[dwaeji219]

ok so i just started dating this guy and he's just way too shy.
he is really nice and really smart, but i think he's just too introverted and shy to make the first moves.
i mean, he tried to kiss me, but he couldn't because he was too shy.
and tomorrow, it's our first date, and i want to get to know him more and make him feel more comfortable around me so that he make the first moves.
how should i act around him tomorrow? how do i make him do the first moves?

[lovechi7]

YOU SHOULD make him feel like YOU ARE COMMITTED and that YOU ARE COMFORTABLE with him....he might think that your not comfortable with him and you guys should start like small talk (talk about things you both have in common) act normal =DD AFTER ALL, HE LIKES WHO YOU ARE right? =) this takes time

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

well firstly the problem with shy guys is they are afraid of initiating.
Most of them are just afraid of that.
Once they are comfortable around you, they will change.

So don't even bother trying to make him make the first move.

[ShadowMax76]

x-X' cling onto this arm, and do all that stuff. perhaps he thinks he's not allowed? lol. so i guess you gotta 'say' he is. :]

+ though, wouldn't a shy guy be fun to play with? >D bwahaha

[janelforsure]

Haha. Play 20 questions with him or something. Me & my BF do it all the time &
we've gotten REALLY close. Not exactly 20 questions but ask him about his interests
& all that. Chat it up. Get to know him. Open up.

[bonjour tristesse.]

dont make him feel pressured at all. if he's shy,
then eventually he'll start to open up to you little by little. make him feel
as if he doesn't have to do anything and such. i mean, a relationship shouldn't
be based just on kissing or whatever you know?

[MRLEE]

lol buy him a drink..nah im kidding
but yeah maybe go out somewhere get like some coffee and just chill.