[boffrenzyy]

hey guys >< i haven't used soompi much & im pretty new to it but I needed some help. .

so my story starts back in February, with my then-boyfriend, Mark. Our relationship was going so smoothly, but we realized that the whole relationship started in a whirlwind... it wasn't special. We didn't know much about each other, and we felt physical attraction got in the way of what we both agreed on to really matter, personality. Around March, we broke off our relationship- kind of on pause; so that we could get to know each other better. We promised that we would get together again someday.

The next few months were amazing, and just recently, we decided to go to the beach to hang out and have a great time. We invited a few of his friends, and a few of mine. I had to leave a few days earlier because I had to get some things done in Seattle, but they were still there for a couple of days after I left. When I was at the airport on my way back home, my best friend Ana calls. She tells me she's going out with Mark. At this point, I'm furious. Speechless, I say "okay," and hang up the phone.

You see, Ana was really my best friend. We've known each other for eight years, and she's basically been my sister. We've been through everything together. I was even more upset because Ana and Mark were going out a few days before they told me. My one wish is that they would've asked me, or told me before. It really sucks to have your best friend and lover go sneak around behind your back..

I was so frustrated, I called her and explained to her why I was so upset and how I couldn't understand how she would ever do something like this to me. She just kept apologizing and hoped it wouldn't ruin our friendship.

I don't think I can ever see her the way I did. I never blew up at her because I felt the more mature I was, the more she would realize how this really affected me and how much time I put into her actions. Whenever I feel like I can forgive her, she uploads pictures of Her and Mark... and it really hurts. I asked her if she had a secret relationship with him, she could just tell me because it would be much better than her lying, again. But she kept denying and said she really regrets what she once did. She said she keeps the pictures up for the memories that they shared together. And, she tells me that they've decided to break up because they don't want to ruin friendships. Obviously, the attraction is still there, so I don't know what to do. I see them every week. . .

I don't know what to do.
I feel like even if I start talking to Ana again, I will never be able to view her as a best friend. She knew how much I liked Mark....
and Mark? He knew I loved him.

Maybe I'm overreacting..

sorry everyone, but I would love if you gave me some advice. Thank you in advance.

[MNLV27]

At times like these, you just gotta tell yourself life goes on.

I don't see why you and mark needed to break up in order to get to know each other, when you guys could of just gotten to know each other while still together. In the end there's nothing that you can do. They both like each other, just let it go and let them be together. They probably didn't tell you because they were afraid of hurting you.

It sucks that you have to be the one that's hurt by two people who you like and care about but you should just let it go, don't let them stop you from moving on and being happy.