that happening.

At least I hope that's true; I never wear make-up. ^^;;

I don't like girls who wear make-up, so I guess that's true?

[chamisul]

- Funny
- Smart
- Fashion wise
- Good looking
- Nice legs
- Obedient
- Clean
- Good memory

[BAZINGA!]

Guys like girls to wear makeup until those girls become their g/fs. HAhaha.
Guys look at body and then face. Once they assess their attractiveness they will get to know them and decide if they connect on a deeper level.
guys also like collarbones and back dimples.. just like girls find the "v" of a guy's hip really hot.

Most guys know within a few seconds whether or not they're interested in a girl, usually. I think girls tend to look at the "whole package" while guys focus more on the details of the opposite sex. Maybe..

Personality wise? Hmm.. don't know. ahaha.

[Cheri.B*]

I heard of guys digging girls who don't wear make-up, look pretty naturally. That way they can't take off the make-up finally and surprise him with how different she looks. Because I've heard of that happening.

At least I hope that's true; I never wear make-up. ^^;;

The guys I know who say this means make up that looks natural and not too much. Just simple
With look wise, I see most guys want girls that are simple.
Simple style and clothing like a top and jeans. Nothing fancy.
Long hair. Nothing curly or fixed up.

Personality... that varies a lot so that is a toughie.

[Mannosuke]

[Too much to bother to list]

Whereas guys have a much more reasonable list that's at most under 100 items including variations of the same thing.